What can I do to make the first time good?
2007-10-15 02:42:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am 25, how much older should I get?
2007-10-15 02:47:44 · update #1
And I am going to do it with somebody that I was in love with, but he hurt me, and so we are just friends with benefits now.
I dont think I will ever be in love again, or if I would it will take some good years
2007-10-15 02:49:29 · update #2
wait until you're really and truly ready..
2007-10-15 02:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by nikki f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your my age, i'm 25, except i'vebeen sexually active for 11 years, and not that I regret my decisions, but I would certainly recommend, you wait until you have at least some feelings for your partner, i'm nto going to sugar coat it and say waituntil you'r ein love, but just dont' do it with a person you'll never see again, just to get it over with.
Do it with somebody who you know cares about you, at least as a very good friend,
Be sure, you can handle the strong feelings that go with it, alot of people ruin friendships by taking it to a level of intimacy, plus many people become very attached to their "first", and will instantly create this delusion that they're actually in love.
That's not always the real case, not to mention, heartache doesn't kill anybody, sure, it'll hurt, but everyone has to go through it sooner or later. The stuff I believed were earth shattering a decade ago, are way behind me, it's just that you might've waited a bit longer.
But, don't be afarid, good things come to those who wait.
2007-10-15 09:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Emocide Organ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you can do to make the first time good. I think you should wait until you are in love with a guy before giving up your virginity. Take your time...you are still young and have a lot of time to find the right person. He should know that you are a virgin and if you decide to have sex, then you are giving him the biggest gift you could ever give to him.
2007-10-15 10:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by rrunner68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is a tangled web. When you choose to travel that route someone may develope feelings and then what do you do? Wait !!!! you will only have this one first and you can never get it back. Do you really want to waste on someone who has already hurt you?
2007-10-15 10:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt if your first time will be good. Not trying to be negative, but simply because of what has to take place. Having true feelings for the person and knowing that he'll be there afterwards will make it good emotionally and sometimes that's better than it feeling good physically.
2007-10-15 09:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really young when I lost my virginity... and as much as I thought I might regret it after, I was so deeply in love with the guy. He knew it was my first time and was slow and gentle.
You are the only one who knows when you will be ready, so trust yourself.
No matter what, the guy should know... he will take that in consideration and not rush through anything.
2007-10-15 09:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FALL IN LOVE AND GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ask yourself this question. How have u always dreamt of losing it? Dating some guy who u know u will never be with or dont know how long you will be with him. Or on your wedding night sharing a very special and intimate part of your heart with your future husband? Do you want your sex to be casual or do you want it to be filled with love, warmth and magic?
Start looking at places where u can find guys that share your moral view(whatever that may be).
2007-10-17 00:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI
Be with someone you're crazy in love with..That makes a big difference!
Have a great Day!
2007-10-15 09:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for it to be the proper time..
When the time is right nothing else matters...
Use protection and lube, it will hurt at first...
2007-10-15 09:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually have sex with somebody that you care about, not just to get it over with.
2007-10-15 09:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Your dum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are older.
2007-10-15 09:45:18 · answer #11 · answered by Diane A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋