Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

... with a boy that is a friend when you don't have a regular boyfriend?

2007-10-13 04:37:58 · 20 answers · asked by MaRikA 2 in Singles & Dating

I have the BIGGEST crush on a junior at my school....i am a freshmen. I found out that he is SUPER nice and he is a GREAT student! But, he was going out with this girl that is one year older than him for like 2 years then she starts sleeping with one of his friends that is in the same grade as her....so they broke up and now they don't speak to each other and whenever he sees her it looks like he is EXTREMELY pissed and he looks like his heart is broken. Do you think he wasn't ready to sleep with her so that is why she cheated on him??? I am just curious to whether he is a virgin or not cuz i don't want to have a biggest crush on a player.

2007-10-13 04:35:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My marriage is suffering because my husband married me for personal gain, and not for love. I don't know how to get past that. He tells me that he wants to leave because I won't just forget about the fact that he did not marry me for love. He says that it is my fault for going ahead with the marriage even though I was in my early 20's and he was in his 30's. Can you learn to love some one if you never loved them in the beginning. How do I get past the fact that our marriage was a fraud but for some reasons we have stayed together for children and finacial reasons. Can you get over that?

2007-10-13 04:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by what? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So my wedding is tomorrow and yesterday my fiance and I had a long talk about whether it was the right thing to do or not. We had this talk about 4 months ago and decided we still wanted to get married. She told me she doesn't feel like she's completely in love with me anymore. We've been together for 4 years and just recently bought a house together. Our relationship has puttered out since we got engaged though. Things seem awkward sometimes and everyday communication feels like were forcing it. I feel like I'm trying so hard everyday to make her love me like she used to though which might be making it worse.

I think we let things like the wedding and house get in the way of showing each other how much we love each other over the last 2 years. Im worried she doesn't love me as much as I love her anymore though.

I think cold feet could be some of it but how can I be sure we're doing the right thing.

2007-10-13 04:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by Marc 1 in Weddings

I sent a 33 yr old woman some flowers and the next day she was visably more relaxed and softly spoken etc. Everyone else noticed the difference.

Why did the flowers have such an impact? Do you think she hadn't had flowers for a long time and they impacted on her etc?

2007-10-13 04:29:56 · 23 answers · asked by ronald c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm betting myself that it wont go 1 month, as she just cant keep her mouth shut. She is not the Law, and she does not care. She never grew up, Her mother, Father spoiled her, and i hope her sister learns from that!

2007-10-13 04:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by kjokergo11 3 in Family

While going through my dad's stuff on his laptop, i saw a video titled 200708..... which showed him having sex with a woman, and he was around his currnt age!!! I'm 16 and I'm psychologically devastated, I can't laugh at anything he says, I can't even look him in the face. I hate my mom working her *** out for that bastard but if I tell her that would devestate her and the family. What am i supposed to do!!!!

Please don't say: you shouldn't have been going through his stuff or you should do what you feel right... Please help, I'm disgusted by seeing him!

2007-10-13 04:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by Someone W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are lies women tell that would qualify them as such good liers?

2007-10-13 04:21:06 · 5 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

Where did the term come from?

2007-10-13 04:20:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've got my PhD and got hit by men in their sixties who lived in
trailers, loved the way I looked, loved my degree and expected me to improve their lives, so they hit on me as "I am 65 and live in a trailer. I love the way you look and I love it that you have PhD. "When will you move here and buy me a house?"
I was stupefied, but being a very modest girl, I thought it was
because I was an average looking thin girl, so these men (30+ years older than me) thought that as I was not good looking, I would be desperate.
Then my friend graduated from university. She is stunning blond with blue eyes, and even women admit it. What do you think? She was hit on old ugly men, high school drop outs, in trailers, blatantly asking her what amount of money she'd spend on them if they agree to be with her.
Why are men so demanding? These men have nothing to offer: no good looks, no good life, no youth... What made them belive that they deserve a stunning twenty something blond with a degree?

2007-10-13 04:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

basicly thiz gurl & i been talkin 2 for a while,jus recently gotten sexually active.so 1 day she comes n spendz tha nite.We had sex 4 roughly 3 1\2 houaz....wit convastionz between tha switchin uv positoinz...so when were finally dun,so we kiss eachotha till i fall ta sleep....then she wakez me up tellin me she haz thingz 2 db4 she haz ta go 2 wurk n dipz out 3 houaz b4 tha intended time...n im layin in tha bed still naked n tired wunderin did i get used?

2007-10-13 04:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by joshua h 1 in Singles & Dating

i have dated with this guy for six months he is still doing those mysterious texting to my phone cause he got my number from a friend. the thing is we just slip into each other world and stop the thing but the issue is i think i've fallen for him madly reflecting those fairytale thing that happen with us. i really love him what should i do. Help!!!!

2007-10-13 04:18:47 · 1 answers · asked by Franz 1 in Singles & Dating

I had like d this guy for a spr long time( he's n my algabra class). So at homecoming, I got ppl to go up to him and tell him tht i liked him. So after that I walked up to him, but he kept avoiding me, and It got me spr poed!! So finnally I walked up to him and I say "look, i like you, but it's obvious you dson't like me.But you can't avoid me, I sit next to you in Algabra."and he says "I didn't say tht". And I'm like "Well, whenever I walk up to you, you walk away.Seems lto me ur avoiding me." So then, i turn around and leave.l But later I start feeling really bad. So I find and just say I'm sorry and and he say "I'm sorry too" then I ask him to dance. we dance and then we dance again. But while we were dancing he was looking around. I don't know if he likes me or not. when he said " i din't say that" I don't know what he meant by tht. But I just really need guy and gurl avice about this. And possibly wht I could do to fix this, b/c I'm pretty sure it's going to be awkward between us

2007-10-13 04:17:10 · 1 answers · asked by lmsleo2011 2 in Singles & Dating

The average for single no dependents is 20%, but wife would be considered a dependent. Wouldn't the tax rate for married and only one working be about 15% or so.

2007-10-13 04:13:19 · 5 answers · asked by Diana 5 in Marriage & Divorce

things women lie about that irritate men. just outta curiosity. Try to list as much as you can.

2007-10-13 04:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

This is my first wedding I am a "young" 45 yr.old

2007-10-13 04:09:13 · 12 answers · asked by pepper 5 in Weddings

stop calling herself fat. She isn't fat, and she's very pretty, but she also calls herself ugly. How can I get her to stop?

2007-10-13 04:06:25 · 8 answers · asked by Semper Fidelis 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so during reading, I was bored. So i began writing about my boyfriend. I listed a bunch of things I liked about him and drew many hearts and stuff. I wrote things like "i cant wait to hold you in my arms" and stuff. well i ripped it out of my notebook and was gunna throw it away, but i guess i forgot and stuk it in my desk. well my teacher (a guy teacher) read it and was "really dissapointed in me" he read part of outloud in class!! i am soooo embarrassed! he started lecturing me. (im only 12) saying that i was too young to be doing this and that hugging leads to other stuff. a gurl in my school in 8th grade got pregnant and he doesnt want that to be me. BUT HE IS OVERREACTING! my parents warned me about haing a boyfriend and said i would be in big trouble if i had one. well my teacher is gunna show them the note on report card pik up. I am SOO scared!! what should i do? i said i was sorry and that i dont really do any of that stuff cause i never get to c my bf.
but he dont care!

2007-10-13 04:01:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 03:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by leigh@nn 1 in Singles & Dating

So, this boy was really annoying me, then i thought he mite fancy me, but he annoyd me so much i told him that i hated him. bad idea! he now really hates me and i now fancy him really badly..wat should i do??

2007-10-13 03:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by Mongoose 1 in Singles & Dating

If it's ALLOWED by the law, I don't get why so many people disapprove of it. So what's wrong, for example, with a 25 year old being in a relationship with a 17 year old?

2007-10-13 03:53:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Many things i have read say emanicpation at 18, some says 18 or graduates. Does not say 18 or graduates which ever comes latter. What is the actual time it can end ?

2007-10-13 03:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by LadyStarAZ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 03:51:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im very happy in my new relationship and there is no chance i would ever get into a relationship with you?
i never want to c you or hear you again.thats what HE said after 2 years of using me and playing me along,giving me hopes for a relationship and latering me..no one has ever told me such a horrible thing,especially when i have done nothing wrong..except from chasing him cos i loved him.how can i get over it..keeps playing in my mind.why did he have to be so cruel?

2007-10-13 03:38:45 · 7 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in this wedding in January. The bride-to-be is a woman that I work with. She asked me to be in the wedding and I said yes but then again how would you say "no" to something like that when you are caught off guard. We have only known each other for a few months. Now when I see her she pretty much acts like she doesn't know me-when I'm in a group of people she makes eye contact with all but me. She's just different-someone I would not choose as a friend. She is very conceited and acts like she is better than everyone. Just a different personality-one that I don't "mesh" with at all. I try to be friendly to/with her but she doesn't really respond to it. i so wish I was not involved in her big day because I am poor and this is costing me a pretty penny. I have given her a generous shower gift, paid dearly for my dress, paid my share for the elaborate shower and she's like this to me? How do I get through this? Just go through the motions until the whole thing is over?

2007-10-13 03:38:22 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

lets be honest guys,did u ever cheat with your partner and how many times? and why?

2007-10-13 03:35:43 · 21 answers · asked by queenofheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What positions (sexual) would be preferable for least amount of pain!?! I don't wanna just jump in bed with him and have him shove it in me from behind and me regretting it forever!!! He may miss and hit my pooper! You know how guys can be, I've read about it that they may try that. Thank you.

2007-10-13 03:34:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I got married three years ago, I thought I had chosen the best possible mate. A few days after wedding, my husband showed a violent, angry side of his personality I had never witnessed. Now everytime we get into an argument, he is ready to throw our marriage out the window. His first wife cheated on him with his best friend and they had a child together. It is obvious to me that he has some deep seated problems that he refuses to acknowledge. I am afraid to talk to him about this because it will send him into a tantrum. Last night we were out and he was going to leave me stranded 45 miles from home because he was mad. I do not feel safe in this relationship. Does anyone think there is a chance we can work things out, or do you see this situation as doomed?

2007-10-13 03:32:20 · 25 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to David's Bridal today with my bridesmaids to look at dresses for them. Should my fiance go with us? It's his wedding too, and I want him to be involved with the planning of it. Did your fiance go with you to look at bridesmaid dresses or is this something that only the girls should do?

2007-10-13 03:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-13 03:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce