Whenever I'm reading a webpage or a blog, or whatever really, he always wants to know where I found it. If it was linked on a forum, he wants to see the thread. If I found it on google, he wants me tell him what I searched for and why. Even if it's something I've had bookmarked for a while and can't remember, he still wants to know where I found it. He says he's just taking interest and that it's no big deal, but it really annoys me- because I think that means he has trust issues, and automatically assumes I found it on a site that he considers inappropriate. I'm really tired of having to prove to him that I'm innocent and didn't find this random blog on a hardcore gay pron site. Is what he does normal behaviour?
2007-10-13 02:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by Arisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
keep away from him,he may be gay and very dangerous.if he hits you tell your mom so she can kick his butt.
2007-10-13 02:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him to **** off, that is REALLY not appropriate for him to be doing.
Tell him that if he doesn't trust you to surf the internet alone (which is totally weird) then he should leave.
He is treating you like a child, which is disrespect of the utmost kind, he doesn't even think you can surf the INTERNET alone.
You need to let him know how much his lack of trust annoys you, and that it IS a big deal, and that if he is just 'taking an interest' that he can go take an interest somewhere else!
I'd dump a guy if he kept doing that to me.
Also, its NOT up to him what sites you view, no matter HOW innapropriate they are. If you want to lok at porn or whatever (not implying that you do though lol) then you have every right and it's none of his business!
2007-10-13 02:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To an extent. If it is something that really interests him, he may want to go see what else is available that is similar to that subject. Or he could be wondering where it is that you are reading this if you tell him what you are reading on a daily basis. For example, I have MyYahoo page set up like I want it with my own interests and I read it everyday and my hubby asked where I come up with all of this and I told him, but that was the end of it. I have to explain some things to him bc he does not understand very much about the net. But in your situation, he is wanting to keep an eye on you about where you visit on the web. Show him how to view the history and tell him to stop asking you all of the time bc it is really getting to you. This way he can check it out when he gets ready and will hopefully leave you alone. Also, start doing him like that with things. Ask for every detail you can when he says things that he found out or if he went anywhere. He will get tired of it too. Tell him that you are sick of him following your every move like he does, and let him know that it has to stop.
2007-10-13 02:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not normal! and you are correct in assuming that your boy friend has issues! he doesn't trust you. what he's doing is an outcropping of a CONTROL issue. some things to consider might be, "is he the child of an alcoholic or drug abuser" past or present? if so, you need to tread softly, watch out for any indication that he might turn abusive and if you see it, tell him to seek immediate assistance from a qualified person. DO NOT ATTEMPT to change his behavior by yourself. it can't be done!!!! if he doesn't seek help, RUN FOR THE HILLS!
2007-10-13 02:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by da_zoo_keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a little of both with him. Next time just tell him you don't remember or say "why do you need to know?" . Gee, I couldn't stand someone doing that either. Have a chat with him about it. He sounds like the jealous type.
2007-10-13 02:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound normal to me....as you said, he definitely has some trust issues with you. You should ask him why he needs to know everything you do on the internet and you also have to be upfront and tell him how you feel about it.
2007-10-13 02:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Save me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen!! every guy or boyfriend wants to protect his girlfriend coz he loves her, so your bf has been checking you or just it might e his interest also. But apologised with him and tell him that you never finds that blog, thread or anything on the hardcore gay pron site, coz u never take interest to seek it. that's all?
2007-10-13 02:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hallo. I think you should trust your intuition on this one. The trust issue is a big one. The trust issue does run both ways.
2007-10-13 02:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by tamonmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a controller. The next step is to try to isolate you from your other friends and your family, then he will become abusive. Find another boyfriend fast.
2007-10-13 02:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you found you information and and have and opinion. then challenge him to find and answer they same way. Then tell him I will show you my info if you show me yours. play a head game with him. It may turn out to be quite entertaining for you both.
2007-10-13 02:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Asa S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's hard to say it could be that he has trust issues or me may have a genuine interest..........but if he does it with EVERY thing you read i'd say it's a trust issue,but that's just my opinion
2007-10-13 02:39:19 · answer #11 · answered by tracey d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋