Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

Ex Boyfriend Texts Me: We should hang out soon...
I text back: Yeah...we should
He texts me: Was that sarcastic?
I text him: No I wasn't being sarcastic

Sunday I didn't hear from him...yet monday at school he came up to me after class and talked to me as if everything was normal...
we went out for about 2 years, then over the summer we got in a lot of arguements so i just started fading out of his life because we both became busy with athetletics/school and i needed time to think if he was really worth it or not..so whats going on with him? i'm just really confused with his actions....

2007-10-13 10:27:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They're married.

2007-10-13 10:27:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I borrowed my bf's fone for numbers for his surprise party, I am so crap on his fone that I got on to his inbox, anyway i noticed lots of messages from a gurl. I read the first one, big mistake it said " I don't want to be anyone's dirty little secret". the next one said " I don't know why you can't trust her ( me) she should be more worried about you."

Any way I ask in a nice way what the hell it was, he said that he is helping her with a dillema with another guy and thats what he sent her " I dnt want to be anyon...." the second one was that she was anoyed with him cuz "apparently" he had told everyone they work with about it.

How far do I believe him

Confused

2007-10-13 10:25:56 · 55 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents are planning to divorce in two years, I'm 14 at the moment and am considering whether it would be a good idea to leave home then. I have a reasonable amount of money in my bank, which would get me set up in a flat, and I have an apprenticeship at the moment which will become a fully paid job at 16, so I could finance myself, although I wouldn't have many luxuries. Are there any legal reasons for me not to move out?

2007-10-13 10:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 10:20:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 20 year old girl. The man I love is 42. It's just that I love his personality so much and can't imagine living without him. I don't expect people to understand.

HELP? Any advice or comments.

2007-10-13 10:19:43 · 3 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated on me right a couple of months before we got married and I thought that I forgave him and he always says that I told him I forgave him so why do I still bring it up. Now 2 years later our relationship is falling apart, I have gained some weight after having our first child together and he is so mean to me all the time. He ignores me, we never talk about the reason we argue, we never end the fights I just end up walking away. I dont know how I am supposed to really forgive him when he treats me so badly. Also he is so happy around other women even his cousin (which makes me wonder sometimes) that is a whole different story but he will ignore me in front of them and he is never happy around me anymore. Can anyone help?

2007-10-13 10:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by Victoria A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes he acts like a spoilt brat, i mean he is older than me (12 years older) but if he is doing a chore and the kids get in the way he moans. he moans about every mortal thing it really p***** me of sometimes i wonder what i have actually married my eldest son acts more mature than he does. if i say something to him about his moaning he tells me to shut up and if i dont he goes very mardy and it causes a huge row.
has anyone else got a husband like this and how do you cope.

2007-10-13 10:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do I make a good impression and not look like a little kid
Ive done it before
But this guy scares me
hes like 7 feet tall in the army and dosen't take ****
soo help me out
thanks

2007-10-13 10:12:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I new this women for 13 years now. When I meet her we both were in a realtionship so we never got together...We both liked each other more then friends. I got married, divorsed and now am single. Years later she gets married, (year and a half now )contacts me to hang out with her and her friends at a club.I go with my a friend of mine. We meet up and dance all night long. Great time we had. more plans of getting together have been made. She tells me that she still has feelings for me even though she is married. I to have feelings for her but I dont want to be "that guy" who breaks up a marriage. on the other hand I want her for myself...I am banging my head over here. Any Ideas or comments would be great.
Let me add that we didnt do a thing. Kiss, sex, nothing but dancing

2007-10-13 10:11:16 · 14 answers · asked by adam J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hello friends this is my question. There is a guy in my work place that says he likes me. For the last few weeks i kind a let him touch me he hold my hand, touch my lips tells me that he wants me, etc. The thing is he ask me last week if i would sleep with him and i told him i dont think so, and then one day after we start talking amoung other people, he out of anywhere tells this guy that i want to sleep with him but he wont give it, this he has done twice now, he does this like if i was very HORNEY, but he was the one the start the tease.
Anyway for that i stopped going to his office were we used to talk and stuff, but he is still looking for me and being playfull. What should i do?, should i stop talking to him or what.

2007-10-13 10:09:41 · 18 answers · asked by Gir f 1 in Singles & Dating

my husbands a cheater caught (twice). And I think I hate him but our children adore him. Should I suck it up and be miserable for them? And I've kicked him out of the house so were obviously seperated. Would I be cheating if I decided to go on with my life? Since he wont pay for the divorce. I am a college student JR. and a security guard his income is triple what I make, really i just want out

2007-10-13 10:09:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have class every Friday, I like this girl Amanda I talked to her after the first class and it went well. The second week I went to talk to her and she turned her face away. The third week, I asked her if she thinks I'm stalking her. Cause I wanted her to feel comfortable. She said, "no why would I think that I only see you once a week." So I was like alright cool. Then we talked about the class and the test. I asked her if she is seeing anyone and she said yes. Then I said "have good weekend, I see'll you next week" She said, "you to". I bought her a bracelet for her which I'm going to give her next Friday after class. Am I handling this well? What do you think she thinks of me?

2007-10-13 10:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 10:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not a very long time ago I met a girl who seems to be interested in having some common ground with myself. What would you expect from us?

2007-10-13 09:54:34 · 7 answers · asked by Viktor 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 09:50:34 · 8 answers · asked by iamz14u_76711 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been talking to this girl for over a year and a half online and 2 months in real life while i was studying in korea. can we get married like 2-3 months from now and live in korea? would it be difficult or expensive?

2007-10-13 09:49:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my sons dad and I are trying to work together to be a family again and he will be moving in with me and our son. The problem is he's in my hometown, doens't have 1 single family member or friend within a 200 mile radius. The thing is I work full time and he is willing to be the stay at home dad, we've had problems in the past....lets just say he's not the most responsible person you'll meet. So is it okay that I work and he stays home, he'll have no income coming in cuz he's at home wich thats what I wanted instead of our 1 yr old being at a day care. So should it be okay that I pay for everything for him, including beer whenever he wants it? Afterall he is the full time parent? Im confused and is it weird that I may feel like im being taken advantage of? Any suggestions.

2007-10-13 09:49:35 · 8 answers · asked by Marina G 1 in Family

I have noticed that some women in dance clubs cock an attitude toward certain men if they try to talk to them even if they are polite and are not overly forward and has manners. Is it because some of these women play hard to get or feel that the men talking to them is not in their class.

2007-10-13 09:46:28 · 4 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont get why people do it

2007-10-13 09:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-13 09:43:29 · 26 answers · asked by flowersinthewind 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you agree??

2007-10-13 09:41:45 · 40 answers · asked by Only visiting 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy SOOOOOOOOOO much! and im pretty sure he doesnt know. but we talk 2 each other a lot and sometimes i catch him looking at me or trying to get my attention. the other day in class(we sit next to each other, and i didnt choose there assigned) the teacher picked us as partners, we didnt talk until like 4 minuets after the progect was given out and we're both really smart and fast at that class, and then once we finished we got all quiet. does he like me? and what should i say or do?!?!? (im in 6th grade)




NO MEAN COMMENTS PLEASE!!

2007-10-13 09:40:44 · 41 answers · asked by whatever101 2 in Singles & Dating

cuz lik this girl lik calls my house and lik swears at me and i dont no wat to say so just hang up, lik i dont no how to be mean and its
getting annoying

2007-10-13 09:40:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do they become the nice guys everyone rejects.

2007-10-13 09:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I should say he is more of a secret boyfriend, because we love each other but my parents won’t let me love him. He's so wonderful. It's hard to put it into words, but he is the man of my dreams. We first started out hating (yes hating) each other because of a misunderstanding and then I finally confronted him about it when we were alone together. He had hurt himself playing soccer and was in a lot of pain when I spoke to him, so I stayed and took care of him while we talked...surprisingly, we forgave each other and found that their was a definite attraction. We have been together for 2 months and have written to each other for 4 months (he's in boot camp for the navy). I love him!!! I really do! And he loves me too! I think about him every single day, even though I try not to it still happens!

The problem is, my parents don't want me to be with him. My father does not want me to love him and wishes that I never looked after him when he was hurt. My mother just wants us to be like friends, but more like acquaintances. My dad won’t even let me hug him. AND I am 18 years old. Can parents actually tell their kids not to love someone? Someday, I hope to marry this guy, he’s a wonderful man (he’s also 18). He’s going to be fighting for my freedom, he wants to take care of me and to always be there for me in one form or another. He’s not that “slick tongued” sort of person. He tells me I’m beautiful because he doesn’t believe that ladies should be called hott or sexy unless they are in an intimate relationship. This guy is my everything. I love him, but why do my parents want to stop me from loving him? Why are they acting like this? He didn’t do anything wrong, I swear! I’m so frustrated! Please help!

2007-10-13 09:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So there is no doubt in my mind that I am in love with this one special boy. The problem is that we aren't together because of a situation before we met. There is a little minute chance that this girl is prego with his baby. He had never had any feelings for her he was MESSED UP one night and she took advantage of him. He's getting a DNA test so he'll know and. He's made it clear he wants that baby if it is his. He isn't with anyone else but it's hard for us to see each other because he lives an hour a half away and we are both soo busy. My family and friends like him a lot. Sometimes it feels like everything is against up but I know I love that bot to death I will do ANYTHING for him with out thinking twice...

2007-10-13 09:33:51 · 1 answers · asked by Lane's Mama 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have been with my partner for 4 years and our sex life has seemed to stop! We had an amazing sex life before but now we don't seem to have time. How can we spice it up? We used to use toys, dress up etc but due to me gaining a bit of weight i don't feel comfortable anymore. Any ideas what we can do??

2007-10-13 09:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by hope 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

For example, Im getting married on May 24, when should they be done?

2007-10-13 09:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im 12 yrs old there is a boy who lives down the street who is 14 and i think he LIKE likes me. and i kinda like him too hes verry nice and cool too and awsome and we both like to play the same kinds of vidieo games. well is 12 to young to LIKE like some one?

2007-10-13 09:24:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating