When I was younger say 7-15 all I wanted to do was get married have true love and 4 kids. Now the thought of getting married makes me sick I can't even pictuer myself with the same person for the rest of my life. Is this just something everyone gose through.
2007-10-13 03:22:51 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-10-13 03:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are NORMAL, NORMAL, NORMAL, NORMAL, NORMAL, get it?
What you want at 7-15 years old usually bears little resemblance to what you want at 17-25 years, 27- 35 years etc. We base our life aspirations on our knowledge of life, as that knowledge base widens so do the options.
You could still end up wanting to get married and have children, (4 will be very expensive, hope the plan also includes a career path). The difference is that as we mature our wishes and decisions are based in the realities of life rather than the fantasies of childhood.
2007-10-13 12:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by leafmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's normal.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to grow - experience life and form your own identity. Then if you meet the right person get married.
I'm in my 30's and never married. I don't feel that I've been cheated. I have a good education, a good job, bought my own house, support myself and take care of myself. I know who I am and where I'm going. If I happen to meet someone that I want to spend the rest of my life with - great. If not, that's OK too - I'm still happy with my life.
2007-10-13 11:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did!! When you are younger you want the fairly tail...the big house perfect hubby, kids and a dog...then as you get older you realize that the "perfect fair tail" is probably pretty UN realistic..so you decide in your mind that you will be happy and have your perfect life without anyone else!!
The SAME thing happened to me, I didnt think I would ever marry or have kiddos...but I met someone who I am absolutly head over heels in love with and we have children BUT we are a little older!!
This may come in time for you but your feelings are perfectly normal!!
2007-10-13 10:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you see other relationships around you where people are together and not happy. You have to take this one day at a time and when you find the right person you will again want the marriage and the kids but don't rush things or worry about that yet.
2007-10-13 10:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you have not find the right person to love ,when you do sometimes all lodge will go out the door.There are some peoples that never get married you maybe one of the one that choose not to.
2007-10-13 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is normal, when I was young I wanted a husband and 2 kids, now I am 40 divorced twice and thankfully no kids. Don't rush into anything and in time you will change again.
2007-10-13 10:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Serenayowlerlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really but some people weren't supposed to get married until later on in life your mind might change if and when you find the right person
2007-10-13 10:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smart! Donot commit to any man for the rest of your life. Stay single and play!
2007-10-13 10:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is something I am definitely passing through.
i think I'll never accept to be someones wife and according to my age I should think about it promptly.
2007-10-13 10:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and now youre what 16? dont sweat it, take it one day at a time.
2007-10-13 10:26:09 · answer #11 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋