last weekend, my parents went on a business trip. i stayed at my gf's house. when we went to go to sleep, i stayed in her room. we didnt have sex, we mainly just cuddled and talked all night. it seemed her mom was ok as long as "she dont squeeze out a half white baby in 9 months" (her words, gotta love her). when i told my friend, he said i was weird for not gettin into her pants. i told him that i actually have religious beliefs and i want to respect her. im not ready for a kid. two of my friends already hav kids and i never see them outside of school anymore. how can i explain to my friend that im not weird and also tell me if i really am weird for this or not.
2007-10-13 08:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by misteralex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Good for you! I wish you were MY boyfriend. A guy with morals is hard to find, and I am really proud of you. Ignore your friends, tell them that not all guys have to go around getting girls pregnant.
2007-10-13 11:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by OrigamiGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is way off base! Sex is the way all humans come into this world, and if your friend thinks sex can be engaged, at any time, any place, anywhere - he's guaranteed, to end up like some of your other friends. I think you're a prince to be so considerate and caring and careful with your ability to procreate. Unless the girl is on birth control, you were very wise to not engage in Russian Roulette with your life, hers and that future being that could result by being careless! Is your friend dumb or what? If he got a girl pregnant, then what? No, you're friend is more than wierd, he's naive and stupid! You're intelligent and way beyond his level of maturity! You're an ace!
2007-10-13 15:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u r not weird at all your gf is very lucky to have you as a bf.Your friends just might very well be jealous.....well anyway u r soooo not weird just relax and tell ur friends I said THEY are weird for thinking u r weird.Oh and tell ur gf I said she is very lucky to have u as a bf!!!Well SEE YA!!!
2007-10-13 15:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww. thats sweet. ur far frm wierd. hes probialy just not used to a guy not having sex when they have the chance.
2007-10-13 18:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by ___ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thumbs up to you kiddoo......what a great guy for your morals. Keep it up, you'll go far....Your friends are the weird ones.....YOU ARE THE SMART ONE.
2007-10-13 15:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most (like, 98%) girls would probably love you for this. Most guys, sadly, only think about one thing, and you know what that is.
2007-10-13 15:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend just might be jealous because you have control. Don't worry about it and good for you.
2007-10-13 15:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by shadowynight23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no that's not weird out all!
i wish there was more guys like you out there!
2007-10-13 15:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by sillystrawberrry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not weird, but you have heard of contraception right? you dont have to have babies everytime you have sex.
2007-10-13 15:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by shinnybandages 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
not weird at all. Very respectable :-)
2007-10-13 15:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ashley K. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋