women and flirts with other women ?
2007-10-13 02:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What does it do to our marriage ?
2007-10-13 02:35:24 · update #1
He has indepth friendships with all the women he knows.
2007-10-13 02:39:08 · update #2
BTW I am not allowed to talk to other men period.
2007-10-13 02:44:23 · update #3
Thats a bad sign.
Sex is just that..sex with most men. But when a man gets an emotional attachment with a woman, she has potential to lure him away.
You & him need some counseling and fast or else he is going to end up cheating. If a person is in your mind, the body is soon to follow.
2007-10-13 02:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by cinnamon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are dealing with this level of betrayal. In some regards, emotional cheating is worse than the physical act; most men are hard-wired for a physical affair; however, they don't attach an emotional component to it, and therefore, find it easy to disengage from the mess. An emotional affair, however, means that energy is spent in cultivating the beginnings of a relationship with someone else. You need to sit down with your husband and kindly but firmly tell him your feelings on his behaviour. It's extremely disrespectful to you, as well as destroying his marriage. Also consider marriage counseling; sometimes, men don't listen to the wife, but they will heed a professional telling them that something is NOT okay. Aside from that, you need to sort out in counseling what is causing the "cause and effect" behaviours in your marriage, as well as working on what a marriage really means. Good luck and God bless.
2007-10-13 10:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well thats not right that u cant talk to other men. You know why he said that ur not allowed to?!??? I already knew that he is cheating on you when u said that you cant talk to other men. Why? because he thinks you're doing what he is doing behind ur back! Basically, he wants to do it but ur not allowed. He deserves more than some ***** slappin!
What will it do to ur marriage? LOTS! trust is now lost. trust is a very important factor for a successful marriage and now that it is gone, it will be hard to trust him with anything else.
2007-10-13 10:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by switbaby9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship between you and your husband is over if he is doing all that and the fact that you are not allowed to talk to other men tells me that he is a control freak. Get a divorce and find someone who love you instead of himself and although that may hurt now, you will have a lot better relationship and more happiness with someone else.
2007-10-13 09:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only damage you if you let him. You know who he is. You know what he does. He won't change no matter what he says. He can only hurt you if you let him. That he does not make you his number one priority or care that his actions are hurting you enough to take that time and put it into his marriage is not a good sign. Stop tolerating his B.S. He has no right. Either he is married and his marriage is his priority or he is not. It is up to you what you are willing to put up with. Don't be nice. Don't be a doormat. Expect respect or boot his butt to the curb and find a grown up to marry.
2007-10-13 09:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl you need to leave him because it's not fare for you to go threw a relationship where a man cheats on you one is OK but the second time honey walk out on him he doesn't deserve you and if you cant turn the tables on him then you don't need to be in a relationship trust me...
2007-10-13 10:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by BLOSSOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean cheating emotionally? We all flirt at times. Now if he is cheating physically, he is disrespecting your union of marriage and you. It's not a crime, but it could lead to crime. Don't let him take you there, you are smarter than that. If you must, investigate to quite your suspect ions and do what you must to let him know that you know all about it. Now you can give out some options.
2007-10-13 09:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Janice W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's doing it in front of you then shame on him. If you allow it then shame on you. Only you can decide when enough is enough, you can tell him that it hurts you and makes you feel uncomfortable and unloved. If he does it after that then you can do one of two things: 1) Decide what's good for the gander is good for the goose and flirt with other men, (mirror his behavior), or 2) You can decide to move on with your life and realize that you deserve better.
2007-10-13 09:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you worthy of the disrespect? Ask yourself? I don't think so. Emotion all cheating always leads to physical sex! ALWAYS! It is a given, a fact! It is up to you how long you will stay and take this abuse and neglect! I hope you leave him before he crushes your spirit and infects your body with an STD! pEACE!
2007-10-13 09:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fully understand where u r coming from!emotionally it hurts like hell!physically u just wont beable to trust him at all.i know i have been there for so many years!it hurts really bad when mine does that and talks about other women in the long run u will hate him for it!
2007-10-13 10:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Don't take life 4 granted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋