I had a very abusive relationship where I allowed my ex to walk all over me and then literally begged for him to come back. Im ashamed that this ever happened and I feel COMPLETELY different now, I dont care about him whereas before little things he would do would hurt me very much.
Now when I see him he still does things to try to make me jealous and he refuses to be on good terms with me. He will hug girls, talk really loud about girls he's seeing, etc. I ignore him and go about my business but he still does it b/c I guess he thinks it will still bother me. How can I show him otherwise?
2007-10-15 02:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
welll i took a psychology class about courtship and relationships over the summer and i learned that you should not show him emotions such as anger/frustration towards him because its a sign that you still care since he was able to hurt you in some way. Whats best is that you should just go along with your life, and if he talks to you, just answer politely and calmly. If he asks about "us" then just say, well im over it. and dont take it any farther because it seems that he just wants some kind of reaction from you and wants to see if he still has 'power' over you by hurting you in other ways. Hes the one being immature about it, so if he wants to keep putting more effort into trying to make you jealous, just let it happen. he should get tired of doing it after awhile. if not, then its better that u just dont talk to him and u deserve waay better than that
2007-10-15 02:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by shalala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 23:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is simpli ignore him and he will get the picture. If I were you I would not even try to be friends with him cause he obviously does not want you as a friend. All he wants to do is hurt you. Good Luck.
2007-10-15 02:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoying your life is absolutely the best revenge. Don't see him ever again, avoid him at all costs. Just be sure that when you go out and have a good time with your friends, you take a lot of pictures, so he can see you're having a much better time without him. ;)
2007-10-15 02:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Aidan J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing by ignoring him. Don't even acknowledge that he exists and move on with your life. When you feel the time is right and you finds someone you like, start dating.
Take care.
2007-10-15 02:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by remowlms 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, and he will get the hint.
Maybe try telling a few of your friends that you dont care about him anymore, maybe it will get back to him and he will stop being so mean.
2007-10-15 02:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica Ann. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and move on with your life. The biggest wound you can inflict on a bully is to ignore him. Your indifference will cut much deeper than anything you could do to "punish" him - negative attention is still attention.
"Hating someone is like letting them live in your heart rent-free."
2007-10-15 02:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by truefirstedition 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I would do in your situation is act like life is great! Flirt with other guys, laugh and joke with your friends. Act like he isn't even around. He will see that you moved on. Good luck girl!
2007-10-15 02:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by mikesl3abygrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just passively smile and not give a **** .If you really dont give a **** he will tell.Maube even ask him why are you telling me this so i get jealous or something .He already has realized that you are not as attention giving as he once had you as and is already realizing your care is going or gone thats why he is trying these things.:) If you dont care you dont care its that simple really.
2007-10-15 02:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by ahvillian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It you want to be Happy.. Do one thing..
Forgive and Forget..
Ya I know it is little difficult.. But Still you can do it..
Don't allow other to control your brain.. If u think about him for any cause means .. he is controlling your brain... Dont think of him.. And Choose a new BF as soon as possible... :)
2007-10-15 02:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋