hung out with a guy this past July 4th. dont know what got into me, but i got drunk and had sex with him...then we hooked up again the next day. I got his #, but he told me he wasnt looking for anything serious. I never called him. just had a lot going on, and while the sex was good, that's all there seemed to be. So i added him to myspace last week (just got a page). He wrote back saying we should get drinks sometime. Well i ended up going to house yesterday and watched football. I had my period so i really didnt think anythign would happen. Stupid me though got drunk. I dont even know if we had sex. All i know is that we went from the couch to the bed. I asked him if we had sex, he said no because we had no condom, there was blood everwhere and he couldnt get hard. I was wearing a tampon, i know he must have put it in tho because i'm sore. I am worried the tampon got shoved inside...or maybe i took it out? How will i know?
2007-10-15 04:18:03 · 11 answers · asked by gally g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he didnt put it in...i just want to know if i ever took it out because i dont remember!
2007-10-15 04:24:58 · update #1
i have reached up there...i dont feel any string or anything. I know this guy only wants a piece of ***...i dont even know why i went over there. i guess because i'm bored and i have to admit he is fun. Supposedly i'm seeing him tomorrow because he's putting new brakes on my car so im definitely going to ask. I didnt even have that much to drink!!
2007-10-15 04:34:12 · update #2
Don't even bother listening to the first answerer.
Firstly, if you checked yourself and you cant feel it, then it can't still be there, you'd feel "something"...you'd have to.
Secondly, the whole "blood everywhere" statement..that should be good enough for you to realize that the tampon indeed is not still inside. It's possible he took it out and then thought about it, and stopped. It's a hard question because you weren't totally "here". Best bet and as embarrassing as it is I"d be going to the doctor to be checked for any and all.
2007-10-15 11:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, first of all feel around up there you may feel it. Otherwise in a few days I assume you will be smelling something horrible. May have to go to doc to get it out. It will be dangerous to have that in there for so long be sure to take care of this ASAP!!! Lose the guys phone number he only wants you for a piece of ***!
2007-10-15 11:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn girl, I think you should ask.. After you do, should never in you get that drunk were you dont realize what you are doing, and you should talk to this guy because he took advantage of you while you were not in your right mind and you were on your cycle thats just nasty...
2007-10-15 11:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a stupid thing to do! You should lay off the booze before something very serious happens....go to the doctor and see if you have a tampon stuck in you....and stay away from this idiot....
2007-10-15 11:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
reach up there. you should be able to feel the string. they can only go so far. if you are drinking to the point where you don't even know what you are doing, you need to stop. however, if he had sex with you and you were not in the mind to give consent, that's rape.
2007-10-15 11:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Gally G,
you should ask him if he put the tampon in. Then u can be all better.
2007-10-15 11:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dallas Cowboys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you ask him?? Uhhh..no..just reach up there and see if there is one up there......
I agree with the drinking not working for ya....
2007-10-15 11:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a doctor immediatley, if left in, tampons can cause serious problems..Good luck and please stop drinking...
2007-10-15 11:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by christineth1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a ridiculous story.
2007-10-15 11:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should stop drinking, it's not working for you!
2007-10-15 11:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋