Okay today my friend wants me to come over her house to work on our halloween costumes, but to tell you the truth I am really tired and I don't really feel like going over her house today because everytime I go I feel weird nowadays because her family and stuff.
What should I tell her...should I make up a little white lie?
Or should I tell her I am really tired.
Please give me some advice....
And it seems like now a days I don't want to do anything anymore...I think its because I am just so tired because of school and I just don't feel like doing anything with anybody...I just want to sleep.
What should I do???!?!!?
2007-10-13 08:04:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think I am depressed...I think the reason is because I had volleyball ever day after school and I wouldnt get home until 9 then I would take a shower and do homework and wouldnt get to sleep until midnight....then waking up at 6 every morning for school...
I think that is the reason I am just really tired.
Now that volleyball is over I think I can get rest now and be ready to do things.
2007-10-13 08:18:36 · update #1
I do feel like hanging out with people, I just don't feel like going over my friends house, but I do feel like going over my other friends house, we set up a date tommorw....
But that sounds wrong I know...I still think my first friend is a very good firned and I love going over her house, but I just don't feel like it today.
2007-10-13 08:21:23 · update #2
Oooh, I have this same exact problem. I wake up and work myself to death at school. After school, I kill myself at volleyball practice. After practice, I study and do homework until midnight. Then I wake up 5 hours later to do it all over again. So I know exactly how you feel. You should just tell your friend that you need some time to relax, and if she asks why, explain to her about volleyball and school, and she should understand.
2007-10-13 08:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, always tell the truth. because it is the right thing to do. tellyour friend exactly how you feel. once you commincate and express the truth you will start to feel better
sounds more like you have other issues that prevents you from socializing. Are you really tired ? only you can answer that. look deep down into your self honestly. there are no right or wrong answers to your tiredness. choose to be happy. or choose to be tired(sad). be open to possibliites and you will feel less tired. best of luck
2007-10-13 15:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you depressed? you sound a little depressed. not wanting to do anything with ANY body is a little concerning, if it was just this particular friend i'd say your probably growing apart but if you never feel like doing anything and your always tired may be you should talk to someone. i'd just tell her your tired and that you'll do it another day. unless perhaps shes done something, in which case you should talk to her and tell her what it is. i hope this helps.
2007-10-13 15:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah same here I don't really feel like doing anything....I think I'm depressed :-( I hope not but anyways I would tell her that your really tired and not really up for going over her house...(because of her family)...but don't tell her that. Maybe if you want to offer her to come to your house
2007-10-13 15:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: if you don't want to go - don't go. You can simply tell her the truth that you're tired and aren't in the mood to do anything or maybe have her over your place to do the costumes? If you think by telling her you are tired will hurt her feelings, say you're not feeling to well today but I don't think it's unreasonable to tell her you're tired.
2007-10-13 15:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Steel Warrior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you are really tired and you need some rest for the next day!Ask her if you could do it tomorrow so her feelings dont get hurt.You might have a lot of fun there!!
2007-10-13 17:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mansour S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would go to the friend and talk to her instead of making the costumes. set another date for that and just explain her everything and get your fustrations out. It usually works for me and I feel so much better than. Go to bed early tomorrow or just be 'sick' tomorrow and pamper yourself a bit. sounds like you really need it. well, take it easy and take extra vitamins. Its not uncommon to get sick when you feel like that. Hope this will help you and feel better soon!
2007-10-13 15:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Marlieke89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should try to fit in some more time to sleep, and tell your friend the truth. Just try to relax a little.
2007-10-13 15:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tha Jame$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just tell her your too tired for now and decide what is best for later. Just remember, it is okay to be "selfish" every now and then, just take some time to yourself, just take a relaxing bath and get some sleep. good luck and god bless
2007-10-13 15:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make alil lie say u dont feel good and i had a bad day and i dont want to go out on u because of my mood
2007-10-13 15:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by roxy_baby2007 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋