Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

She is paying $700/- per month for his car and ins.What she should do to make him understand money does not grow on the tree.some one has to work for that.

2007-10-15 03:52:38 · 18 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you like to see in a gurl? Body? Personality? Sexy?
What is a good gurlfriend?

2007-10-15 03:50:34 · 18 answers · asked by Moriah H. 1 in Singles & Dating

I know you are not getting his side of the story, but he sees no problems in our relationship and all I see are problems. So..he doesn't think we have anything we need to work on. He thinks it's perfectly alright not to sleep together, hug, kiss, tell each other I love you, etc. Among other things, I found out he has a bank account I never knew about and when I ask about it he gives very vague answers. When I ask why my name isn't on it with his, he says, "So." We have been married almost 9 years and the only reason I think I haven't took the kids and moved out is because I don't have the money to and no place to go.

2007-10-15 03:50:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 03:49:53 · 19 answers · asked by ! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 03:47:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, my parents are FORCING me to go to church until I'm 18, and to be quite honest. I HATE IT. I don't want to go to church, I just wanna be left alone... but since my parents are threatening to cancel comcast internet if I don't go to church once a week, I have no choice. About two months ago we started going to this new church, and I am almost 17. There are alot of teens in this youth class and sometimes I feel like I'm obligated to go to it... but the thing is, I don't even want to be in church in the first place, much less go to some youth class. I only go to church because I have to, the truth is I want to get out of that place ASAP. Not only do I not like church, but I am a little shy and I am a bit worried of what people will think of me, so if I go to that teen class, theres like 20 people I don't even know and I feel a little intimidated... sorry I know it sounds bad, but I shoulden't even have to go to church, I think I am old enough to make my own decisions...

2007-10-15 03:47:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live in Salt lake city Utah and my ex husband pays me 250.00 a month now. However since the time of our divorce he now makes 110.000 a year. I am reluctant to push the matter due to the fact that it will cause a fight and we get along great right now, but I could really use the money. We have joint custody, however due to the fact that he works so much he only takes her on Sat. and Sun.. Any advice would be great. Thanks

2007-10-15 03:47:13 · 10 answers · asked by needtoknow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she lives far away and we talk alot and i have true feelings for her but i can't drive to her yet and she demoted me to friend she said cause she did the long distance boyfriend and girlfriend and just gets hurt in the end but i don't want to ever hurt her and when i can drive i promised her that i would come but now shes talkin to me as a friend about some guy she won't tell me the name of him but sometimes i think shes talking about me but everytime i try getting his name she doesn't tell me so what am i to do does she still want me to come or not i'm so confused someone help! i would like women and men to answer thanks everyone.

2007-10-15 03:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by lancealottthedark 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a sophomore in college, Im studying psychology so i have no rush to graduate... i know i'll spend lots of years in school. My boyfriend never got into college, he never had any ambition. I always adjusted my schedules for him. He would work and i would go to my classes for a whole day ..like a whole day! just to have days off to be with him. I would sleep late because he wanted to go out with me, every sacrifice for him. Now joined a stupid technical college? i mean what's that?! those places are for pregnant high school graduates or people who spent their high school days smoking marihuana. I know Im being harsh.. but now he does not have time to see... no time! all day work and school! now if he were to be in college with me it would be great.. but why does he have to be like that??!!!!!!!!! im just so angry!!! and he's going to be there for 1 yr!!!! This is ridiculous, and he was happy yesterday.. while i was very sad.. stupid technical whore house!! .... im so angry!!!

2007-10-15 03:45:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever gotten back together with someone after a substantial break-up? How did it go? Did it work out for the better, or did you have the same problems as before?

2007-10-15 03:45:04 · 18 answers · asked by Mel 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We met through a non-dating website and weve known eachother for 2 years. He's really into me and we want to meet soon (We never have yet) and I still dont know if its a good choice. Hes very sweet and kind and I really like him. Should we meet or not?

2007-10-15 03:44:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello. i tell my girlfriend that i love her every hour. and she tells me the same. but the problem is that saying i love u isnt working it fells like there is some thing else i could do to show that i love here and she fells she should be able to o the same. i am 18 and she is 19. and no we never had sex or oral sex

2007-10-15 03:42:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 03:41:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we was making out pretty heavily and then i started kissing him on his neck..he said my name and told me that was the danger zone and that he was like Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde and he said i better stop..i felt really embarassed and im not really sure what he meant by that

2007-10-15 03:40:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like girls in their late teens and early to mid twenties all have this idea that their going to meet an attractive rich guy to marry. bye the time they realize that the chances of that happening is slim they've already missed out on so many other good guys. So my questions are do girls really think their gonna get lucky and meet that rich guy, and do they realize that it's not just finding one but he has to like her too?

2007-10-15 03:38:36 · 8 answers · asked by The Greatest One 3 in Singles & Dating

he likes sex with me but just once a week, and its great and I;m hot and not fat.

2007-10-15 03:37:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my bf and i will have been together for a month on the 24th of Oct. about 2 wks after being together....we had sex. This is really soon for me...we talked it through and came up with a better plan of action for next time so that we don't get carried away before it's appropriate time-wise to do so. Heres the thing tho- I love him already. which is also very unusual for me which is why i feel it was justified. I know that month is a very short amount of time to love someone but we have known eachother for about 3 mo. and i feel like we have been together much much longer. is what we did wrong?

2007-10-15 03:37:26 · 27 answers · asked by danichika 1 in Singles & Dating

Although I love him I really want a child and we have had psycho sexual counselling together at relate. At the time he blamed me as I was a virgin when we married. Once we got to the point where he has to perform he just got stuck.It was like throwing money down the toilet so we stopped going to counselling as the counsellor acknowledged he was not moving forward. Whenever I talk about leaving he says he will change but never does.
Now I am determined to leave and have found a flat share he says he will kill himself...my friends say I should just have an affair to loose my virginity and get some practice and not rock the boat..I don't want to commit adultery..I feel so bad...but I really want a child and I don't want the guilt should he try and harm himself..his uncle committed suicide years ago..they say it can run in families..what would you do?

2007-10-15 03:36:52 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my family and I are probley the closest fam you will ever meet , we have our fights tho and the last one has turned 5 out of the 7 against my husband this puts me in awful situation , how do I get them to stop making him out to be a bad person he is far from an asshole he just protects me when we all fight I mean he takes my side they should only be mad at me right?

2007-10-15 03:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by momo 2 in Family

is it wrong to still let him kiss you?

2007-10-15 03:32:20 · 40 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you think about it, girls always wait for a guy to approach them..... so everyday you could have about 20 soulmates just pass you by.......

What makes you think you can have just one? Also, if Brad Pit was available woulden't you make HIM your soul mate??

(Point being, why get married at all?)

2007-10-15 03:32:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She spent alot of the day taking with him. We have 3 kids under 5 and I spent most of the day walking them around so she could catch up with old fiends. ( it was a bring you kids with you 15yr HS reunion) Anyway we are vey open and honest with each other. Afterwards I was talking to her about him and asking her how it was to see him. She said that she had chosen me and was happen and would not change that but she did still have stong feelings for him. Even still loved him in some ways. ( Being a guy I could completly understand her having sexual feeling for him but she was talking more about those "emotinal" feelings that I and most guys do not understand so well) She said just give me a day to get my feelings in check and put some perspective on them and then we can talk all you want. Is this normal. He just went through a divorce and I do not know if him bing free added to the exitment of an old boy friend or not.

2007-10-15 03:31:06 · 20 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been married for a long time with 2 grown up children. Not sure if i am making big mistake by going with this younger man. Should i at my time of life (44 yrs old) not be putting my efforts into sorting out what was a good marriage instead of daydreaming of running off into the sunset with a younger man ???? But cant get him out of my system !!

2007-10-15 03:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is having some surgery done next week, something to do with his stomach. Although I have been seeing someone else and he knows about it he still asked me to be with him the day of the surgery, the whole day. I told him that I had no problem with taking him in the morning but that I really didn't want to spend the whole day sitting around while he is being operated on as it supposed to take several hours and you know how hospital are, it always takes longer. He made me feel very guilty for not wanting to stay. He is supposed to be in the hospital for several days so its not like he needs a ride home. What does he want from me?

2007-10-15 03:25:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 03:24:16 · 20 answers · asked by janice m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is insisting for me to wear only cotton or natural fabrics only! This probably seems silly but it is driving me crazy because most of my wardrobe is not cotton! Not only that but we are just starting out and neither of us have enough money to go out and buy a new wardrobe for me. He has mentioned it at least three times in as many weeks! When I asked him the reason behind it he just told me it will be better for me! I don't know what his real reason is but this is so ridiculous to me! Does anyone else think this is strange?

Can anyone tell me the advantages of wearing only cotton clothing so that I can at least find some solid reason for following through with what he wants - since he can't give me one of his own?

2007-10-15 03:20:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 03:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by Nice guy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 03:17:05 · 13 answers · asked by sexycinderella 3 in Singles & Dating

we are 40 years old. and we are barely making the bills.... having a another kid will be hard...she will quit her job and then we will be stressing ...????? how do I explain to her... this is what I want...????

2007-10-15 03:16:45 · 14 answers · asked by timmyripsall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do people who cheat on their wives husbands gf bf etc ever pay for it i have heard people say karma is a terrible thing but does it ever really happen.....do the cheaters ever really pay for the pain they inflicted?

2007-10-15 03:11:37 · 13 answers · asked by Mary G 1 in Marriage & Divorce