Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

My best friend dad died today and he text me today telling me this and I was wondering what should i do? I told him to tell me where he is but doesn't tell me. Should i give him his space or something.?

2007-10-13 08:40:17 · 3 answers · asked by juniorm 2 in Friends

she is a cheerleader has a boyfriend who shesw loves, and horseback rides and loves to shop and just have funn!

2007-10-13 08:39:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He found someone else in just two days online dating. It is pretty clear to me that he never had genuine feelings for me. I have panic attacks now so bad that my heart pounds and my breathing is irregular. My arms go numb and I am severely depressed. I was drinking a lot for a while and ended up in the emergency room. I stopped drinking but feel lost. I can stay at my sisters a while but my apartment is so depressing feeling without him here. I get attacks just walking in. I really need friends on here that can help me. I am 48 and at this point feel I will go to my grave feeling hopeless. (and no....I cannot just go out and find someone new like him....I am hurt)

2007-10-13 08:39:40 · 7 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are planning to get married, but we have a little disagreement. I want the legal paperwork and a marriage certificate and he doesn't. He says he will go through a wedding and ceremony, wear a wedding ring and call me his wife, however he doesn't want to deal with the legal side of it. He says he will never go through that again (he was married once before - this will be my first).

How important is the marriage certificate? What are the pros and cons of getting one or not getting one? Any personal experiences or opinions would be appreciated! Thanks!

2007-10-13 08:38:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did you divorce because you did not love him or her? Did you divorce because different religious views? Did you divorce because you did not enjoy your partner's company anymore?

You can share a story. I do not mind details. I got the time to listen.

Please do not answer if you are happily married because then this question does not apply to you. I am doing a research paper in psychology on love. So answers of "happily married for 7 years" is something I cannot use.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

2007-10-13 08:38:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well last night my friends and I went to a football game and afterwards we went to one of their houses to "celebrate" (iam 16) anyways his dad came home caught in his porch with reefer and alcohol..yeah not cool he drove us all home, he called my step dad before hand and my step dad was waiting for me he asked me if i was drinking and stuff and i said yes sir he yelled at me and snt me to my room and said i was going to get it in the morning well im still up stairs because he went to work but will be home in like hour i have never been whooped before what should i expect? it might sound lame of me to say but im actually scared. Oh yea none of my other friends got in this much trouble not even the one who had the party..

2007-10-13 08:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and why

2007-10-13 08:28:59 · 52 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Friends

im a single dad yes i have custody of my daughter but is it wrong for me to date ? and how would i tell my 5 yr old

2007-10-13 08:28:52 · 14 answers · asked by james c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 08:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 08:24:51 · 18 answers · asked by arch 2 in Singles & Dating

Where can I buy a single rose? like a single rose on the way to see someone?

2007-10-13 08:24:18 · 17 answers · asked by Aaron j 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really self conscious so i get really embarrased and nervous wen doin anythin wiv my boyfriend but he wont wear i blind fold so that i can relax

Wud u wear a blindfold if it helped your girlfriend 2 get used 2 doin certain stuff?

2007-10-13 08:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by Jess :D 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to get a job but my parents wont let me. they say i have to wait until im done with school why is this? do they not trust me? thanks in advanced

2007-10-13 08:22:10 · 4 answers · asked by loverofChrist 1 in Family

Heres the deal... Ive been with my man for 4 years now... We werent commited for the first year and then I gave him an ultimatem... title or nothing at all... I got tired of being in limbo... Anyways 6 months after we made it official I found a horrible msg from his ex on his voicemail talking about having had sex w/him earlier that week... Well I called the *****- who knew about us!!! (GgRrRr) and talked to her four about 4 hours and found out everything... turns out he was still seeing her the first 6 months we were together, then stopped for a year and did it again, when I found out. I told him I wouldnt be able to forgive him and that I didnt think I'd ever forget it but we really felt a strong connection and decided to try and work things out... I still have my doubts almost three years later... My question to you mature men out there is do you think he learned from this? and if so, have any men ever been thru what I just explained and stayed faithful? HELP!

2007-10-13 08:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by KyewReeUz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is going to another city's homecoming tonight and it was going to bej ust us girls, and he keeps insisting that he goes. She told him the girl's mom wants it to be just the girls. But he said he would get a ride with his friend who is going and buying a ticket at the door. (so saying there are no more tickets doesnt help.)

What should she tell him?
she wants it to be just the girls but doesnt want him to be like "well why cant i go? what are you gonna do?"

plus she has a bad rep there and doesntwant the boyfriend hearing anything.

HELP!

2007-10-13 08:19:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WOULD YOU RATHER:
date a girl who is cute and has a great personality, or date a girl who is hot and is a total snob?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
have a girlfriend with long hair or short hair?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
have a girlfriend with blonde or brown hair?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
have a girlfriend tall or short?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
her make the first move, or you make the first move?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
have a girlfriend who is shy, or outspoken?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
go on a date with your girlfriend to the movies, or to a restaurant?

2007-10-13 08:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mil is a very nosy woman. I have caught her being nosy . When she comes to my house, she notices things that are not important. Even with my own children she sees things that I don't pick up right away. I am getting tired of her and her ways. How should I approach her about this?

2007-10-13 08:15:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-13 08:15:15 · 1 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

tomorrow i am having a friend over who is 1 year older than me ( we are 11 and 12 ) i don't know what we should do

2007-10-13 08:12:05 · 5 answers · asked by Lauren R 1 in Friends

I am in an open relationship , yet i do not want to go with any woman who will lie down for anyone , how do i find women who understand in what i believe in ?

2007-10-13 08:11:35 · 19 answers · asked by El Diablo King Of Kings 3 in Singles & Dating

have a girlfriend and he says at least i should be out there throwing conkers at them what does he mean by that.

2007-10-13 08:10:43 · 26 answers · asked by pier van hon donk p 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna lose my virginity and im 13 is that bad?

2007-10-13 08:09:23 · 26 answers · asked by melissa m 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I pretty much love my 25 year old coach to death. I'm 17, almost 18. I'm almost certain he is interested in me too, but I'm not 100% sure. Is it this ok?

2007-10-13 08:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by Ice_river 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i get dis kid ta notice me i luv him real bad and i really want him back how do i get him ta like me again i did sum good tips wit out me gettin in trouble rite no whe likes dis otha girl and i wanna fite her cause she has a boyfriend and she alwayz sits wit da kid i luv!!!!!!!! owwwwww she gets me mad but enyway back ta subject i wanna get him ta notice me and like me again tips plz tanks!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-13 08:07:55 · 2 answers · asked by Princess_2 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay today my friend wants me to come over her house to work on our halloween costumes, but to tell you the truth I am really tired and I don't really feel like going over her house today because everytime I go I feel weird nowadays because her family and stuff.

What should I tell her...should I make up a little white lie?

Or should I tell her I am really tired.

Please give me some advice....

And it seems like now a days I don't want to do anything anymore...I think its because I am just so tired because of school and I just don't feel like doing anything with anybody...I just want to sleep.

What should I do???!?!!?

2007-10-13 08:04:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

last weekend, my parents went on a business trip. i stayed at my gf's house. when we went to go to sleep, i stayed in her room. we didnt have sex, we mainly just cuddled and talked all night. it seemed her mom was ok as long as "she dont squeeze out a half white baby in 9 months" (her words, gotta love her). when i told my friend, he said i was weird for not gettin into her pants. i told him that i actually have religious beliefs and i want to respect her. im not ready for a kid. two of my friends already hav kids and i never see them outside of school anymore. how can i explain to my friend that im not weird and also tell me if i really am weird for this or not.

2007-10-13 08:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by misteralex 2 in Friends

My step brother is a total screw up. He's 20, and he never got through high school because of drugs and alcohol. Because of that and his habits of stealing everything he sees, my mom and step dad kicked him out. He moved in with his mom and she ended up kicking him out because he stole her tv and radio and kept doing drugs. so my mom and step dad decided to give him one more chance because he had no place to live. But last night he came in the house totally drunk to where he could barely walk and he started calling my mom every name in the book and he started threatining her. My mom wants to kick him out but i'm scared hes going to get violent with her. My dad is at work and she will be the only one home with my step brother. What should i do? Should i call the cops?

2007-10-13 08:01:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months and everything is good ... He has a son who is so adoreable and i am cool with his family and everything ... Last nite we were supposed to go out and when i tried calling him , he wouldnt answer at all i tried again and then waited for him to call me back and he didnt so i waited 1:30 Am then sent a text telling him to just forget about tonight cause im tired of waiting and that i was very dissapointed in him... I went to bed and hoping he would call me and he didnt ...Now i was really pissed and my feelings were hurt cause i got all dressed up basicly for nothing ... I finally ended up calling him and he told me he had to watch his son last nite and i told him he should have called me and he said well it was a long story and i didnt wanna bug you with it ... He said that he tried calling me but it went to voicemail ...Hello? leave a freaken message ???? He said he wanted to see me tonite ...? whats up with him?????

2007-10-13 08:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by R.I.P ANDY ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother just bought me a $200 outfit. i didnt ask her to - i just needed church clothes for fall so she bought me the outfit. i love it and she's all excited about it and so I am. She says it is worth the $200 if I'll wear it a lot instead of spending $200 on a Homecoming Dress I'd only wear once (since I didnt go to my homecoming) and the outfit is gorgous!!!

so, what is the problem exactly? I wore it over to my grandmother's house to "model" it for her. She just sat there and nodded and then when my mom left to use the restroom she said "i dont know what you think you are doing but you do not deserve that outfit and i think it is hateful and rude of you to use your mother like that." and when my mom came back she told her, "i cant believe you spent that much on her. she's just using you. she'll wear it once and thats it"

i think that was totally inappropriate of her to say. i appriciate what my mom did for me. was my grandma out of place to say these things?

2007-10-13 08:00:47 · 10 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Family

2007-10-13 08:00:25 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating