Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

I just want to know, even if you've never cheated how often do you check out other women and to what extent? Just thinking they are hot or thinking about having sex with them? Also, do you do it when your wife is around? If you had the chance to cheat with one of these women would you do so? Also do any of you not do it?

2007-10-15 04:25:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I live in Arkansas and I am getting married in a different county than the one I live in. Where do I need to do my marriage license, where I live or where I'm getting married?

2007-10-15 04:24:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Two years ago one of my inlaws got mad b/c my husband and I ran off and eloped. This person got so mad that they left threatening phone calls on my personal phone number. She eventually apologized (although the father never has apologized for supporting her) but I changed my # since then and I still do not want them to have my personal cell # or my home #. I feel that if they need to get in contact w/my husband they can call his personal cell #. The thing is they call him on his cell ALL the time and my husband just always neglects to call them back. it may be weeks until he gets back w/them. I know that it is my husbands own responsibility to call his own family back but I guess I want to know- -- if I am obligated to give his family my phone numbers?? I have forgiven his family since they have tried to destroy our marriage earlier--but i do not trust them. I will only occasionally go to gatherings w/them. (Note: they were not like this prior to our marriage)

2007-10-15 04:24:25 · 6 answers · asked by yo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am kinda in a band with my friends Brianna and peter, but the truth is that they suck and my mom says i need to find other people if I'm gonna get anywhere. Pretty much everyone i know says i have amazing musical talent. I am wanting to know if i should just wait till high school or collage to find people. but how am supposed to tell my friends?

2007-10-15 04:24:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica F 1 in Friends

So it will just have to be a small token of affection, yet something touching. Thanks for your help.

2007-10-15 04:22:29 · 13 answers · asked by gracelyn 4 in Weddings

this guy was undressing me with his eyes while his wife and his baby were with him in the grocery store!!!
Then his wife gave me a dirty look!! I was just doing my shopping in my sweatshirt and jeans!!!

2007-10-15 04:22:19 · 39 answers · asked by L 4 in Singles & Dating

Please only answer if you are going to be serious I am dealing with this right now and need to know thanks in advance

2007-10-15 04:21:50 · 6 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy for about a month and everything was going smoothly (or so i thought). Until last week he went to Vegas with a couple of his boys. He called me and left a message when he got back. I called him back the next day and he didn't answer. That was Five days ago and he still hasn't called. I am not interested in talking to this guy anymore but what I want to know is what would make a man to somethng like this????

2007-10-15 04:21:19 · 4 answers · asked by nyjae 5 in Singles & Dating

Well there is guy that works with me and he flirts and he notices when i'm in any kinda moods and he smiles at me at he loves to here my story's i gave him my number but he is shy very shy so he hasn't called me ...so please help

2007-10-15 04:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by crybabygomez 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so my wife & I had my parents & my sister over - we bought a brand new nice couch from American Furniture about 4 months ago. NO ONE is allowed food or drink on our couch (we don't even eat on it ourselves). My mom wanted a drink of my sister's soda, and my wife told my mom that we don't drink on the couch (which I back my wife up on). My mom said "Oh I'll be careful," and again my wife informed her that we don't drink on the couch. In response, my parents then proceeded to leave, while my dad didn't even say bye to me (though I did to him).

Historically, my parents have a tendency to treat my brother & I (ages 29 & 26, respectively) & our wives as though we're still "kids." I think this little scenario is an example of that; they treated us as though we're not allowed to have our own enforceable rules at our house.

Wouldn't you agree that it was immature of them to leave because they didn't like our rule? Most people would respect our wishes.

2007-10-15 04:18:04 · 21 answers · asked by Devo 4 in Family

hung out with a guy this past July 4th. dont know what got into me, but i got drunk and had sex with him...then we hooked up again the next day. I got his #, but he told me he wasnt looking for anything serious. I never called him. just had a lot going on, and while the sex was good, that's all there seemed to be. So i added him to myspace last week (just got a page). He wrote back saying we should get drinks sometime. Well i ended up going to house yesterday and watched football. I had my period so i really didnt think anythign would happen. Stupid me though got drunk. I dont even know if we had sex. All i know is that we went from the couch to the bed. I asked him if we had sex, he said no because we had no condom, there was blood everwhere and he couldnt get hard. I was wearing a tampon, i know he must have put it in tho because i'm sore. I am worried the tampon got shoved inside...or maybe i took it out? How will i know?

2007-10-15 04:18:03 · 11 answers · asked by gally g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its it the morning? Evening or afternoon?
Or maybe all the above?? Girls and guys..answers please!!

2007-10-15 04:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was suddenly unhappy and I took the break up badly. I also asked him back but he told me to not have hope, he wants to be single, and told me to find another man.

I haven't contacted him since and I just want to know if he might one day call back. In a way, I keep blaming myself that i drove him away when i kept pestering him to come back during those weeks after we broke up. I should've stopped contacting him the minute we broke, that way he may actually have time to clear his thoughts, I guess I kept wanting to know the final decision that it just made him seal the deal. I feel like it's all my fault. HAVE I LOST MY PRIDE OR DIGNITY BY ASKING HIM TO RECONSIDER? I am moving on but I just want to know if other people's ex's called back or wanted them back. I know i need to move but my question is has anyone experienced something similar whose ex said the exact same thing but ended up coming back? Thanks

2007-10-15 04:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by GirlinTrouble 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Suppose your man never got jealous. You come home from work with a male coworker, he sees you get out of the car, when you walk up to him he simply says. “What do you want for dinner honey?” He says this as if he did not just see you exit a car with some guy he does not know driving.

2007-10-15 04:15:38 · 22 answers · asked by Immortal Cordova 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex husb just cheated on his current girlfreind and its all my friends talk about.

2007-10-15 04:11:39 · 78 answers · asked by Shari 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a girl (shes 24 am 26) for 2 months. On friday(my birthday actually)i asked her where i stood with her. she told me she liked me,but she wanted to take things slowly cause she broke up with her Boyfriend(one and only bf)on valentines day(8months ago)she also told me she fancies this guy at her work but he is going out with someone and she knows nothing will happen there.so i said to her will i just walk away now and she said she wouldnt like not to see me again. then i asked her if i could kiss other people(i said i wouldnt like her to)and she said she wouldnt like me to be with other people so we both agreed on this.she also said she would like to spend the following nite with her friend cause she hadnt seen them in a long while and not see me cause she didnt know how long i was gonna be around and friends were important(i agreed of course).since she has texted me and acted like everything is ok.she said she knew me better now since havin this talk.THIS ALL MEANS ?

2007-10-15 04:11:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister and her fiance are engaged to be married next year. She is 22 and still in law school, which our parents pay for with very little trouble (they're fairly wealthy). Since the engagement is fairly recent she has not yet spoken to our parents regarding the impact of the marriage on her tuition: she thinks that since she's poor and our parents are rich and have always encouraged her not to work during the school year, they should continue paying her tuition. I think that if she's getting married, then that's a statement of responsibility on her part, and she should be paying her own tuition, regardless of how easily our parents can pay for it. I'm sure if she asked they would tell her that they would still pay, but I think it's a matter of principle. Am I being unfair? Who's right?

2007-10-15 04:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 17 years old. I really want a car now, but I will need one when I go off to college soon. I know that the standard answer for this question is "get a job", but there are many reasons why I can't do that.

1. I am in all honors courses at my school. This means I have at least 2 hours of homework every night, but usually more.

2. I spend a lot of time working for volunteer organizations. Neither me or my parents want me to give this up.

3. I spend a lot of time with my youth group. We only meet once a week, but there are a lot of retreats. I'm also a student leader so I have to do a lot of extra things with that.

4. Extracurricular activities! They take up tons of time.

My parents can afford to get me a car. We aren't at all rich, but we live comfortably. My parents just aren't convinced that they should buy me a car or not.

2007-10-15 04:10:30 · 11 answers · asked by pretty little liar 6 in Family

Here's the situation:
There is a woman in my husband's life, his "good friend." In the past before we met they hooked up. When I met her she gave me the evil eye but later on acted like she wanted to be friendly with me. We all went to a concert together & I did a little too much partying and got pretty sick, had my head down the whole time. Apparently while I was sick 2 feet away, she made the moves on my him-sitting on his lap, tickling him, trying to hold his hand- in front of my sister! He admits this happened but he told her to stop. Since then he still insists on having contact with her. When she calls he won't talk to her in front of me but goes outside. He had me check an email of his last month and right below it I saw one from him to her just chit-chatting, but it really bothered me since he says he hasn't talked to her in months. I don't think he's having an affair, but I want him to cease contact with this woman and he won't do it. Am I wrong to be so upset??

2007-10-15 04:10:19 · 16 answers · asked by devobee13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you recently were married, and your sister-in-law was in your wedding, and did not get you a gift or card.. or acknowledged the union.... for your wedding and she is now getting married... would you get anything for her?

This is a two month difference.

2007-10-15 04:09:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anna_Phylactic 2 in Weddings

My soon to be ex is going into treatment because he cannot stop drinking. He wants to see the kids while he is there but I don't want my kids to see him like that. Should I? I think he would be in the hospital. Thanks

2007-10-15 04:07:46 · 10 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I already learnt by bitter experience that you can't talk to them,
then they imagine things and pester you (it does not matter if you talk about serious things, they still imagine that you fancy them).
Then I learned that it wad dangerous even to look at them and not only at them but at their direction at all - it means that you want them.
But when a neighbour of mine accosted me on my own balcony (not exactly the neighbour, but a man from the next doorway, just our balconies are close), and I never talked or looked at him, and want nothing, but he somehow imagined that if I lived close, he can have me for asking - I've had enough. What should a woman do to be left alone and in piece? Wear a burka, or will they then accost her trying to peep
behind it?

2007-10-15 04:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i've always know that my parents favor my brothers more then me, but when my brother slap me on the back as hard as hecan, he gets a stern "logan" or"logan u have to help with the dishes as ur punishment". Hello!!!! helping with the dishes is his chore!!! but, i supposidly "lost her hair brush" I GOT GROUNDED 4 THE DAY!

how is this fair?? i want to know from the parent, "why do u do this????

2007-10-15 04:06:54 · 4 answers · asked by blahblah 2 in Family

I would like to try it, but I am afraid to go sex-shop.I would like to diversify sex with her partner. But to him about this I do not want to say it. I would myself to buy up these sex toys, only now, I hesitated to enter in sex shop. I was advised to buy via the Internet such as sex toys online shop such as http://www.desiresecrets.com/ What do you advise me?

2007-10-15 04:05:54 · 11 answers · asked by Kattttttt S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or preserve a large part of their capital to give their children a boost?

2007-10-15 04:05:11 · 54 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Family

Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and living together for 3 but recently I havent been able to stop thinking about someone else and this is making me increasingly think about leaving my boyfriend. This other person is exactly what I want in a person, wants a family, romantic etc the opposite of my current partner. The only thing is when I came to university my partner deided to come with me, it wasn't an issue at the time but now it is as I'm thinking of leaving him but I don't want to 1) Hurt him and 2) leave him with no job, no home and no money as at the moment I am paying for everything with my wages and he has been unemployed for 2 years saying that there are no jobs for him and he doesn't want 2 take any job where he will be unhappy. He doesn't know anyone here so I feel so guilty when I think of what leaving him will do to him, Im scared he will do something to himself if I go as his family are 3 hours away and he cant drive. Im stuck in such a rut I don't know what to do.

2007-10-15 04:02:50 · 20 answers · asked by candy_craver79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance of 4 years has been cheating on me with one of my coworkers. we also work together. hes been cheating with her for about three months. i just found this out two weeks ago. and i also found out hes been cheating with his ex girl friend. im now finding out about another coworker. would i be a damn fool to work it out with him. or should i just move on. he broke down crying saying how sorry he is and he will change and never do it again. hes begging me not to leave him. i have three kids that look up to him as their dad. they love him so dearly. and he says he love us so much. i do believe he love us. i dont think he knows how to be faithful. and i love him to. but the images in my head of him is sickning. my heart is broken and so is my trust. we had a happy home. and i know i didnt do anything to cause him to cheat. i am so confused right now. i dont know what to do. i want to hate him but my heart wont let me. the pain is telling me to leave but my heart is telling me to stay

2007-10-15 04:02:12 · 17 answers · asked by ms sassy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I fight all the time. He's hardly ever nice to me anymore, just sarcastic and hateful. He won't sleep with me anymore. It's ridiculous. We're only 25 and we have a one year old. I quit doing things for him like HIS laundry and cooking for him because he never does anything for us. He hardly ever plays with our son and he never takes us anywhere or wants to spend time doing things with us. He complains if I want to take our son to the park. He never helps around the house and says that he "doesn't do housework" even though all he has to do is go to work (easy work, mind you) and sleep. So, he doesn't act like a husband/father, so I stopped acting like a wife. We've only been married 2½ years, does this ever end? I just want to be happy..

2007-10-15 03:55:56 · 19 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 03:55:32 · 32 answers · asked by joe c 1 in Singles & Dating

Just asking Please be truthful and please no soap boxes on my question if you dont flirt than thats you but dont disrespect anyone elses opinion Please.

2007-10-15 03:55:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating