Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

I love my 2 best friends but i still popular and my friends don't really like them and I've known my 2 best friends longer and there nicer 2 then the others ones so idk if i like all my other friends or my 2 best friends cuz if i hangout with the ppl they'll hate they'll me back but i dont really care help!!!

2007-10-13 03:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by cheetahgirl 2 in Friends

When I was younger say 7-15 all I wanted to do was get married have true love and 4 kids. Now the thought of getting married makes me sick I can't even pictuer myself with the same person for the rest of my life. Is this just something everyone gose through.

2007-10-13 03:22:51 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he thought that I like Mexican guys and I don't. I'm really upset. I am about to cry. Can someone help me cheer up?

2007-10-13 03:15:10 · 32 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Singles & Dating

Situation is this.
Up until last week, everything was fine (I truley believe it was). Until she said "I dont think I can go through with it, im not sure" I was in shock, the wedding was all planned, by her, it was all her idea, she asked me picked the location the ring, who was coming... her parents paid for it all, we were going to Maritus! Only last week SHE was talking baby names and such. Now this.
After this bombshell, she said wanted to clear her head and left for a few days, didnt say when she'd be back, didnt ring or text me to let me know shes ok. I've been a mess throwing up blood (cos theres nothing left in my stomach) and I find out shes been clubbing, getting hair cuts and just doesnt seem to care. I'm so hurt and confused, didnt see this coming. Now she will only talk about our money matters. She is very "matter of fact about it all". She says she was pressured, but everything was on her terms. None of it makes sense. Maybe she never loved me? Hasnt even asked if im ok

2007-10-13 03:09:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do modeling I love to go to the gym and workout .I see a lot of guys there and guys say im hot all the time but i dont like big guys,
im 5'11 and im 165 pounds and im looking for a guy like 5'9 and 115,120 pounds and no bigger.
also the size of a guys d*ck is the most important to me it has to be big,thats the biggest turn on for me :P OMG...

where to find these hott guys

2007-10-13 03:09:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some of my friends say I might be gay because when I run I let my hands flop around me. I sure hope I am not because I like girls a lot and I am not attracted to guys. When my best friend ( a girl ) found out I was gay she was so excited because she had always wanted a gay friend. She set me up on a few dates with guys. I felt really wierd but I tried to give the guys a try. It was not the same as when I dated girls. When will I find a guy I like? When ever my best friend asks me to describe the type of guy I like I say things like really smooth skin, long hair, no facial or body hair, hour glass shape... and then I end up describing a girl. What is wrong with me? I can't think of any guy I have ever met or seen that I feel attracted to. If I am gay why can't I start liking guys? I will stand in front of the mirror without any clothes on and see if I turn myself on but it doesn't work real well.

2007-10-13 03:06:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't mean your heart ..I mean a physical thing

2007-10-13 03:01:59 · 20 answers · asked by Eileen J 7 in Family

if i was on a date i would take you to the beach about sunset and i would have a picnic(im a grate cook)and about the moon comes up(full)i would light the candals i set out all around.and play a slow song on my sax, and sing "everything i do i do it for you"(Im a grate singer) . Afterwards, I would take you home walke you to your porch and hug you but not kiss and say "good night im so glad im with you tonight"

2007-10-13 03:01:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive tolerated people all my life, especially my 2 brotherinlaws from hell, they put me down, theyr sarcastic,boss me around, are full of mean comments, and i always just ignore them with a smile on my face cos i dont want to see trouble brew in my family
the last few months ive been fighting back, and tonight i argued with one of them,
my sister pulled me aside and asked what the hell is wrong with me, and that i never used to get angry,
i told her i cant take it anymore and ill give it right back,
am i better off staying away from family gatherings to avoid these creeps, or should i just keep fighting back?
my family are starting to think im the bad guy now!

2007-10-13 02:56:57 · 20 answers · asked by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 in Family

I never meant to hurt anybody.I simply met someone who matched all of my qualifications & I went for it.I didnt think he had a wife in another country.There was no way for me to know that because we live in the US.

He hid it from me for 2 yrs.When I kept asking him why wasnt the relationship moving forward he would not want to talk about it. He suddenly said he was getting married last summer in Bangladesh & that made it even worse.I felt like a reject & that he picked some Bengali girl over me.

He finally told me he was married the whole time last weekend for the last 6 yrs. & has 2 kids. We split for about 6 mos. but now he has been coming back around & asking me to spend time w/him. We confessed everything to each other last weekend & ended up having sex afterwards. We've been getting along great, but each day I regret it. He acts more open & nicer to me now. I dont know why I have been such a fool for him. But I feel like my self esteem is low even though I am very pretty.

2007-10-13 02:55:53 · 52 answers · asked by cinnamon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a failed relationship 2 years ago.
There were a lot of boys who come and go and now I am still single. I can't find the reason why. There were guys who will told me they like me but don't prove it. I want a guy who is smart, with a good educational backgropund, sweet and loyal in a sense.I want to be in a relationship again...a serious relationship again. But I don't know how. Is it time to lower down all my standards, just for the sake of having one?

2007-10-13 02:53:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents used to fight very badly, banging things all over the place. thank god they divorced when i was 6. i'm now 19.

but i feel hate all the time (u can see my other question) and i found someone sharing the same feelings as me, its scary:
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i HATE them. my teachers suck. i HATE them too. my friends are all fake bcuz they ignore me, and ive been alienated at school by everyone. i HATE them all. i also HATE my church, cuz they always talk about love and jesus, but they dont know my suffering. animals are okay, tho. i think that my feelings are justified, do any of u think so too?
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i love dogs. i wish i had a dog so at least i'd have one real friend. i hate my teachers because tho they know my problem, they arent too forgiving or helpful. i'v got bilateral hearing loss of more than 50% each ear.

2007-10-13 02:50:31 · 10 answers · asked by nobodyknowsme™ 5 in Family

I look at my boyfriend yahoo answer page and he said to yahoo answer it was this female he text he send her sex things and the change numbers do you think that is keeping something from your girlfriend and why do he do thing like that to me what did i ever do to him I don't keep nothing from him all i do is go to school and to work i don't text men and we don't talk on the phone about sex and than when i ask him he said he never text a female and the female said she when to meet him i had a dream about it and it was true so why he took his yahoo account out because it is true

2007-10-13 02:47:31 · 12 answers · asked by yaya 1 in Singles & Dating

and expect him to understand all your emotional baggage, when we men do it then its considered being weak

Why is women want men to be sensitive and when we are then its considered weak

They wanna change men but when we do they think we are push over, they want me to agree with them but when its my turn to get a little compassion they go blasting

Im just angry, the honest truth is, Man is there to balance women and women is there to balance men, and if you try to change yourself for the other, you screw up the whole balance and they will walk all over you,,

You know whats the funniest thing is ? now that i dont care, there is tons of women around me and they say im changed, yup now i understand it takes jerks to make a women respect the nice guy in her life, Im done with the nice guy bit and im enjoying the jerk phase,,,

2007-10-13 02:47:11 · 10 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1 in Singles & Dating

The new wife contacts me asking information about the upcoming weekend, informs me when they are doing things, plans child pick-ups, etc. In fact, she was the one who told me about the wedding. It's as if she is his manager. She usually ends the email with telling me I should let her know if she is interfering, although I've told her many times it is not her place and that the children's father should be doing the communication. I guess the angry factor comes from him once again taking the back seat and letting someone else do his work and not having any ownership or accountability.

2007-10-13 02:46:22 · 9 answers · asked by manager 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Two daughters being raised without their mother, and each hopes to reach adulthood and be happy. Which one you think would have more success?

1. Mayella - abusive dad and many annoying siblings to care for
2. Lee - has three ladies to help her; Calpurnia, Maudie, and Alexandra

2007-10-13 02:44:45 · 4 answers · asked by b4f2f 2 in Family

can somone tell me??

2007-10-13 02:43:24 · 1 answers · asked by jug head 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

some one at my school died i didnt really know her dut we hung out some times her name was Rochelle she got hit by a car i really miss her what should i do?

2007-10-13 02:40:06 · 31 answers · asked by Clara 2 in Friends

ive decided to bring my 4 year old daughter up on my own... and not meet another man till she has grown up.. think im scared that we will be treated bad again..... am i doing the right thing?.....

2007-10-13 02:39:34 · 22 answers · asked by kaz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 02:38:00 · 4 answers · asked by Eileen J 7 in Family

Whenever I'm reading a webpage or a blog, or whatever really, he always wants to know where I found it. If it was linked on a forum, he wants to see the thread. If I found it on google, he wants me tell him what I searched for and why. Even if it's something I've had bookmarked for a while and can't remember, he still wants to know where I found it. He says he's just taking interest and that it's no big deal, but it really annoys me- because I think that means he has trust issues, and automatically assumes I found it on a site that he considers inappropriate. I'm really tired of having to prove to him that I'm innocent and didn't find this random blog on a hardcore gay pron site. Is what he does normal behaviour?

2007-10-13 02:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by Arisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

women and flirts with other women ?

2007-10-13 02:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy for 6 years ( we never lived together) but things didn't worked out between us. He is a great guy and my 2 sons( 19 and 9) adores him and he does to them too- in other words, they are inseparable. My problem is, I want to move to another state to start a new life but I feel bad for them especially my 9 year old who does not want to come with me. (They're not close to their father) I have asked my ex-husband about taking our son with me and he agreed but not my ex-boyfriend, he'll "die" without my kids. He's never been married and never had any kids and he treated mine as his own, even go to PTA meeting. I really want to move but I'm confused. Should I leave my 9 year old with him until I get settled in the new state or take him with me and never come back, I don't plan on coming back here. I want to leave everything behind so we can move on. Am I being selfish or just doing what I think is best for us? I promise them that they will still keep in touch to each other.

2007-10-13 02:32:42 · 4 answers · asked by ItsMeeh2250 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 02:26:59 · 2 answers · asked by vaidhya n 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 02:24:05 · 21 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 02:20:04 · 9 answers · asked by EDWARD S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 02:17:05 · 6 answers · asked by carmela vee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It is half past ten but I’m still awake,
Reminiscing the past we once have shared.
We have always dream that we would last
But I guess it was a big mistake.

We have always been together
That we thought it would be forever
But faith opened my eyes to reality
That you and me together is just a fantasy.

I remember the day when we last met
You hold my hand and made me melt
You told me that you never want us to part
And promise me you’ll never depart.

I always live of what you have said,
And thinking about it makes me smile
You made me happy and contented
And everyone can see me glowing from a mile.

And now that you are gone
All that I can do is to mourn
Till such time that I can move on
And find someone who can love me more than you did.

2007-10-13 02:16:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

said he wanted to **** a supermodel, instead of dating me....We were playing this would u rather game, ad he said that straight up to my face! what does this mean?? IVE BEEN CRYING JUST TO FIND OUT! Ive gone from emo to cutter, in 5seconds flat after i heard that...Y would he do that to me?? why are some men such jerks?? i gave him respect, im devoted to him, i'd nvr say anything bad about him, and wham! i get backstabbed by a guy who supposedly loves me... what do i do?? :'(

2007-10-13 02:09:58 · 19 answers · asked by Meh. 3 in Singles & Dating

You lied to me about those school books.

I found them upstairs on your bed.

I was referring to the possibility of a little silence.

2007-10-13 02:08:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends