Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

My daughter has bipolar but has been a single mom to three shildren since they were born. Ages 3 1/2, 4 1/2 and newborn. The father has been in and out of their lives since they beginning. They got married last year and split up again after 3 months. He always tries to upset her and make her angry then calls the police and says she is a danger to her children (bipolar). She is breast feeding and can't take meds and is not a danger. She has provided a home, clothes, takes to doctors appts, school, etc. He doesn't even keep a job. He took the kids and filed for a divorce then they reconciled for a few months which made his custody papers null. He used them anyway and took the kids. Now we are going to court. I don't know what he has up his sleeve now but his mom has everything to do with it because he is unable to do anything on his own. He has a 14 year old that his mom raises and another somewhere else. He doesn't even pay support. Do you think we will win in court?

2007-10-10 02:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by grandma18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi there, i got in to a fight 6 weeks ago and the police came to interview me now. The guy i had a fight with was my sisters ex husband. He was from pakistan and immigrant. My sister called him over and when he came to england he wasnt intrested in my sister but more intrested in going after other girls. The marriage broke down and my dad was a very nice guy he didnt want to send my sisters ex husband back because his family back in pakistan were poor. so my dad thought good for him but even though he turned out to be bad. Once he got his visa in the Uk he started threatning my family including my sisters and my elderly mother. He was making abusive phone calls to my house in the middle of the nite, and when he saw any of my family on the street he abused them. But 6 weeks ago he abused me, and he grabbed hold of me and wont let me go so i totally knocked him out clean, i wanted to teach him a lesson. what could i say to the police am scared ? if i go to cout it will affect my career ?

2007-10-10 02:56:24 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents abanoed me when I was just 8 years old, and I 've never seen them again.I was given to the state as a ward of the state,until I turned 18 years old.I'm now 35 years old and have a family of my own,and I was just wondering what your opinions might be.

2007-10-10 02:50:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-10 02:47:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please answer me!!

2007-10-10 02:45:13 · 47 answers · asked by Laurita y Marcial 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he dropped her off at home knowing there was noone home she is only 7

2007-10-10 02:45:02 · 3 answers · asked by Tiff 1 in Family

2007-10-10 02:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by donellew2002 2 in Friends

My wife and I were going through some rough times and we were going through the process of a divorce. Later we got back together. We both know what one did while separated. Both of us had relations with other people. She got pregnant with her ex boyfriends baby. On that note; I also had a scare with my ex girlfriend she got pregnant as well. I don't know what to do guys. I found out that my ex girlfriends baby is not mine. She was cheating on me when we were going out. I no longer communicate with her. On the other hand. My wife communicates with her ex all the time. She says that she wants him to be in the baby's life. Witch is understandable but it feels like it is putting a strain on our relationship that we are working to keep with each other. So now we have one son and another baby on the way. Give me input guys.

2007-10-10 02:37:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went out with this girl for 2 1/2 years and im still madly in love with her. We broke up 3 weeks ago and I cant even look at another girl without thinking of her. How long should i wait, i know it's because were young and we need to see what else is out there but i know she is the only one for me. Her smile makes me see clearer, i feel so lonely.

2007-10-10 02:36:39 · 33 answers · asked by Jordan M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 02:23:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 02:22:23 · 16 answers · asked by Nando 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Mum & dad split up when i was night and now i live with my mum and see my dad every Frieday, she treating me like a little kid, never heard me when i speak, she don't speak 2me just giving me orders and when i say no she start yelling at me and saying i'm ur mum and u have to respect my orders, dont tell me to speak to her cuz all what i'll got is nothing cuz she never listen

2007-10-10 02:20:01 · 2 answers · asked by ♫ Bright Side ♫ 3 in Family

My friends that are guys always say they like skinny girls with big boddy and boobs what about you are you with them

2007-10-10 02:11:29 · 11 answers · asked by Giovy 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people wash up
Some people cuddle with their loved ones
Some people smoke to celebrate
Some people fall asleep

2007-10-10 02:10:58 · 47 answers · asked by autumn lover 6 in Singles & Dating

What if you met a middle aged woman...about 33 years old and is just getting out of a marraige in which she willingly left her kids behind with her husband. Would you actually respect any woman who just gave her kids up so easily. What would you do if you met a woman who had 3 kids but the kids lived with the father instead of her because she was easily willing to give them up?.

2007-10-10 02:09:42 · 29 answers · asked by Javi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m 48. My father, had he been alive, would be 74 now. My mother is seventeen years older than me.
We are orthodox Hindu Bengalis, and when my father married my mother at 1958, that was the prevailing social norm. There were a lot of differences in their educational qualifications or social status. Still, they happily lived their life and reared kids with highest possible love and affection.
Now, should I hate my father as a pedophile now??

2007-10-10 02:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by I, the Ocean 1 in Family

We have been separeted for 6 months and are going through a divorce, which she wanted. Almost every time I go over to her house to visit the children she kisses me, not just a peck but makes out with me. Why?

2007-10-10 02:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i hav this 13 yr-old sis who i think is fuckd-up. She keeps on making these annoying noises everytime like *old mac donald had a farm* noises.. shouting my name when im like 2 inches away from her. not only to me but the rest of the sib. sometimes i do annoy them but not as retarded as this. i just feel like strangling her. but i dont. but if she wasnt my sis i prolly would. jk nah i wud never hit a girl ;) i know.. she messed up.. what can i do?? were still staying on the same roof..cant wait till i get my on place to stay...i would die of heart attack if she keeps on going...so any thoughts on how to deal with this??

2007-10-10 01:57:14 · 5 answers · asked by zackare89 2 in Family

2007-10-10 01:56:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Parents / Friend / Husband

2007-10-10 01:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend is super open about everything. i'll cut to the chase---the thought of him with another girl (intimately) makes me seriously sick , disgusted, sad. And he just keeps bringin up past sex stories or experiences that make me look at him like "EWWWW" . (example: "hey i dated a stripper") thats just one. We've been together for a long time and i wish i knew how NOT to care about things he did in the past. But the more i think about it, the more disgusted i get and look at our relationship differently. I've told him it bothers me, but it hasnt stopped him from sayin stuff. help. i need to get this cra p off my mind its driving me nuts and i'm going to throw up

2007-10-10 01:49:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it someon I know

2007-10-10 01:43:21 · 14 answers · asked by katie-marie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it a person I know

2007-10-10 01:40:56 · 9 answers · asked by katie-marie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 01:37:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was raped about 3 years ago when I was out for the night with my friends, staying in a bed and breakfast.
I didn't want the hassle of trying to find him and going through the heartache of a police service and investigation, so my friends cleaned me up and looked after me for a few days.
It took me about 6 months before I gained any confidence to go out again. And it took me a long time to trust anyone.
But I did get over it.
Now, 3 years down the line, I'm happy and settled with my partner who I love with all my heart, and we are trying for a baby, and suddenly, yesterday night and today, quick images keep coming into my head, like flashbacks. I am starting to remember his smell and what he looked like and the words he whispered to me and I can't stand it.
I don't want to upset my partner and tell him.
Has anyone else had this?

2007-10-10 01:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by sweet_steph27 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I tel my parents that I have a boyfriend if they never listen

2007-10-10 01:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by Giovy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-10 01:17:40 · 2 answers · asked by khristine a 1 in Singles & Dating

She is on here all the time. She never spends time with her family. She always wants to ask more questions, to broaden her knowledge of questions. She needs help. She needs therapy.

2007-10-10 01:11:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when you spend about 1hr on the phone to sort something out with a person in a company only to ring back the next day and be told something completely different!!
i spent an hr on the phone to someone discussing a paticular course with someone who then told me to go into the center when i had found my certificates and discuss the course further, which i was looking forward to. rang back today and just been told i have to apply online and that i couldn't go in! how annoying is that! the SECOND time its happened this week!!!!
rant over x

2007-10-10 01:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by xloux 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i don't want to make this question long so i won't write it all...ok ok here it goes i'm with this one guy and i think he's amazing... this is the first guy thats like a best friend for me i could tell him anything of me and my personal life he's just the guy i've alwayz wanted except the only thing that reall ticked me off waz the break-up after 2wks ever since then when we got back together he completly changed to the guy i alwayz wanted him to be and to tell you the truth i love him to pieces....♥.......i'd just like to know what all of yo'z opinions are on this reationship thanx!!!

2007-10-10 01:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating