I have 5 sis-in-laws and 1 brother-in-law.. I dont talk to my bro-in-law because of crap he's done to me..(long story, but very good reason why i dont) So anyways, my husband and i have had problems last year and it caused us to separate, all though it wasnt a good reason but we still did. During the time we did which was 2 to 3months almost, he meet a friend (girlfriend) he had a relationship with this girl for about 2 months until she had to go back home, shes from CAL. and we live in TX. So anyways, it took at least 6 months longer for me to actually take him back..When we got back together it was very hard for me. To me it didnt seem like his family liked that very much (us working things out)..Things were very weird between us, i didnt talk much to them because they accteped this girl like he wasnt even married..so after a months i deceided to change my ways with them and actually try to talk to them. So i come to find out that one of the sisters is still talking to her..
2007-10-15 05:52:18 · 6 answers · asked by love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can't control the social life of your in-laws. There's nothing you can do about it.
If they've always been rotten to you, then have as little as possible to do with them.
Let your husband maintain his relationship with them as he will, just ask him to leave you out of it.
2007-10-15 08:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes personalities clash, for whatever reason.
But you are not married to the in-laws, you are married to the man.
Your man's choice to be with you has nothing to do with his family, nor does your rmarrige. If his family doesn't have to like it.
It's always nice to get along with in-laws, but it's not the end of the world if you don't... i'm sure there are other people in your life who you love, and respect and who care for you deeply. depend upon them for friendship and support.
If your sister in law is still talking to the gal your husband was dating, perhaps they have a friendly connection. Again, this isn't a problem, unless you make it one.
2007-10-15 06:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand wherein your coming from. If I might get at the side of my sweetheart's mother, then you'll be able to too. Getting at the side of your spouse will have to have precedence over her mom. Just kill her with kindness. You will likely be joyful you probably did. Your spouse demands her mom and so do your children want their grandmother. Just be cool, type and picked up. It will take the whole thing you'll be able to muster up however no less than you will not think responsible for no longer attempting your high-quality. In existence we must be trained to get at the side of a wide variety. You will likely be a larger character for it. Good good fortune and love your spouse.
2016-09-05 10:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would careless about what they think about you. The only person you should care about what they think about you is your husband. And that depends, sometimes. But I would tell them to stay out of our business and tell your husband as well to tell them the same. As for them talking about you, get used to it, b/c they do that. I would just use it as a stepping stone to better myself. People will always hate on you, REGARDLESS!!! Actually, you need those "haters" out there, to keep you on your toes. I welcome them. Really, though, I would not give a damn about what they said about me as long as they did not say it in my face. And when they do/did that, I would check their a**......No Doubt!
2007-10-15 06:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're all nuts and are people that you should not even be around. Including your cheating husband.
2007-10-15 06:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to avoid in-law problems. Just do your best to avoid trouble.
2007-10-15 05:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋