Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

i was deported from japan last 2004 and was banned to enter japan for the next 5 years. my fiance is a us navy based in japan and willing to marry me. if we get married and change my last name, is it possible for me to come back to japan again even if dont finished the 5 years banned for me?

2007-10-10 23:23:04 · 4 answers · asked by miatot20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to stay up all night so I did tonight. My brother keeps on coming and arguing with me, he keeps on saying, "Go to sleep".

I'm 18 years, he's 21, we are almost the same age, he acts like he's my dad since dad died a long time ago.

I keep on telling him to leave me alone and let me watch the tv, he keeps on arguing with me until mom waked up and yelled at me.

How to handle this brother?

2007-10-10 23:16:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK i'm 12 and i have a boy friend. is that to young?? like i won't kiss him or anything. but i'l give hima hug every now and then



am i to young to have a bf??

2007-10-10 23:14:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am really in love with this guy but I can't tell you why..do you think I need to have a reason?

2007-10-10 23:11:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married (8yrs)with 2 kids under 2 1/2 yrs. I am a stay @ home mom and responsible for everything in the house (cooking, cleaning, etc). My husband is a great provider and very successful. My prob is when I worked before I always had some me time (I'm an introvert too) even if it was just my lunch break. Now I'm 24/7. I even sleep in a sep part of the house so he isn't disturbed if a child wakes up. He has never helped at night even when a child has a stomach virus. I can't stress enough we work separetly (he certainly perfers it that way). I have decided I need 2 hours a week to get out. His mom comes for a visit every Sat.and I decided that was the best time b/c he doesn't want to be left alone with the kids. He doesn't really like his mom so he is mad not only b/c football games are on but he has to be w/ his mom without a buffer (me). No other times are good for him either. I'm resentful of him now and it is just getting worse. He still goes to lunch, gym, etc.

2007-10-10 23:03:54 · 20 answers · asked by ADC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 23:01:36 · 22 answers · asked by KW 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think you should stay in a marriage if your husband is a good provider, father and gives you the security you need? If your feeling unhappy, feelings have changed, and you feel trapped.

What would you do?

2007-10-10 23:01:21 · 27 answers · asked by Vixx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 22:57:34 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 22:47:23 · 13 answers · asked by sally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an open relationship with my boyfriend. He has chaeted on me in the past so we agreed to see others when we feel the need. It was meant to relieve the guilt and lying but he has now started to try to control me and have his fun too.

I feel it is so unfiar of him. I also tend to only give oral to any man i meet as i do love my boyfriend. How can i take a strong stand but still keep him happy?

2007-10-10 22:38:07 · 40 answers · asked by Slaggy Jacky 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend doesnt know what to get him for his birthday. they have been going out for 3 weeks. does she even have to give him a present? should she give it to him just herself or at his birthday party? they are 15 yrs. old.


really what im asking is....what should she get him?

2007-10-10 22:34:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was stood up on Monday (3 days ago). I waited for one hour in town. I had said I'd be in town at 6. His phone was turned off. He had hardly kept in touch since Sunday. This was supposed to be our second date. He asked me out on Saturday, to have dinner and go to the movies. All night his phone was turned off. I really liked him before this, and it made me really upset.

I didn't contact him, I just called on Tuesday and heard his phone rang (it was turned on) and hung up. In the evening he sent me a message, saying sorry and that something had been wrong with his phone's network. I honestly don't believe him. Yesterday he asked me out on a date again, to go to the movies. We agreed on Friday. He was being really nice.

Hm... I can't take being stood up again. I did like him, but I want someone who's honest and serious and not playing around with me. I don't know what to do. Should I give him another chance? What would u have done? Do you think he's telling the truth? (I don't)

2007-10-10 22:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dad had money . he nothing to Mom Can we use his Money to pay for Moms.

2007-10-10 22:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by crackers 2 in Family

I was recently married. i have been with the same man for the past 7 years. He is sexy as hell, sweet, and treats me like a queen. The only problem is he doesn't satisfy me in bed. I have been faking it so long that I am afraid to tell him the truth. I love my husband and i want to spend the rest of my life with him but somethign has got to give.
PLS help!!!!!!

2007-10-10 22:05:46 · 40 answers · asked by shay22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you say it too much in a day .. after every conversation? And is saying it so the other person says it desperate? or insecure? Even if you have been together couple of years.

2007-10-10 21:54:30 · 14 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Singles & Dating

Here the problem. They humilliated, mistreated, insulted...etc, my husband for years (before I meet him), but they are this kind of people that don't apology, NEVER! My husband worked since he was 15 until now (he's 25). All the money he earned (before i meet him) all the money went to his mother, he even had the same clothes that he had at 16 (i'm telling the truth, i brought him new clothes) he had the same clothes bcz all the money went to his mother. They (step father, all cousins and brothers, not the mother) called him idiot, retarded (my husband is the only one in his family with university), and so on. Now, his sister comes every month just to bring things that he left in his mother house. We told her to not come, but she still came. My husband don't speak with any of them, so his mother keeps calling my mother asking y he is acting different, and telling my mother that i'm responsible fot that. How I can keep them away? I dont want to call the police, but i'm getting frustrate

2007-10-10 21:53:50 · 11 answers · asked by Pinky 5 in Family

Well we've been going out for 3 weeks now and she has been talking to this one guy on internet who is on otherside of country but she seems to be like flirting with him like on webcam not showing anything but just like talking and stuff. I told her it bothered me a little bit but its just internet so who cares. I saw on her email to a friend she wrote something like he is perfect(me) but theres other guys and shyt. Should i be worried or am i just being jealous and stupid about this?

2007-10-10 21:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by npesu 2 in Singles & Dating

Big question Whendo you have pay the funeral Home. You not think straight at these times

2007-10-10 21:43:11 · 4 answers · asked by crackers 2 in Family

2007-10-10 21:40:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

But now she appears to be disgusted by them, and accuses me of ruining her good day. She used to tell me she was very attracted to my mind, and she told she deeply appreciated my social insights. She had requested that I give her opinions. I had asked her to tell me if the point ever got reached when she doesn't want them anymore, to avoid problems of the sort that have now arisen. Suddenly I am told that I am always ruining things. This accusing me of being out to make her feel bad---it sucks!

For example, she took her 9 yr old girl on a haunted hayride, involving actors doing things like hanging a girl from a tree and pretending to stab the girl while she screamed for help. I said "I'm glad you guys had so much fun, great!" Then I was silent. I said I need to think. She got pissed off. I explained that I question our increasing social practice of extremely violent dramatizations in the name of entertainment, saturating kids with the stuff. So now, I'm the bad guy. ?

2007-10-10 21:24:58 · 10 answers · asked by Theron Q. Ramacharaka Panchadasi 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 21:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by chotti 1 in Singles & Dating

I`m not being prejudiced or anything, but i`ve met over 5 guys and they are all Chinese Malay, they seem always struggling to work out a relationship...why`s that...

2007-10-10 21:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by annica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 21:03:23 · 7 answers · asked by tuxidoguy 1 in Family

my partner of 4 yrs & I have been on a break since May. His dad died after a long illness & he needed time alone to get to grips with things.
We have been spending more & more time together lately & things seemed to be returning to "normal". He scattered his dads ashes & said he felt much better. During our time together he held my hand whilst we watched a film & lounged on me- kind of used my leg as a cushion! However, we didnt kiss or anything. I didnt mind as it was nice to return to the 1st flush of dating but now he has backed off again. After asking me round to watch films or hang out he now doesnt seem to want me to at all.
I wonder if he thought that after scattering the ashes everything would be fine but its still not bought his lovely dad back.
I miss him terribly & desparately want him back, but more than that I want to support & help him. Having never lost a parent its hard to understand.
I am 29 & he is 34 (his dad was his only parent- his mum has been absent for yrs)

2007-10-10 21:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by verity b 3 in Family

2007-10-10 21:00:20 · 8 answers · asked by gwen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 20:59:41 · 16 answers · asked by tony s 5 in Singles & Dating

I truly loved my husband when we got married (a year ago) ,but Im unsure now...
We fight a lot and he doesnt seem to care about me at all...
I told him we should get divorced and he said he doesnt want to,but now Im just thinking it could be better for me and my daughter...
Im not happy anymore!I feel unloved, unappreciated and insecure.
I also think he might be cheating on me.

2007-10-10 20:59:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 20:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by comwisec@yahoo.com 1 in Weddings

I have two older brothers and one older sister. In total, they have had eight kids and have chosen each other at least once to be a godparent. Why don't they choose me? I'm not extremely poor or an irresponsible person and I can't think of any other reason why they wouldn't pick me. Should I let it bother me?

2007-10-10 20:31:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im so dipressed, ive filed for Divorce and asked my husband to leave, so he`s staying at his parents, He gave people inpression of me having an affair while he was so obsessed and insecure of me and abused me verbally and immotionally for the past 8 years but still supporting our family as he is not working, for the way its been said i feel like i did it for real, We have 2 sons, 8 yrs and 18 months, he even went to our friends and told them that he`s not sure if our second born is his, it broke my heart and made me draw a line of our marriage, only people who are close to us knows what exactly is happening, but the rest esp at church sees me as a cheater to my husband who is even left the home. i cant face anybody and i cant even talk to anyone, i never shared my problems with anybody even my family untill i decided to file for divorce, and everybody sees him as this good "elder" or christian at church which makes him this perfect someone. Please help how do i cope,

2007-10-10 20:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by Tumlala 1 in Marriage & Divorce