Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

my daughter and i get on really well untill my ex and step kids step in when they do she pushes me to one side because she wants to be like them and excepted into his new family, every time something good happens in her life i feel i am not good enough as they have money and i haven't this hurts me time and time again.

2007-10-13 23:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-13 23:48:01 · 19 answers · asked by tony s 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we had a two year relationship and its been two months we've broken up?i'm still madly in love with him but he has a new girlfriend now though he cheated on her with me more tahn once but i but an end to it cuz i want more and now he spends most of his time with my friends something he didn't do when we were together what i'm supposed to do its so hard!

2007-10-13 23:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by bella 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and he's 27. I was a virgin when I married but he wasn't. I don't mind having sex everyday but sometime he wants it twice a day when I just want to cuddle. Whenever I talk to him about him he just begins to strip me and I give in.

2007-10-13 23:43:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I married my husband 4 years after the loss of his oldest son.

It is now 1 1/2 years into the marriage, and 3 1/2 years into the relationship in total, and out of the 3 1/2 years he spent his time like this:

Year 1 when I met him he started writing a book about his son, all memories, collected from himself and everyone he knew.
He then put them on a website for people to read.
Year 2 the website wasn't good enough so he made a blog to reach people and then THAT became his new nightly obsession.
Year 3 we got married, I figured that he would stop this as soon as he was "finished" writing his book. Instead he has posted the entire book online almost, and continues now with writing articles in mourning magazines, and it just doesn't end.

It's 7 years now and the rest of his family holds his son in their hearts and they moved on. How long should I keep waiting for him to get on with it? I don't want to seem cold, but I have needs too. Ignoring me has ruined our marriage.

2007-10-13 23:39:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have any married people tried this?
was it exciting, thrilling and did you end up meeting?

2007-10-13 23:38:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Apparently these two things have different meanings. If a guy stares at your lips all the time when you talk, it means one thing. If he always always looks into your eyes, it's something else. What do these mean?

2007-10-13 23:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 23:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by devileyz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've saw it in my family many times and i think you should be happy with what your son wants to do with his life just because it's not sports! men seem to want there sons to be into sports growing up...it's so annoying!

2007-10-13 23:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She doesn't care for anyone but herself. She loves comfort, spending money, and sleeping. She never cares for her kid and her husband. She loves to start fight and watch fights. When things get nasty for her she leaves the house even though she started it. She's always buying useless things even when the family barely has enough money to eat.

2007-10-13 23:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am well qualified and well placed professional with business degree. Since long, I have interest in housework and quite expert in it.

Now I wish to quit the job and be a househusband to an ambitious, career oriented professional girl while assuming the role of housemaker. This way I will be able to fulfill my desire but also I will be a good support to my wife. She can be free from any household works and raising kids because that will be taken care by me and she can concentrate on her career. I can also add value as a advisor for her professional problems.

Will the girls accept me as a househusband?
Interested girls may also contact me though emails. I am ready to relocate any where in this world. I am 32 years old.
7 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-10-13 23:22:06 · 6 answers · asked by shiava02 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The beautiful one are the hardest to forget.

2007-10-13 23:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Who's On First? 3 in Singles & Dating

For those of you who have been married for a while, what were the hardest years of your marriage. And how did you get past that?

2007-10-13 23:19:59 · 15 answers · asked by sleeping.b3auty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so we've been together for 8 months. we only see eachother on weekends, because i'm at college and have a dorm there - about an hour away from our hometown. he attends college at hometown university.
i saw him yesterday and he was pretty quiet, said he was tired. i can understand this because he hadn't had much sleep the past few days - he plays football and had 3 late night-games with his team the past 3 days. so i took pretty good care of him i guess, i walked to the local store to get his favorite pizza (he was really happy i did this), got him a drink, gave him a footmassage, stuff like that. when he left, he said that he loved me very much for taking such good care of him - i suppose he's referring to me getting him a pizza and stuff?
should i worry here? he texted me when he got home, said he was already in bed and that he was sorry for being quiet and again that i was really sweet for him.

2007-10-13 22:54:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had alot of time to think about this and if i ever dated a girl that wanted to have sex but I didn't should I tell her that I don't want to do it till marrage ? or just give in ?

2007-10-13 22:43:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 22:41:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few girls have told me this. Usually the ones I don't intend to date say it when they try to ask me out, so for me, it's kind of a red flag. What does it mean to them though?

More importantly, what should I say to them, since when they say it, I generally do not feel safe.

2007-10-13 22:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by ye_river_xiv 6 in Singles & Dating

Everytime my husband and I have an argument it is always followed by days of silence. He will not talk to me, say hello, goodbye or anything. If I try to talk to him he might give real brief answers but it is very tense until he decides he does want to talk to me again. I hate how this makes me feel. I've talked to him about it during peaceful times and he acknowledges that he does it but it never changes. What should I do?

2007-10-13 22:28:11 · 29 answers · asked by aj nosmit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should i send ex this bday gift?
it has been a few wks since he officially broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was unhappy... should i send a book da vinci code he always wanted to read (ordered on amazon for dirt cheap), and a plain card that just says happy bday... i won't wrap the present up, just send it in plain manila envelope. of course, i'm not gonna lie, i would at least hope he will say thank you, but even if he doesn't, i would feel i have done my part and, just as a nice way for me to end this chapter in my life and move on.

I took the break up badly and I did ask him back before but he said he wants to be single, feels stress-free, tell me to not have hope, find another man. i haven't called him in a couple of weeks and don't plan to.

If you had to put your money on the possibility of him calling back or even think about getting back, would it more likely to happen if i didn't send him gift or card on his bday OR if i do send him gift on his bday? Please answer this

2007-10-13 22:14:45 · 13 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a paternity proves someone is the father of a child, can the mother request the court to not order child support if she does not want it?

2007-10-13 22:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by needhelp16 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my freind is procesing divorce case,he is having one kid also,divorce cases reason is his wife is having affair with his freind,my freind is sensible charactor he explained her a lot but she is not agree with this, she wants to marry with that charactor,he is getting proper divorce yet, myself is widow,my age is 28,my releationship has started after after 2 years from husbands death, i have 2 yonger sisters & yonger brother & mother we all working ,but my both yonger sis.has not married I have taken their responbilities, whatever i am doing is correct or wrong should marry with this my freind or should wait for his divorce or any other option

2007-10-13 22:07:02 · 11 answers · asked by Pratibha R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well everytime my wife gets mad at me and her mother comes over she trys to get her mother against me by telling her the problems that we are having and not telling her the whole truth or tell me one thing and then when she comes over telling her something else i like her mother she's a very sweet lady but then theres times she's telling me of because she hadn't heard the true story what do i do when this happens

2007-10-13 21:54:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my girlfriend for 11 years and we have 2 children. Ironically enough, she's not the type of woman that I desire to be with. Well she's the type I would like to settle down with, but over the years I've not exactly behaved like I want to settle down.

I want to either s*** or get off the pott, but if I settle down with her I'll always feel guilty for not doing the right thing sooner and wonder "what if?"

If I do move on and find love with someone else, I'll wonder why I didn't treat my current GF the way that I will treat the next??

It's my deciscion, I know, I was curious about what someone else might say????

2007-10-13 21:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im very happy in my new relationship and there is no chance i would ever get into a relationship with you?
i never want to c you or hear you again,do get a life.thats what HE said after 2 years of using me and playing me along,giving me hopes for a relationship and latering me..no one has ever told me such a horrible thing,especially when i have done nothing wrong..except from chasing him cos i loved him.how can i get over it..keeps playing in my mind.why did he have to be so cruel?was i so irritating that i made him do this?i only showed love which he never took interest in

2007-10-13 21:38:35 · 16 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Singles & Dating

i wrote an email to someone i love and it was a nice message about how i felt, im just hoping that the message will no be seen as the wrong way.

2007-10-13 21:21:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-13 21:19:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents think that my brother and i hate them because we always tell them to stop blaming others for no reason. my mother gets mad because of a small thing and my dad is to scared (stupid and can't stand up for himself) to tell my mother anything. i am getting really depressed because they consistently argue with my brother, who is 21years old.my brother is working and saving up for college and my parents want him to go to school early. they don't understand that it is quite hard to go to college when our family doesnt even make much money.my parents consistently talk bad about other people and think that they are the only people who face problems. they talk too much but don't do a thing, like my mother who says that she will learn how to drive but doesn't even do it. my brother and i try our best to please them but they never seem to find the positve things that come out of our actions. they consistently put us down instead of being supportive, and always start arguments.

2007-10-13 21:17:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was completely sober tonight and i was just getting off work at the bar that i work at and the cops pulled me over for having a license plate light out,(yeah,that's a first for me too)!!! then he started asking me if i had been drinking and i told him"no i was not drinking, just give me a ticket or a warning and let me go home." He then asked me to get out of the car,and i did, and he started searching my car. I can't say that much else, but i am at home right now, i did not get arrested, and i did not even get a ticket, but my god, i can't even say it because i might get arrested for it, but to all you midnight shift cops, EVERYONE ON THE ROAD PAST MIDNIGHT DOES NOT MEAN WERE DRINKING!!!

2007-10-13 21:11:55 · 16 answers · asked by Richy C 1 in Friends

Okay everyone, so I am a nice girl and get stuck in the friend role :( When does one flirt, what should i say to co-workers.

Examples

1. He is interested in my friends but she is not interested in him, what should I do if anything to make myself known?

2. He is someone I work with and talk to about his daily life, how can I be more than a friend?

3. How can I get more guys on the street to check me out?

2007-10-13 21:10:44 · 4 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 21:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce