Some of my friends say I might be gay because when I run I let my hands flop around me. I sure hope I am not because I like girls a lot and I am not attracted to guys. When my best friend ( a girl ) found out I was gay she was so excited because she had always wanted a gay friend. She set me up on a few dates with guys. I felt really wierd but I tried to give the guys a try. It was not the same as when I dated girls. When will I find a guy I like? When ever my best friend asks me to describe the type of guy I like I say things like really smooth skin, long hair, no facial or body hair, hour glass shape... and then I end up describing a girl. What is wrong with me? I can't think of any guy I have ever met or seen that I feel attracted to. If I am gay why can't I start liking guys? I will stand in front of the mirror without any clothes on and see if I turn myself on but it doesn't work real well.
2007-10-13 03:06:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your friends are a little confused about what being gay means.
Being gay has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do with how your hand behaves when you are running.
Gay people's bodies behave the same as straight people's bodies when exercising, sleeping, eating, riding horses....whatever. Your friends are immature.
2007-10-13 03:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
the think which u have describe its just showing that u have a gay qulity not because u were not with the guys but u seem to be living with the girls so their way of interacting had been copied by u without u notice of it n becauce of ur gal
2007-10-13 10:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by dream s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop tying to make your friends right. They said you were gay because you made a gay gesture. People do that all of the time. Relax...your not gay your just curious as to why your friends think you are. Focus on girls right now since you are comefrotable with them. You may become gay when your older but dont worry about it right now. If it doesnt feel right then why do it? Dont listen to your friends...there idoits!!!
2007-10-13 10:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not attracted to men then you are not gay. However you do sound kind of submissive. Being that you were willing to go out on a date with a guy when you aren't attracted to guys because your friend wanted you to. Are you attracted to women who are very authoritative?
2007-10-13 10:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by tm1trish 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because your friends say you're gay doesn't mean that you are. I've never heard of anyone taking anything so seriously in my life. You know you like girls so ask one out and then they will think that you aren't. (You better bloody well not be.)
2007-10-13 10:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will know you are gay early on in life. As soon as you are old enough to discover sexual attraction. For many, it starts very early, as early as 10-11 years old. But it does take time to sort though things. If you have your doubts and strong curiosites about guys, it is very possible you are gay. There is nothing wrong with it.
2007-10-13 10:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Linda W 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You are not gay. They are just being mean. You said, "I like girls a lot and I am not attracted to guys." That statement alone makes you straight, not gay!!!
2007-10-13 10:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Phill Lee 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do guys get you hard? Do you feel more emotionally attracted to men then women?
If your answers are yes, you are gay. If not, you are straight.
You can have the stereotypical "gay mannerisms" and still be the straightest guy on earth if you only like women.
2007-10-13 10:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
how you run doesn't determine if you're gay If you like girls and not guys then you're not gay
2007-10-13 21:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Paco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For heaven's sake. Get away from those people. You are NOT gay. That is really stupid of your friends. Find yourself a new girlfriend. She was not right for you if she set you up with a guy. That is sick!
2007-10-13 10:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Teddy's Mom 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋