2007-10-13 10:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should enjoy your youth and time as a young teen. Sex brings so many complications and responsibilites that take away from what you should be experiencing now (because you're not at an age to have sex).
What good will come from you having sex with him? Don't give in to him, your friends, or yourself. There is something so precious and beautiful about sex, and by giving it away to a boy that you "like" is not the way sex was created to be used.
Wait to have sex. Wait a long time. Have patience with it and understand that it's not easy! It's not easy to have morals, standards, and hope in a world that has stripped us of these things. Stand firm in these things though. You won't ever regret NOT having sex with someone.
I hope the best for you sweetie. May you have similar hope too.
2007-10-13 10:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by *BabyMama* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you already had sex? I think you have other wise you would have phrased the question a bit differently. I have a question. What would you do with a child? Your body maybe ready for sexual activity but it is not ready to carry a child. If you become pregnant and your body is not ready to carry a baby it will hurt. Your pelvic bone is not formed all the way. When you are pregnant your pelvic bone separates and it hurts if it has to do this too soon. You can hurt yourself and never be able to have any more children when you really want them. You will have to dilate at lest to a 9 in order for the baby to pass through. If you cannot dilate they will have to do a c-section. They will cut open your stomach to get the baby out. It doesn't feel that great. I know. Babies are expensive and need allot more time then you Will have to give to it. No more playing with friends, No more going on date, no more school, it is not an easy task not even for an adult. So, I ask you again is this really what you want. So, my answer is NO! Be 14 not an adult. You can never get your child hood back. I learned the hard way. You will do what you want to do regardless of what any one says or what any one answers.
2007-10-13 11:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you're asking this question on Yahoo! solutions you of course are no longer waiting. the respond isn't any, you mustn't have intercourse. you're way too youthful. Do you certainly should be a father already? Your too youthful to even get a job. how can you help her and her toddler? don't be yet another statistic. keep your **** on your pants toddler. bypass play video games and be youthful person jointly as you nevertheless can. there will be greater than a number of time for intercourse in some years.
2016-11-08 05:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats all up to you. But i think you should wait until you really have feelings for someone at least more than "like him" then you'll always remember your first and how terrible that was lol Good Luck <3
2007-10-13 10:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by SiCnGaged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, please don't do this, I'm 16 years old and already I know how much guys use young vuneralbe girls for sex.
Playing hard to get is much more sexy! Believe me ;]
I lost my virginity at 14 and I regret it. Don't make the same mistake.
2007-10-13 10:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
14?!?!?!!? r u ****** kidding me? i'm 13 and i wouldn't even think of having sex. and y would u have sex with him if hes not even your b.f.?
2007-10-13 10:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex... you should be focusing on your studies..not sex... your too young.... have a clue
2007-10-13 10:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are with someone you love. Don't cheapen yourself.
2007-10-13 10:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry , girl. Not a good idea.
2007-10-13 10:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Way too young.
2007-10-13 10:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋