Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

To make it brief. He made my life to be like a beautiful dream. All lovely words are mine, actions were accompanied hence, he turned out a professional cheater. Anyways, He thought he'd be playing me a fool for long but may be am lucky to discover earlier b4 getting serious with this b a s t a r d. I rarely chat btw, but I knew his nick name there so once i was too bored so i logged in & found him. I thought to ve some fun with him b4 telling him its me. Got so excited to know am a chick & started to ask to meet him after a long intimate chat 4 sex. Before bursting in his face telling him the truth - I met him next day (as he thought to be the chick) it was his fatal mistake! yeah, that chick was me and I slapped him coz he was dorky b4 being a liar & a cheater. Now, I am so hurt and need no man in my life. Just am so tired of liars & cheaters. What do I do to overcome my coming days?

2007-10-13 07:55:58 · 13 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

My friends & i have been annoyed for the past 3 years by this girl who always follows us so we started to make up a "Code name" foe her & we use it in sentences to mean something else. Can u help me think of more?
here is what we have:

We say: Really means:
The bucket is filling with milk.-The bucket is coming
The bucket is full of milk-The bucket is a little too close to us
We emptied the bucket.- Yippee! The bucket left!
The milk in the bucket is rotten.-Lets run from the bucket
Where is the bucket?- I wish the bucket would leave us alone
The bucket is in a tree/bush.-Ignore the bucket
Is there a banana split in the bucket?-Answer YES or NO to split up in pairs & meet at a certain spot

2007-10-13 07:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really need you to pray for me. At my work, this guy is trying to ruin our business. My grand-father isn't doing so well and he probably won't get any better, and it's more than likely his time to leave this world and enter Heaven. My dad is very stressed right now, because of the guy at work. My mom's bithday was this week, and we didn't do much for her, and I feel really guilty. My aunt has Cancer and there is no treatment for it, and she is going through Chemo-Therapy. My mom is a smoker, and is trying to quit, but isn't doing it as fast as I think she should, and I am worried. My brother is a smoker and his girlfriend is trying to get him to quit, but nothing seems to work. My dad won't let my family do anything related to work, but this guy from work is having a bonfire, and my dad doesn't want to go for some reason, but I do, and this guy that I really like is going to be there, because it's his dad that's having the bonfire.......wait, I have more......I am adding details.....

2007-10-13 07:54:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-13 07:52:12 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Flowers or not?
Should I try for a kiss if things end well?
Do I need to walk her to her front door when I drop her off?

2007-10-13 07:52:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I had this trip that cost about $300 that I opted not to go to because my family's financial situation isn't that great.Plus my parents are trying to save money for my sister's university [next year]
My dad lives in Kuwait, he recently went to my grandmother's memorial service in another country. Today I find out that he's coming over in a few hours. My mom didn't even tell me directly, she told my sister to tell me, and that's about.. $1000 for the plane ticket.
WTF? He's only staying here for a few days, so that makes it a bigger waste of money. I don't like my dad. I've lived without him for 3 years now,& whenever he comes here, he criticizes everything I do, from the way I dress to my school work. Alcohol's illegal in Kuwait, so he spends money on that here.& when it comes to things I need, like when my laptop needs fixing, he complains about the money.
He complains about my room being messy & thinks I'm hiding things from him, so he practically raids my room.
Help me T_T

2007-10-13 07:48:13 · 2 answers · asked by . 2 in Family

We r both 13 and so do u have any ideas of what we can do for fun when it will be just me and herr? <33

2007-10-13 07:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The one man I loved….

He was a man that I never should have ever thought of in that way… I should never have went
for a drink with him.
I didn’t realise it would cause so much heart ace and pain for what was about to happen.

I was 17 yrs old at the time and was very young and naive like most young girls..
I thought that if a man looked at me or spoke to me or even asked me for a drink I was special I was beautiful and he didn’t want any other girl…

I was wrong I was just many of his girl he want to play around with and treat us like where toys.
Why did he bother with me.. A young vulnerable girl.. I don’t think I was vulnerable maybe I was I still don’t really think I was.

I saw him as a man of absolute beauty I did.. I thought he was gods gift sent down on this earth for me!
He is 31
Married with a child

Shocked from inside that this fool of a married man would even bother!
His wife is absolutely beautiful!

He loved his wife to bits, I can see it in his eyes, I can see he would never LEAVE HER!

90% of married men never leave their wife for a affair they had a ‘FLING’

He had passion like I did… I would love people with passion and music!

I would think of sex as a emotional attachment, I would make LOVE… I would never **** anyone…

See with a married man sex with his wife is love making
Sex with the toy is just a **** to get some sexual frustration out…

See when your 17 yrs old you don’t think like that, You think wow he choose me out of all of these girls I feel so beautiful and wow..

But no silly young girl sex is sex… men are fools for sex they live on sex!!
If they don’t get sex they become moody and miserable and frustrated!!

He made me feel alive he made me feel so good about myself…
After wards I put on weight became very depressed it messed me up!

No one can hate me for what I did really… because I was young I didn’t realise and
I was just another one of his victims!!

After it happened a few months went buy and I would see him chatting up every girl there.. I was shocked I felt sick I just felt used…
Like a sex object, a piece of meat!

I saw his wife and she looked at me for a while and I just carried on.
I felt like crying my eyes out after I saw her.
I said to him Your wife is beautiful he said….. I now..
Which made me want to say STOP THIS AND LOVE HER RIGHT

Love a women how she needs to be loved

If your going to cheat just break up!!

If your going to look at another women and want to **** her go and see a doctor

If your really that sex obsessed you need help!

I lost myself in his looks.. I found him amazing and of course I dreamt I was his wife!

I think its one of these thing I have to write down to make me feel better about it…

I can’t never not see him because just watching him is enough for now!


I will find someone to love me for me..
He didn’t love me for me no no no
He loved me for sex that it…..

But I was a fool for falling for it!

2007-10-13 07:44:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our wedding is on a Friday so that we can go away for the weekend on our honeymoon. I really want to have the wedding at about 2pm but I know that some people work in the morning, so would it better to have it at night like at 6? I just don't know if I should assume that everyone can take the day off of work. What do you think?

2007-10-13 07:42:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It starts with an M. and is only 4 letters. 10 points for the first one who guesses.

2007-10-13 07:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3 in Singles & Dating

He has been my friend for a LONG time. I like him a lot...is that breaking "friendship rules?"

2007-10-13 07:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by :) 3 in Friends

He is the last born in his family and I'm the first. He postponed decisions and I deal with them quickly. Because of the way we handle things differently, we were left with a sizable mortgage, no kids, and a hurtful relationship.

we have (too) many ups and downs in our 11-year marriage. Two months ago, I moved to my bedroom because of some argument. He was trying to start the conversation last week (we haven't talked to each other since) by asking about my preferences for dinner and nothing else. This week he asked if I wanted to move back to his room because the heater there is working better. He did nothing when he saw me crying in my room.
I cannot recall any happy anniversaries we had over the years. I need a man who is the head of the family, and not a man behind my back. I'm tired.
He always said he is a good man, doing the housework and the DIYs. But, does a good man make a good husband??

2007-10-13 07:39:48 · 53 answers · asked by melanie_lanc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how 2 massage my galfriend's c cup breast which can make her feel high???

2007-10-13 07:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for the past year all me and my mum seem to do is argue and i get realy stressed out all the time. She's always saying about how bad my attitude is and sometimes i don't even realise how i speak to her. i have never sworn at her but she said i'm the daughter from hell! Help!

2007-10-13 07:39:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just recently started dating a guy and I'm 99% positive he believes in God. The problem is my mother. She doesn't want me to end up with a non-christian christian. She herself married a man who was questionable and says that she regrets it but they have been married over 20 years. I know this relationship is still new and fresh, but I am already getting pressure to find out where he stands. My problem is that I am not sure where I stand. So how can I dump him for not being christian "enough". I don't want to. He is a sweet guy, caring, and says that he won't pressure me to do anything I don't want. That is fantastic, because even though I am unsure of where I stand with god right now, I still have morals. I won't cheat, steal, lie, and I plan on waiting for sex until marriage. How do I accept, or at the least understand where my family is coming from and let myself explore the possibilities in this relationship? Can I? Does anyone have experience with this? All help is appreciated.

2007-10-13 07:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by overmaggies 2 in Singles & Dating

i have 2 twin brothers.. they are a year and half younger the me.. but they are haning out with people who do drugs and bad stuff and my mom found it in there bags. me and my brothers are really close and i dont want to see them get hurt. i dont like watch everything to do but its just when my mom found the drugs in there bad it took a big impact on me because i am very worried that they could get hurt. and they dont reallize wat they've gotten into. so wat can i do to let them know how much i care about them and i dont want them to get hurt. ? ?!?

2007-10-13 07:38:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm moving out, I need to know what is legally mine.

Some say, if it was a gift, its mine.
Some say, if it was a christmas gift or anykind of gift its mine.
Some say, if my parents bought it, its theirs, no questions.
Some say, if my parents can prove they bought it, its theirs.

I need to know what is legally correct.
If they bought it, but it was a gift gift, can I still keep it?

Such as,
a cd,
if they bought it, and gave it to me...
even though it wasn't my b-day or such,
is it legally mine?

2007-10-13 07:37:50 · 5 answers · asked by LisaFer 1 in Family

how long does it take for a lawyer to get divorce papers drawn up? and if the papers are promised and you go to sign them and they arnt ready, and your promised they will be ready in a few days and they arnt should you get another lawyer? Is 3 weeks a long wait just to see the simple no frills divorce paper work from my layer

2007-10-13 07:37:11 · 6 answers · asked by e 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is it better than in person

2007-10-13 07:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by Adrian O 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in texas and I'm 4 months pregnat with mine and my husbands 2nd child and my husband left us a couple weeks ago and has not been sending us any support of any kind. My son and I have no money and my husband is under the impression that since we're still "married" that he doesn't have to send us anything. I want to get divorced and set up child support but since we live in texas we can't get divorced until after this baby is born. I was wondering if I could file abandonment and claim child support and spousal support without being divorced?

2007-10-13 07:34:19 · 6 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please i just need some peace and quiet.

2007-10-13 07:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by LuvMyiPod 1 in Family

I can't stand it when you want to talk to your boyfriend/husband and they just tell you to quit being a girl! It drives me insane to the point that I don't want to talk to him when it is important.

What to do?

2007-10-13 07:25:08 · 8 answers · asked by bluecamocorvette 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiancé and I agreed that one night a month, we should each have a "night out" to go to a movie, shoot pool, or do as we wish. I think it's a good idea, as no couple needs to be together 100% of the time. Anyway, I made plans to go out, and he agreed that he would be home @ a certain time to be with the kids while I went out for a couple of hours. He didn't get home until midnight, and by then it was too late for me to go anywhere. I think he did it on purpose to keep me from going out. What do you think and how would you deal with this situation?

2007-10-13 07:24:36 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

anybody on here from morecambe /heysham ?

2007-10-13 07:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this question a little earlier, but I would like some more opinions...

I'm moving out of my house once I turn 18 this weekend...My parents are emotionally abusive and discourage me in everything I do.

I would like to bring basically almost all I won, clothes, music, books, old valuble dolls, etc...

But my parents said, if they bought it, they own it.
Others say the oposite..

which is true,
and what am I allowed to take...

2007-10-13 07:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by LisaFer 1 in Family

Can a marriage survive with out passionate sex? Is passionate sex life long? Is it over-rated as time goes by? Help a scared young (less than two years still) married guy out.

2007-10-13 07:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here is my problem i have a 19 year old stepdaughter that moved in with us two months ago. Heres the problem she works a part time job. I am trying to be a decent step mom i allow her to go out and have fun as long as her chores are done and she works. I talk to her about how important it is to go back to school and get a education.

Well yesterday she left early she didnt go to work again and she didnt come home or call at all. She's not from around here so i spent all morning trying to find out if she was ok . Her dad was a nervous wreck , She met some guy and stayed at his house all night.

Shes going to be twenty soon, i have little ones and this is not how i want my kids raised. Her mom is fed up with her too.

I think she might be on drugs or something. Please advise....

2007-10-13 07:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by Notsogreatlife31 1 in Family

About 3 weeks ago i stopped hanging round with a group of mates, I havnt done anything wrong its just they wont except me for who i am and i didnt feel comfatable around them most of the time during the end of the relationship. I decided that i was going to break contact away from them, i changed my cell number and gavethem one final text from it saying "Ive got work to catch on up this week i cant come out". I then got a new number but realized they had my home phone number! Sh** i thought, well anyway they keep ringing the number up and its doing my head in, they keep asking for me and i dont want to talk to them. They havnt stopped now and it has been 3 weeks, I really want to do somthing to either stop it or at least distract my self from it. I have tried not being in during the times when they will mostly call although now i feel as if my life still revolves around them and i cant do what i want when i want to. Please could anybody make any suggestions on what to do?

2007-10-13 07:22:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this girl i like that just got a divorce, the divorce is not final yet but will be shortly. She has 3 kids, one with her ex husband and two with another guy. She is 6 years older. While she was still married we made out on a couple of occasions. We also work together. I asked her out earlier in the week and she said yes, but i kept asking if we were still going out and she said yes. Well yesterday i asked and she said that i was being too pushy and was starting to aggrivate her.

I got advice from a friend to act like she cant have me whenever she wants and she will want me more. Do you think that is a good idea, and if so how can i do that since we work together?

If you have anymore ideas please share them i need all the help i can get.

2007-10-13 07:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by Juan D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 07:18:31 · 13 answers · asked by fritoman692003 1 in Family