i'm doing an affair with 40 ys old man who has wife and 2ys old son. i love him, always wanna be together, but it's imppossible now because of his family.
but i want.
i have told the wife once " hello ? Could you separate your husband? bye." on the phone.
when i did this, i was ready that he will leave me , end this relationships and go back his home.
but he didn't . he is going to continue with me not even getting angry with what i did.
i' m sesious. i can't wait for him any more.
Please tell me what i should do to make them divorce.
(we are all in Japan . he is foregner so need wife for VISA.)
2007-10-13 15:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank you many advices.
but there are many couples remarried all over the world.
2007-10-13 16:23:37 · update #1
Show his wife pictures of you together.
2007-10-13 15:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rich V 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all this breaks my heart. How could you do this? How could he do this? There is a child involved. You are the one that needs to walk away. This man will never have a chance with his family if you don't walk away. I hate to be brutually honest, but if he wanted you bad enough he would divorce his wife. All you are to him is a "f..ck" and he is getting it for free. Trust me if you did not exist he would then have to pay for a hooker. Why pay for a hooker when he has you for free. I know you are not American, but if you seperated from him and devoted yourself to learning how to write in english...just imagine how much better you writing skills would be and then you could get a real job. Instead, of spreading your legs for free!
2007-10-13 23:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your intention is evil, and your disregard for his wife and child is incredible. What do you expect would come next in the unlikely event you're successful in getting him exclusively to yourself? I mean if he cheated with you, don't you think he would in turn cheat ON you? I hope for your sake and everyone else concerned that your plan doesn't succeed, but mostly I hope you have an awakening of consciousness and conscience, and realize that marriages and families are sacred.
2007-10-13 23:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not make someone get a divorce if they do not want to and believe me he will never divorce his wife. You are only someone who is waiting on the side that he can use for sex. Find someone else that can love you and not another married man. Married men are not worth it especially when they cheat on their wifes.
2007-10-13 22:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't make him divorce her. You leave him alone because if he leaves her for you then he will likely repeat the same behavior shortly after. If he really loves you then he wouldn't put you in the position you are in now with no real standing and subject to a great deal of scorn if you relationship ever comes out.
2007-10-13 22:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by indydst8 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try finding someone else who is single, instead of destroying someone elses marriage.
Also, if you think that he will leave her and marry you, the chances of that marriage lasting are VERY, VERY low.
Grow up you tramp, and leave a married man alone.
2007-10-13 23:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please grow up. There are plenty of men out there who can give you the respect, love and attention you deserve. If he leaves his wife for you, he is going to cheat on you too.
2007-10-14 00:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to divorce his wife, he would. It's obvious that he wants to be with his wife and his child, he only wants you on the side. You can't force anyone to do something they don't want to do.
2007-10-13 22:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your so selfish.
How could you even harbour such thoughts.
If he ever divorces his wife, to be with them. There's a chance he might divorce you to be with another woman.
2007-10-13 22:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by withering_blackrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about "get a man of your own instead of being a b*tch and trying to ruin someone else's marriage"?
2007-10-13 22:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋