My next door neighbor was dating this guy for 2 years. Well the last 6 months he's been flirting with me, so I flirted back, no harm in that right?
So 2 weeks ago he breaks up with her and now for the last week he's been coming to my house to hang out and we've been having sex. We aren't trying to hide that we are involved from his ex what would be the point right?
Yesterday as I was walking to my car my neighbor walked up to me and says she wants to invite her ex and I to go to church with her this Sunday. I just looked at her cause isn't that a bit strange? She could tell I wasn't sure if she was serious. So she says she's serious there's no hard feelings and it would be nice. I told her I would think about it.
I ran into her again today and she stops to chat and mentions that our walls are paper thin and she can hear us at night...um yeah talk about awkward...then asks if we've decided to come to church Sunday....
What should I do? Should we go to church with her?
2007-10-13 19:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ur a slu*. Why would you sleep with your neighbors ex. She's probably inviting you hoping lightning strikes both of you and you both die!
2007-10-14 05:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do what you think is right for you when it comes to going to church with her or not.
As for him... If he couldn't make a relationship last longer than 2 years with her. What makes you think that he can or will with you? Your "new" guy sounds like a Player to me. And you're being played just as she had been.
Sorry just my opinion based on your explanation of the whole thing. You should find out more about his past relationships, and such before getting too attached to him. Another words... Don't take his word alone on everything that happened between him and the other woman. Perhaps she herself ended up with him in the same manner of fashion that you did. And don't take his word alone on anything else he might be telling you. Do a little checking yourself.
2007-10-14 14:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by StoneCold 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the both of you are comfortable with going to church with her then go, otherwise i would skip it....not sure why she wants to have your two join her....as for paper-thin walls, well, at least she knows and you don't have to tell her....if you aren't interested/don't feel like going with her to church then don't....why make yourself more uncomfortable and feel even more awkward?
2007-10-14 02:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All sounds like lefts over scraps to me.
I'd stay away big time.
If it doesn't work out you still have to live next to each another.
That could be a disaster.
2007-10-14 02:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should go but just as you enter the threshhold of the building start screaming like you are on fire and roll around. make a big scene infront of everybody.
2007-10-14 20:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Mastershake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if she says there are no hard feelings but then again you can't be too sure because some women try to hide their feelings and she may be just trying to get close to him again
2007-10-14 02:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kaylea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to church with her. You obviously need some moral direction in your life
right?
2007-10-14 02:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by tlindsey3417@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Are you sure this guy is not with you because you are convenient. Even if he broke up with her dont let him use you
2007-10-14 02:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by see_jane2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feelings.
If you dont wanna, just say no!
2007-10-14 02:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mimza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a life!!
2007-10-14 02:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋