Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

This problem come because i see my friend, a girl, her parents are so over protect to her. If she get a little problem, her parents (especially her mom) will take all answer, and don't want to hear her daugther voice again. Even the problem is about the girl and her boyfriend. Her parents always see their daughter like a little child and don't have self suggestion... It makes the girl, my friend is so passive and just can do what her parents say...

2007-10-15 03:05:42 · 4 answers · asked by Hika Chin 2 in Friends

When we were in the grocery my husband leaned over to kiss me on the cheek and looked at some other woman in the process! When I looked up at him (thinking 'Oh my husband is such a sweetheart :D' he wasn't even looking at me - his eyes were looking at someone else!) I got upset but when we got in the car I just told him, with a smile and a laugh, that it wasn't a very nice thing to do, and it wasn't respectable - no yelling, nothing like that! Well he completely denied doing anything, and ladies you know when they do that we just get more angry... So of course this ended in a full blown argument! We had driven separately so by the time we got home we were both calmed down and we just sat together and talked about it - he said he was sorry for turning his eyes elsewhere, but that I shouldn't try to control where he looks (not that I am trying to do that). And of course I apologized for getting too upset about this issue... Now I feel bad because the argument ruined a our beautiful day..

2007-10-15 03:05:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf of 8 years accussed me of having sex with three men this weekend . We have been through so much but in the last week i told him that he had one more tim to mess with me and i would go emotionless and that notthing would matter anymore. Well he did it , I told him if he said it againr that i would do it and take pictures so he had proof instead og just accusing me all the time . Well i told him to leave yesterday but he just stayed . Now he wants to be all nice to me and i dont even want him to touch me. Am I wrong I dont feel anything at all for him anymore. My heart hurts because I know its ove im just not mad or sad or even anry anymore. Should i just leave and give him the house ? I have a 4 month old baby boy

2007-10-15 03:03:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this boy over the summer, he is extremely nice and i really enjoy his company. However, he is younger than me, I'm afraid to have any kind of relationship with him because i think it might not work out. I know he likes me because he is always telling me how pretty I look and stuff like that. The age is the only thing that is bothering me. Help?!

2007-10-15 03:01:45 · 26 answers · asked by gleektastic 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 02:59:59 · 15 answers · asked by rahavard 1 in Singles & Dating

We are both 35, self-sufficient, educated and have no major flaws, it just seems we don't want or can't mesh our lives together. It sucks but sometimes I feel like I need to just be alone forever. What if I just made a mistake and he isn't the one? Does the "ONE" exist?

2007-10-15 02:56:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's been six months and sexually everything was great until recently. He could go on a long time and up to 3 x's in a day......it was awesome. Lately, he's been a 2-minute man and then he falls asleep! The first time it happened, I was understanding, the second time, I was mad. I asked him what is going on and he says that it's just too good (I think that's a cop out) and that he's more relaxed w/me. I told him he better work on his concentration and yada yada yada, basically made him feel like crap, but I was frustrated at the moment. He apologized and said he'll work on it. What do you think is going on? Do u think it's me?

2007-10-15 02:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this married women ,she has been married for 8 years , and has 7 yrs son now .she was in love with a guy before marriage itself. she was forcibly married .now she is fed up with this relation ship and wants to quit the guy by getting a divorce ,the problem here is her hubby doesn't want to divorce her. .on what grounds she can divorce him.

2007-10-15 02:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A relationship without flaws is undoubtedly not serious, so how do we make a relationship work?

2007-10-15 02:47:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love it by the way

2007-10-15 02:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sister has Power of Attorney OVER mother's care. Believe just told MOM to sign at the X on the papers. Mom suffers form dementia. Sister lives in Florida with MOM and we live in Illinois. Sister refuses to give us info on MOM and hangs up numerous times. We think sister is after MOM'S money since our Dad took very good care of MOM money wise. And sister really needs her money.

2007-10-15 02:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by shaw 1 in Family

I see more men wearing them than women. Has the world change ? Do women like seeing their husband domesticated?

2007-10-15 02:44:27 · 13 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have lived in our house for over 3years. Well a family recently moved in next door to us. They have been relatively friendly and we have not had any problems. Yesterday I come home and find the husband in my back yard that is fenced with a gate. He had cut a huge limb out of my tree that was supposedly hanging over his garage. My question is this? Is he responsible for cleaning up the mess or am I? He cut it down, let it fall and left. I am quite mad about it. But my husband does'nt want to start anything with them. Also and I know this is minor but the last time the guy sprayed he also decided to spray a little he had left around our yard. Am I overeacting or not. Because I think he's being presumtuous and pushy. So please give me advice on this.

2007-10-15 02:44:00 · 8 answers · asked by TABBY 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 25 and he's 36...i really like this guy...i met him 1 1/2 month ago and everything was just perfect til yesterday...he said he didnt mention it b4 cause he's afraid of losing me..he has a 14 yrs old son who lives with his mum and step-father...he was born out of wed-lock...what should i do?

2007-10-15 02:43:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I do to make the first time good?

2007-10-15 02:42:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-10-15 02:41:46 · 17 answers · asked by hello12345678910 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many times a week do YOU have sex?

I only have sex about once a fortnight with my husband (even though once a day wouldnt be bad - just like it was before we married), so...

2007-10-15 02:40:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 02:36:27 · 7 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Family

My bf broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was suddenly unhappy and I took the break up badly. I also asked him back but he told me to not have hope, he wants to be single, and told me to find another man.

I haven't contacted him since and I just want to know if he might one day call back. In a way, I keep blaming myself that i drove him away when i kept pestering him to come back during those weeks after we broke up. I should've stopped contacting him the minute we broke, that way he may actually have time to clear his thoughts, I guess I kept wanting to know the final decision that it just made him seal the deal. I feel like it's all my fault. I am moving on but I just want to know if other people's ex's called back or wanted them back. I know i need to move but my question is has anyone experienced something similar whose ex said the exact same thing but ended up coming back? Thanks

2007-10-15 02:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by S S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 18 years we don't have any kids.He met this woman a 1 year ago,he said that he didn't have sex with her he thinks that he loves her and they were talking about getting together for rest of their life.I found that on his cell phone .I asked him to end this with her ASAP.He said he need some time to think about it.he told me that he loves me and he wants to stay with me but still talks to her and didn't brake it off..
I don't know what to do I really love him and I want to stay with him...Please HELP !!!

2007-10-15 02:28:20 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a very abusive relationship where I allowed my ex to walk all over me and then literally begged for him to come back. Im ashamed that this ever happened and I feel COMPLETELY different now, I dont care about him whereas before little things he would do would hurt me very much.
Now when I see him he still does things to try to make me jealous and he refuses to be on good terms with me. He will hug girls, talk really loud about girls he's seeing, etc. I ignore him and go about my business but he still does it b/c I guess he thinks it will still bother me. How can I show him otherwise?

2007-10-15 02:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 02:23:48 · 8 answers · asked by brokendollhead 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently My ex come back and hang out with me. But she has a relationship too. What is m exgirlfriend's intention? I really don't know? Does she want a make up sex?

2007-10-15 02:22:06 · 11 answers · asked by vu_tran764 2 in Singles & Dating

anything.....

2007-10-15 02:18:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I used my husband computer last night and saw that he is a member of an adult sex site that help you to find local discreet sexual encounters. I also saw a few XXX pictures of him on the site and in his computer that was taken at some chicks house, that he took himself in the mirror. He has his mail going to hi mothers house, passwords on everything. Never show me the checking account statements. The last time I saw his credit card statement, it was hotel charges, at least once per month. Then recently I found viagra in his glove compartment, and that is our biggest problem "lack of sex". I know I agreed to give him his privacy, but I think this is too much. I want to leave but we have 3 kids together, and just tired of having them to sacrafice. The crazy part about it all is, we have been through so much b/c of him that, this time I'm not even hurt, just tired and want a change in my life. What should I do?

2007-10-15 02:17:17 · 21 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 02:16:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 02:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by Money Makes Me C(u)m 1 in Singles & Dating

im in a relationship but theres this guy at work and we flirt with eachother all the time,get really nervous around him and he does with me we act like naughty teenagers! he has never asked if i have a boyfriend and i havnt asked if he has a girlfriend.is this wrong?????

2007-10-15 02:14:22 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 02:13:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..there is this guy... Guy says he's seeing people and i say cool...Im seeing people 2 so not a problem... we make arrangements for a date Saturday night... Late night - I'm talking 2am so u know what kidna date it was - cool.... BUT round 8 i go to a movie with a diff guy (once again - we agreed to see other people) I get in at 10:30 and my friend curses me out saying he was waiting for me since 9 and he had brought me some food and "extras" and he didnt have to wait around... Im confused cause he NEVER comes to the house before midnight... he's not the "take outside" kidna guy,u know? He told me from beginning he wasnt the kinda dude who went on dates... so i date the others and give him the goods... dont judge - thats just what works for us right now.

Anyhoo, sis says he caught feelings for me and just doesnt know how handle it.. I should explain that we have a great friendship... have been this way for a year... things were GREAT just the way they were... Why did he flip?

2007-10-15 02:11:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating