ok so i like this guy SOOOOOOOOOO much! and im pretty sure he doesnt know. but we talk 2 each other a lot and sometimes i catch him looking at me or trying to get my attention. the other day in class(we sit next to each other, and i didnt choose there assigned) the teacher picked us as partners, we didnt talk until like 4 minuets after the progect was given out and we're both really smart and fast at that class, and then once we finished we got all quiet. does he like me? and what should i say or do?!?!? (im in 6th grade)
NO MEAN COMMENTS PLEASE!!
2007-10-13 09:40:44 · 41 answers · asked by whatever101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not weird around all girls he knows this girl whos like his sister and i kno tht she likes some1 else and they talk like theres nothing going on
2007-10-13 09:46:17 · update #1
You have two choices: wait for him to do something, or else you do something.
He might be shy (from the way things sound, that's exactly the situation) so... he might never take that initiative. So, why don't you be the one to do something...? All that it takes is a question.
Don't ask a direct "I like you, do you like me?" question, though. You should think up a question that gives each of you an easy way out, just in case he doesn't feel the way that you feel. Something like, "Jan told me that she heard that you like me -- is this true? Because I wouldn't mind if it was... maybe we could go see that movie on Friday, or something. So - is it true?"
By adding the middle part, you let him know that you like him -- without actually saying it. So if he doesn't share your feelings you can always claim that he misunderstood what you were saying. Really (you can say) you were talking about as a friend...
See how that can work?
As a general rule in life -- never put the responsibility for *your* happiness into someone else's hands.
YOU and *only* you are responsible for your happiness.
2007-10-13 09:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be a friend and to be honest. Ask questions about his pets, brothers and sisters, what he did last summer, what he likes or doesn't like about school.
Just be yourself - as if you were with your brother or close cousin.
Romance is overrated and friendship is underrated. The real friend will still be around long after the romantic interest fizzled out. And even in great romances the romance usually does fizzle out and if there is no real friendship underneath then the relationship itself fizzles out pretty fast.
So focus on being a friend and you won't go wrong.
2007-10-13 10:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by joss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, 6th grade. Let me guess-this is a new school too? Dating might be a new field for you, and him, but it doesn't mean you can't let him know how you feel!
I hope you know that I cannot read his mind. But it sounds like either he thinks you are a not his type, or he really likes you too. Okay, if it IS the first one, remember-rejection isn't the end of the world, and it is HIM that is missing out.
Also, whether it is the first or second answer, you should let him know. That way, you will know the truth.
2007-10-13 09:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Meip Meip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im in the six grade 2 so im an expert :)
he might like u and might hav just been really quiet cause having a project or something with a person u like can be awkwerd.maybe go to the movies or somewhere with him and alot of other friends and ask him there. me and like 30 of my other friends went to a haunted farm yesterday night (very romantic actually) and like half the people where asking people out because its easier to hav friends with u. or get another friend to ask him 4 u. good luck
2007-10-13 09:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by mej. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he likes you. I'm now in 8th grade so I've learned a little bit about 6th graders. Yeah if you like a boy you'll feel shy. If a boy likes you he either will pick on you or be shy and awkward. I know it may be hard to be confident but try and get the confidence to say hey I like you do you like me? It may be silly but it works you get your answer and maybe a new boyfriend. I'm sure you've got nothing to loose but a silly boy. If he doesn't he probably doesn't know what he's missing.
2007-10-13 09:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he may have a crush on your having a crush on him, if that makes sense. Kind of an I Love The Way You Love Me thing.
With the right guy, those work sometimes.
It's sixth grade. You need to concentrate on anything but boys anyway! Put that thought on the slow burner.
2007-10-13 09:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for asking this question!..well the same thing happened for me..we got paired 2gether all the time because he sat next to me(assigned)..well we passed notes for like forever and about 2 months later i think i had given him enough hints that i liked him that he started talking to me more and not just passing notes...I REALLY liked him(and still do..LOL=]) so i had my friend talk to him for me and then i told him that i liked him and he told me that he thought i was cute(!!!!) but didn't like me in a boyfriend-girlfriend way..i was a little disappointed (but i'd rather chase 100 guys than just have to date 1!! that's one of my motto's, "i'd rather chase guys than date them")...so he and i are still friends and i still like him....he knows it and im glad that he does so when the time comes i'll be in the back of his head(metaphorically)..
Sooooooooo my advice is to get him warmed up to the fact that you do like him...then when the time is right tell him the only thing it can do for you is stop you from chasing the one guy and go for them all...it can never hurt to try...but maybe someday he will think of you having the "6th grade crush" and he and you will end up happy....you never know....
~el-oh-ve-ee<3
PS. the only way find out if he likes you is to ask or hve someone ask him....and if he doesn't there is always the other million guys out there...GL!..Follow your heart.
2007-10-13 09:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TALK 2 HIM! and it helps to flirt just not be obbsessive wierdo ya kno. show him that your a way cool girl and you might be interested in him and you can tell he likes you back if he tries to do the same especially to you. and if he treats you the same as other girls and if he acts like he doesnt like you around his friends or anything he probably doesnt like you. just try a little harder but not way to hard itll push him farther. be one of his friends and a way to show him your interested is ask him if he likes anyone and get to be his friend that works the best. NO teasing its mean and shows that you dont think he is the best person alive. oh ya and dress your best as much as possible wear a little makeup. dont change your self or act like someone your not. dont be slutty!!please no one likes that and dont be afraid to show the side of you that just likes to be laid back and comfy sometimes. lipgloss and chapstick are like a girls best friend. and remember that you are better than any other girl and that if he doesnt like you that hes making a big mistake but your not gonna hate him for it
HOPE IT WORKS OUT!!
2007-10-13 09:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by bambi the who? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cool I'm in the 7th grade
Ok First of all he sure likes you
do nice things to him
try to be his friend
be nice
think what your going to say before you say it
i had the same problem but with a 6th grader girl and we ended together.
2007-10-13 09:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Toyota Lexus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, u guys seem like good friends, which means good chemistry. and i remember in 6th grade, i prayed to be partnered with the girl i liked. and the time (only once) that i was, i was silent, and so nervous i couldnt speak. and we were both smart too and finished in like 3 minutes
2007-10-13 09:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Arsh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋