Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

My friend told me this. She found a condom in her her husband's bag when he came back from a business trip. He said it was his friend who bought the whole pack and ask him to keep in his bag.and the 1 condom she found was proberly becuz when the friend took all the packs,he accidentally left one there.

The hubby has always been good to the family and he 's committed to the kids n her.Their love has always been strong and he always does stuffs to show his love for the family.He kept saying he will never leave them

Becuz of these,she don't know what to do as she has no further proof.She won't beleive whatever the friend say cuz she think men always help each other to cover their tracks. I don't know what answer to give her. Any ideas ?

2007-10-13 19:46:17 · 27 answers · asked by beauty guru 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 19:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 19:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by followchirst 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a 6 year relationship with my guy,for the past 4 years I' m the one who has to initiate sex ,my guy is really lazy by the way but it gets really agreviating that if I want sex I have to keep looking for it. I would like to feel wanted for once .I haven't gained weight or have let go of my self in any way, but its fustraaating !I have tried to not initiate sex see if he does it but weeks passed by and no response. I think he has stopped wanting me. I have suggested to try different things but hes always in blah mood! I am 11 years younger than him and I dont know if that has anything to do with it .He really has some bad excuses for me when were alone , he tells me stuff like my head hurts, I have stress, or he always wants the little one to sleep in our bed.I am not pestering him.I give him his space but,Idont know anymore it is really fustraiting.I think he's cheating .

2007-10-13 19:38:35 · 15 answers · asked by carinna h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my last girl friend didnt even let me put my hand in her back pocket but my new one wants me to massage her breasts
which im fine with but i dont wanna get slapped in the end and find out im being used

2007-10-13 19:37:48 · 8 answers · asked by Ben S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my Husband for 6 years and we have been together for 10 years. We have a son that is 8yrs. old and a daughter that is 11yr. old. I'm 30 and he is 38. My Husband does not want to have sex at all any more. I tell him that this is a problem and what can I do to help him. This has just really started in the last 3 months. He says that he needs some blood work done but will not go get it done. It has been 3 weeks and I can not take it any longer... I think that it has something to do with him taking Percocet pain pills for six years now. I'm not saying that he does not hurt and need them I have been observing him taking them every time that he walks by the bottle. He does not see a problem with them and even states that some days he does not even take them at all. I'm not sure. What can I do to solve this problem? We love each other a lot. But this is DRIVING me CRAZY all I want is once a week? Am I asking to much.. HELP!!!!!!

2007-10-13 19:37:09 · 21 answers · asked by Martha S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls... are there any signals which a guy shud lookout for to see if someone is interested in him? If so, what sort of signals?

2007-10-13 19:36:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for relatively inexpensive bridesmaid gowns (like under $150), but not David's Bridal or Alfred Angelo. Any suggestions?

If you want more specifics, I am looking for cocktail/knee length dresses with either spaghetti straps or a tank-style top. I would like either organza or satin. Thanks!

2007-10-13 19:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by Emmy Jo (13 weeks with #2) 7 in Weddings

So she sits behind me in math class which started about a month ago and meets every MWF, and last wednesday was the first time we had group work and i was in her group so this was really the first time i had to talked to her. So we talked about what we had to do for school work and that was pretty much it for that day. So i thought she was really pretty and seemed cool. So then on Friday i struck up the another convo. about the HW we had to do at the beginning of class and then really didn't talk to her til after. Then After class i was walking with her and i asked her about her weekend and what she was up to, and then she asked me and i told her. She then said "is that all your doing" and i said yeah. Then we said cya and that was the last time i had talked to her. Anyway my question is do i have a good thing going with this girl and when she said "is that all your doing" was that saying do you wanna hang out or something like that?

2007-10-13 19:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To all who responded to my questions...were offended by them...agreed with them...or even just read the questions...no hard feelings...I totally felt what you guys said in your replies...much love, and thanks for giving me your perspective...it has indeed opened my mind...blessings to you all...you happened upon my questions tonight for a reason and i thank you for your time to consider and respond:)

2007-10-13 19:35:41 · 9 answers · asked by Klewless 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would ur rather have a hot shollow girl or a average fun lovin gurl what type of qualites do u want that dosen't have to do with SEX

2007-10-13 19:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

for the past two yrs ive been interested in a shyguy and we always had a thing, and we finially started "talking" lastyear but another girl came along and i guess he picked her over me. after tehy stopped talking he hella tried to flirt with me and called me 3times during the summer, but for some reason he hella ignores me now, no more hello's, IM's. nothing, but he helllllla talks to all my close friends yet ignores me?and hes always hella quiet around me,even when i try to make a conversatoin, but loud around my friends. just the other day i was in the same place as him, and we were bout 2ft away and throughtout the whole time, he never said a word to me, but he was helal talkative to my friends and he knows they have bf's too. and when iwas around he talks but when i go away he doesnt talk as much. whatttsup with this? is he tryna make me jealous? or does he still like me or something? or hes just awkward towards me. this is driving me nutsss.

2007-10-13 19:33:13 · 3 answers · asked by mmmmmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 19:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by Sciara L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i talk to my guyfriends and somehow with all of them we always talk about sex maybe not in every conversation but...

sooner or later SEX SEX SEX

how does this happend to me

my other friends are like amazed and ask whats it like and i dont even know how to answer

do u think there are certain girls talk about sex with or what?

2007-10-13 19:31:48 · 3 answers · asked by Urban__Sweete. 3 in Friends

It's that saying - you can tell from his kiss. I never really believed it because it sounded too cliches and kisses are usually for fun...but this time it was different...

i'm a very blunt, straightforward, honest, and decisive person...when kiss someone, i'll usually know if it's good or not...sometimes, it's good at first but the feeling dies..meaning they were never real or it's just really bad and you know off the bad

it's been 9 months since we've kissed, and i still can't stop thinking about...i've never been kissed like that before...it's not just a kiss...it should me the meaning of really being intimate with someone you care and love...it's like more than sex...it felt like it was the very first kiss i've had...it's not just kissing someone for the sake of doing it and "kissing"...it's to express how you feel for the other person in a more beautiful way

what do you think? what kind of kiss was this?

2007-10-13 19:30:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think gives you somekind of idea the type of person they are?

2007-10-13 19:30:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before you ever talk to them or hear them speak. And be honest. Its okay.

2007-10-13 19:29:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My next door neighbor was dating this guy for 2 years. Well the last 6 months he's been flirting with me, so I flirted back, no harm in that right?

So 2 weeks ago he breaks up with her and now for the last week he's been coming to my house to hang out and we've been having sex. We aren't trying to hide that we are involved from his ex what would be the point right?

Yesterday as I was walking to my car my neighbor walked up to me and says she wants to invite her ex and I to go to church with her this Sunday. I just looked at her cause isn't that a bit strange? She could tell I wasn't sure if she was serious. So she says she's serious there's no hard feelings and it would be nice. I told her I would think about it.

I ran into her again today and she stops to chat and mentions that our walls are paper thin and she can hear us at night...um yeah talk about awkward...then asks if we've decided to come to church Sunday....

What should I do? Should we go to church with her?

2007-10-13 19:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 19:24:37 · 14 answers · asked by william p 2 in Weddings

Thease girls at school keep comming up to my boyfriend and flirting with him at school, and at skateland! They go your still going out with that b*tch and he says ya i am got a problem? what should i do? how do i get rid of them? HELP PLEASE!

2007-10-13 19:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by zumiezgirl808 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it is a form of manipulation... but I'm afraid of feeling guilty if he chooses to do so. I know ultimately I have no control over the situation but, I still can't help feeling guilty for making the decision to leave a unhealthy relationship.

2007-10-13 19:22:10 · 27 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Pretty much every Women & Men have a Sex Fantasy do you share it or keep it to yourself?

2007-10-13 19:21:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 14 years old turning 15 in 2 months, my boyfriend just turned 17 about 8 days ago. we've been going out for almost 8 months. is it illegal in the state of texas to be dating?

2007-10-13 19:19:42 · 13 answers · asked by paige 2 in Singles & Dating

ok. now i know why she always asks to turn of the lights before we get down to business. But, yesterday i walked in on her changing and i feel so stupid. What should I do. She denies it and calls me crazy. Am I crazy?

2007-10-13 19:18:34 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend...she just recently started dating a guy who lives more than 1,000 miles away. About a month ago they agreed to get married when he comes to visit (which is only a month from 10/14/07). He's in the army and if they get married he get's money every month.
But here's the catcher...he moves back to his home that's thousands of miles away...without her.
I don't want to see her do this!!! I know that it may not work out like she wants it to and sometimes I think she's just doing it because she gets money from this! What do I do? What should I tell her? She is moving too fast for someone she only talks to via text or phone!

2007-10-13 19:18:28 · 9 answers · asked by Na 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you be fine with a robot that did everything you asked or would that just be boring after a while?

2007-10-13 19:16:21 · 10 answers · asked by delina_m 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm to shy loool altough it really doesnt seem so to many people. should i tell my best friend to tell him?or like tell his friend? i mean i flirt a lot with him but i feel like im sending wrong signals as well, & just am tired of it, & want him to know because i think he likes me too. so any idea on what i should do?

2007-10-13 19:16:08 · 8 answers · asked by ☮ 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you like meeting new people?
 How do people get to know (get to meet) new people?
 (Similar to above) Do you like talking to strangers?
 When was the last occasion you met someone new?
 Can you remember your first (or, your earliest) friends? (Who were they?)
 Would you say friends are important?

2007-10-13 19:15:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 19:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by stacy s 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a 3 some when I 1st got married I did not think my marriage would last more then a week or 2 and a friend of mine and I got drunk with her husband and well I think you can guess the rest!

the 3 of us was wrong and told one another it would never happen again if we wanted to stay friends, However I found out 3 months ago my Mother in Law saw the 3 of us the next morning! 3 months ago she got really angry with me and informed my husband what she saw those 14 years ago.

The couple I had the 3 some with was one of our closest friend that point in time my husband in a fit of anger exposed what he found out to their 2 kids and beat the hell out of him!
as you can guess know longer friends of our and have moved scenes then to parts unknown! My husband had me served with divorce papers and moved me out of our home now he's got HARD PROOF of the 3 some!

He told me after I got served he was going to get some
p%$$y, has been humiliating me ever sense!

2007-10-13 19:12:08 · 27 answers · asked by The Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce