Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

Lately Ive been having these thoughts about people that i know that are not straight. They are not thoughts in any sexual manner and i am not attracted or turned on in any way. i am straight and only interested in guys, but these thoughts will not leave my head. Everytime I think about it it makes me cringe and I am starting to get worried. What does it mean?

2007-10-13 16:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there some girls in ma school that always after me and one of is more than the others. they good looking but mad prepy and i think they are annoying so dont really like em beauty is not the only thing, tole one of em to drop dea and to kill her self but still after me, why do they do this and hot can i stop them and by the way these girls are seniors not little freshman

2007-10-13 16:12:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just finished college this year and only feel attracted to people 20 - 30 something years older than me. I don't feel like people of that age are within my parents generation, as my parents are in their early 60s.

2007-10-13 16:11:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my man wont belive me when i tell him i wont leave him how do i make him understand that?????

2007-10-13 16:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by hallie 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a q earlier about this, but didn't explain right.Obviously.
So here's the short version:
5 yr bf is in CA. I'm in SD. Can't help that.
I went out w/ friend last nite, who was preoccupied playin darts.
Went 2 sit at bar with girl I knew. Sat in the corner, can't explain it-but when the drunk obnoxious guy came to hit on us I could NOT get out of there. He kept pushin me back in seat & I didn't want to get hit. I was really scared after he pulled my hair back & tried getting me to kiss him. Never did though.

No, my bf can't do anything about it now. I told ppl at the bar, but this is a small town & they all kno each other and make excuses. wtvr. There was no one to tell afterward who would do anything about him. My bf is the kinda guy who will see this as a lie if I don't tell him, cuz one of our friends will. Not tryin to make him jealous or feel bad, but he will freak when I tell him- I have to- what I need advice with is how do I tell him? What won't make him freak?

2007-10-13 16:05:52 · 9 answers · asked by talonz_lady02 3 in Singles & Dating

i need some songs that "go with my life" so basically, me and my ex broke up (i broke up with him) and now i regret it. we still talk and are friends, but i miss being more than that. the way we would talk and look at eachother, and laugh at nothing and stuff! we both still like eachother, and i just want to be more than that now. and also, do you guys have any good quotes too?

2007-10-13 16:05:29 · 7 answers · asked by Volleyball3335 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy named max windsor and a guy named Darren Lyrke and i'm dating both of them. what should i do? :(

2007-10-13 16:04:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June and I am ordering my wedding dress early becuz I am very excited. The woman that is helping me critizes everything I put on. She works at the store and says I look fat in every dress I put on and every dress she picks, I hate. Help!

2007-10-13 16:03:09 · 17 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Weddings

2007-10-13 16:02:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im pregnant with my exs baby, i was 6 months pregnant when we broke up because he found out that i cheated on him, the first night we started dating. it was a mistake and i regret it. but he also cheated while i was pregnant, im willing to forgive him, but he wont forgive me. but every guy i try to get involved with he wants to beat there "***". and says he doesnt want my daughter around him. and always trys to find an excuse why, yet hes with another girl. We talk everyday. and we usually fight everyday as well. he calls me if i dont call him. so i dont understand. Do you think that theres hope for this relationship or should i just stop trying. im in love with him, but part of me feels like he doesnt love me. i lived with him for a year. and i went recently to get my things as well, and he was all upset about something. when i ask him how he feels about everything, he ignores the questions and changes the subject. is he just scared, or whats up? what do you guys think?

2007-10-13 16:00:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so at my work on fri night one of the guys that i work with...(its me and 4 guys....) one stuck money down my shirt and down my pants...i told my parents and now they want me to take him to court or something,. i don't want to quit b4 i have a new job but i don't want to work with them. he also pushed me in the bathroom b4 and tired to do stuff with me. he even pushed me up against the wall and wouldn't leave me go
i don't know what to do....i don't want to make a big deal out of it but it can't just happen....i need help

2007-10-13 16:00:30 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ perfect angel lips ♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am widow of 33 yr. Both of want to marry afer hearing a story of marital discard I started love him. His cout cases are under going 498A& Cr125. he is having one child. We had one abortion also & again I missed my period & he is taking about settlement with her wife 70% he will bring his wife back. earlier he was tell she is not likly to return back since she involed some where else. I am SC & he is OBC. I convince my family for marrage but his perents are not happy with his reletion. but he is asuring me marrage after finishing of his marrage with 1st wife. Pls guide me. We know each other sine 3 years & I am t0tally confused to handdle situation.

2007-10-13 16:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by Suma k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When we are intimate, there are two particular things that I've tried and don't particularly like, both things are painful and/or uncomfortable. Since I've been refusing to do these things, He gets angry and offended and tells me to 'stop taking things away from him' it ends up in an argument, and therefore ruins a perfectly good intimate session.

In the initial stages, I agreed to do them to 'try them out' and now he says I'm going to take everything away from him, eg no sex at all! I really didnt mean to mislead him in the first instance, but he thinks I did. I just wanted to try them out and form an opinion on it.

Some advice as to how to handle this would be appreciated. Thank you

2007-10-13 15:58:48 · 23 answers · asked by Damo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has the right to get money or advances on his paycheck. well when i got his pay stub today is has advances for 1160.00 taken out leaving me 288.73 left to pay bills with. this is not the first time he has done this it has been going on a couple months but he is starting to take more and more the phone bill is through the rough (cell) electric is due water house phone hardly any food. and alot of other bills are late and getting cut off in the next week or two. why could or would my husband be doing this. I just started back to work as I have been raising his kids my step kids for the last three years. I'm fixing to lose eveything and I cant get him to say anything about his advances he keeps telling me that payroll is behind and that he is geting chrgeed for thing and fuel he has bought to put in the company truck he's a truck driver. but it has been to many times in a row and the amount is getting hire each week. he clames he is eating canned food and going without.

2007-10-13 15:56:37 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

youre going out with someone.. who you might potentially love
and your friends keep saying that it wont last as long as youd like it to
stooooopppppp saying that :(
its been a while already, anyway!
are they trying to say something by saying that? or are they just being plain mean? pshhh

2007-10-13 15:51:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm doing an affair with 40 ys old man who has wife and 2ys old son. i love him, always wanna be together, but it's imppossible now because of his family.

but i want.

i have told the wife once " hello ? Could you separate your husband? bye." on the phone.

when i did this, i was ready that he will leave me , end this relationships and go back his home.

but he didn't . he is going to continue with me not even getting angry with what i did.

i' m sesious. i can't wait for him any more.
Please tell me what i should do to make them divorce.

(we are all in Japan . he is foregner so need wife for VISA.)

2007-10-13 15:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But, my grandpa hates my hubby and he dont want me to get control of it, if we still continue to take this to the court he will make us pay the court fees out of our pocket, well we dont even have a house, we live in a apt. we want to try and start family, so we would like the money to ge a house, we enclosed a list of exactly what we watned to do with the money, we are going to invest it, we are not goign to just use it all for junk, we even have been looking into cd's and stuff, he just doesnt want me to have it cuz of kyle (hubby) he will just get really mad at us, any advice
ps sorry about the typos, i am typin faster than fingers watn to move

2007-10-13 15:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by tiffany w 3 in Family

2007-10-13 15:47:13 · 13 answers · asked by djdanger92 3 in Singles & Dating

my dads friend has a son and we are friends. we work together and he asks me for hugs all the time what does this mean? he hugs me so tight and feels like he doesnt wanna let go lolz..and what does it mean when he asks you for hugs like 3 times in one day..we work with eachother but are friends and 17 years old...

2007-10-13 15:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wedding is in nearly two weeks. What am I doing? My fiance and I have broken up so many times that I can't even count. We been engaged three official times with three official rings in the past two years and sundry minor breakups in between that too. We have very different issues with money. She's a realtor and makes good money when she has clients but her credit sucks. I've bought a house and car in my name for her but now she's having trouble paying for it. I know marriage is not easy but it seems like we're starting out on a low. If I decide not to go trhough with it, it will not be a clean and easy break because of the house and car. This will both of our second marriages. She has three kids. I was a step parent to two kids in my first marriage. That can complicate things too. I love her and feel awful for hurting her if I finally break it off.

2007-10-13 15:45:49 · 7 answers · asked by steele_cd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every time me and my dad talk he always points out my flaws ( weight gain acne ect.) what sould i do? What can i say to make him stop?

2007-10-13 15:44:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The women I married to is listed in numerous dating websites. I have all her passwords and have retrieved a lot of information off the site that included match.com, yahoo personals etc. I want to get a divorce what’s the next step? What position am I in what rights do I have with this matter?

2007-10-13 15:43:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend got asked to a dance by somebody she doen't like. How can she reject him without being rude. Is there an excuse or lie she can possibly say that might sound sincere?

2007-10-13 15:38:26 · 46 answers · asked by baigen1067 2 in Friends

2007-10-13 15:38:07 · 16 answers · asked by Guitar*Girl 2 in Friends

He says that when he tells another woman that he is dreaming about her or that he was with her last night it doesn't mean anything. He is just making small talk and he only means in thought.

2007-10-13 15:34:49 · 12 answers · asked by hotrod 1 in Friends

monday was my bday. my family didnt remember. no one wished me a happy birthday, i had no cake, no gifts, no hugs...nothing. my fiance remembered but i mean as far as my mother and siblings. now my mother is trying to make excuses to it. i understand if she forgot we have 6 bdays in about 2 1/2 wks. so id understand it but it hurts me and upsets me to no that shes trying to make excuses. i no her well enough to no when she is lying to me. i understand im an adult and everything and im not saying i want to b showered in gifts and attention. i just wish my mother and siblings would have said happy bday. or at least acknowledged the day somewhow even since ive pointed it out they havent apologized now have they gave me a hpapy blated bday. my mom told me today to buy whatever i watned for my bday and give it to her shed wrap it and give me the money back. it really pissed me off. i dont want a gift i just want an apology. how can i make them understand how hurt i am?!

2007-10-13 15:34:29 · 32 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family

Whenever he sees me like when I come downstairs he takes out an infatable toy penis and hits me then spits on me....HELP!

IM NOT JOKING.

2007-10-13 15:32:05 · 16 answers · asked by Jhhuuu H 1 in Family

I just hate and hate and hate my parents to death! I know all of you people think everyone hates their parents but I just hate them! What is their freakin' problem? I cant have fun anymore! They always spoil everything! They don't let me go to my friends house, to a concert, or even wal-mart!I'm a female I make good grades and what else do they want with me? All they do is trying to ruin my life! I tried being peaceful but I couldn't! Every time I see my parents I want the world to destruct or kill them and every human being on earth(even myself!). Ever since my grandma pass away they act more strict and lazy. And sometimes I get in trouble with the teacher because it was my parents responsibility to sign something and they left it somewhere else or don't do it at all! Every time I get good grades they don't even put effort into what they're saying. Sometimes I even think about being violent! And the only way to have positive attitudes are when I'm away from them.

2007-10-13 15:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by masami 1 in Family

please help me,, in our country we know nothing about sex before marriage,, just the general idea ,,i was married to a man i used to konw him for 1 year ,, but after marriage i discovered that he can't..you understand me ...i'm still vigin i got divorce,,,,,and now i want you please tell me more about it .. i don't want watch porn ,, and don't want ask one i know,, so if you please tell me how long it take to get satisfied and how long for a man to get in the lady before he reach the satisfaction point and aslo the lady...i hope you can get my questions,, thanks in advance..

2007-10-13 15:27:37 · 4 answers · asked by nana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yea, last night I went out with a friend, but he got preoccupied with playin darts. I was sitting at the end of the bar watching people and this crazy pretty and drunk girl I made an aquaintance with came to sit by me, so every freakin guy in the bar with a hard on is coming twords us. This one guy in particular was a little rough with her and thinking he could do whatever he wanted cuz it was "his birthday". She was welcoming the roughness, you know? I just wanted to leave. So everytime I got up to leave, he would push me back down in my seat. At one point he grabbed my hair, pulled my head back and tried to make me kiss him. I just kept turing my head away. He kept sayin he was gonna **** us. Of course, eveyone else was drunk and knew this guy, so they didn't do anything. When I told my "friends" afterward they laughed.

I need to tell my boyfriend who is living 16oo miles away from me cuz it feels like a lie not to tell him and that is how he will take it. Hes gonna freak. WDID??

2007-10-13 15:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by talonz_lady02 3 in Singles & Dating