hello friends this is my question. There is a guy in my work place that says he likes me. For the last few weeks i kind a let him touch me he hold my hand, touch my lips tells me that he wants me, etc. The thing is he ask me last week if i would sleep with him and i told him i dont think so, and then one day after we start talking amoung other people, he out of anywhere tells this guy that i want to sleep with him but he wont give it, this he has done twice now, he does this like if i was very HORNEY, but he was the one the start the tease.
Anyway for that i stopped going to his office were we used to talk and stuff, but he is still looking for me and being playfull. What should i do?, should i stop talking to him or what.
2007-10-13 10:09:41 · 18 answers · asked by Gir f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have no intention of being with him, then allowing him to caress you is a form of being a tease on your behalf. You have sent him mixed signals, and you need to set it straight. Tell him that his comments have crossed the line, that you have no romantic interest in him, and you will be unable to associate with him further if he continues the inappropriate behavior.
2007-10-13 10:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop contact with him you could tell him that if he continues to discuss that matter with other people then you will bring him up on sexual harassment charges....You hurt his ego and he is try to get back at you...sorry he such a loser but that life
2007-10-13 17:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you need to stop talking to him and if his inappropriate behaviour continues...........well there's HR to talk to about his harrassing you and he has just made it easier for you to have a case against him because he has openly made inappropriate comments to you in front of everyone.
2007-10-13 17:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by beetlejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is telling other people at work these things, that is considered sexual harrassment & your best bet is filing a formal complaint or else it will keep happening.
2007-10-13 17:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by music_love84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't do anything playful from now on, just keep it professional, you don't want get with him and then see him High Five his friends the next day....
2007-10-13 17:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Charming 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining Order, or tell him off in front of people. Make him look like a jerk *** and a wannabe player.
2007-10-13 17:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Malley♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't give him ****....unlesss YOU really want to(lol)
he doesn't deserve anyone<<<< he can play w/ himself>
But talk to him and ask him why he chose to do that(but don't give him the advantage-) ....he wants play u and if u give in , he'll catch u and leave the same way>*
2007-10-13 17:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by :)scarletred_k2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to let him no that you dont want to sleep with him right now and if he can respect that then you need to ditch him, and as far as the little rumors, yuou need to tell him that he needs to stop or he cant have you, same with other girls as well. he needs to realize that you have feelings and that you are incharge with those type of decisions when they are asked to you, he needs to learn to respect you or you should end it
2007-10-13 17:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by grimdeath_13 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should put him straight!!!
He clearly didn't like your rejection and is now turning it onto you. He wants you to know how he feels!! Put him straight and them straight and move on!!
What a SOD!!!
You dont need that!
2007-10-13 17:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him to leave you alone and tell him that you want him to stop. If you don't want to do that, then just avoid him definatly!
2007-10-13 17:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by Evan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋