This problem come because i see my friend, a girl, her parents are so over protect to her. If she get a little problem, her parents (especially her mom) will take all answer, and don't want to hear her daugther voice again. Even the problem is about the girl and her boyfriend. Her parents always see their daughter like a little child and don't have self suggestion... It makes the girl, my friend is so passive and just can do what her parents say...
2007-10-15 03:05:42 · 4 answers · asked by Hika Chin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a problem that happens so much. Since you cannot change her parents or her situation, let her be okay in it. I mean, don't speak badly of her parents. Let her be proud that she is well cared for. Her parents want total respect. Unless she has another place to live this is what she must give them. You don't mention how old she is, but no matter. She will be old enough soon to be on her own. She will need a good job, so needs to make education very important. That way when she is on her own she will not have to rely on anyone else-or their rules-to keep a roof over her head. Also, if school is an important thing to her, maybe they will let her go off to college somewhere. She could begin looking to that now.
Maybe you can do things with her too. Study, go places, start a hobby? She will be able to be with you as long as her parents don't think you are making her feel bad about their rules, so when you are with her, live the rules with her. It will be by behaving maturely that they will come to see her so.
2007-10-15 03:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her parents.i believe her parents will understand AS her daughter is a human WHO HAVE FEELINGS TOO.
2007-10-15 04:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesnt make sense. Can you rewrite?
2007-10-15 03:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should ask to talk to them and just tell them! wat she got to loose?
2007-10-15 03:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by cheeky girl:P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋