Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

Im 18 shes 14, turning 15 in january. We've been going out for 5 months, yesterday all hell broke lose. She skipped classes to come over and the school called her mom. Her mom called me but i didnt hear the phone, so her mom called the cops afterwards. When we got to her house the cops were downstairs. Long story short.. her moms against us being together, so are the cops..

i know shes young, i respect her,

we really love each other.. i CANT live without her. Her mom told her to wait until she graduates highschool til she can date again.. what should i do? Please help...

2007-10-10 09:44:43 · 5 answers · asked by poisonenvy0104 1 in Singles & Dating

when a girl is talking to you, what turns you on?

2007-10-10 09:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by Molly A 1 in Singles & Dating

I am preparing to graduate second in my class at Stanford University. I will earn a degree in Biophysics. I have been offered three jobs already, including one in Asia, once I graduate, all of which would pay me six figures with incentive bonuses.

The problem is this : I don't want to work in biophysics.

My new dream is to wrap individual slices of cheese. I don't care how little it pays, or how ridiculous it sounds to others, but I have been thinking long and hard about this, and this is the career path I want to pursue. I feel slightly guilty about spending thousands upon thousands of my parents' dollars, but what's done is done. Nobody can destroy my dream.

How can I ease them into this?

2007-10-10 09:42:02 · 23 answers · asked by Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe 6 in Family

So i am ruining my marriage..i am very insecure about the way I look and I always am thinking that my husband would rather be with someone else that looks better and last night a friend had text me this pic of the olsen twins topless and my hubby always makes fun of them so i thought i would forward it to him and told him to erase it when he was done looking at it..so i got home and asked if he had erased it he said no because he wanted to show his buddies at work..which i was fine with well when i went to go plug in the phones for the night i saw he had a text so i thought it was me and i was going to check it..well i clicked on the sent and not the inbox and saw he sent it to his work phone..when i woke him up i confronted him about it and he told me it was cuz he wanted to show his friends which didnt make sense because the pic was on his personal phone and why couldnt he show them on that?? so I freaked out on him called him a liar and that he was just trying to hide it from me...

2007-10-10 09:40:14 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 09:39:48 · 4 answers · asked by byron m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 16. Hes 19. Hes a really nice great guy. Hes not interested in sex or anything like that... Do you think its wrong to date him cause of the age difference?

2007-10-10 09:38:17 · 16 answers · asked by Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

My dad just found out he's having liver failure .. pretty bad.

My boyfriend and i are not even engaged yet. Of course growing up i've dreamed about this nothing, nothing to big, but my dad HAS to walk me downt he isle. I wouldn't dream of a wedding any different.

We've been wanting to get married but he hasn't asked yet .. we talk about it all of the time .. but he's been wanting to get me the perfect ring ...

ANYWAYS .. would it be silly to rush it along with the news my dad is really ill?

I really want to .. what do you think?

2007-10-10 09:37:33 · 19 answers · asked by Purple Cat 1 in Weddings

what was your expression, emotion, or interior feeling should I say? Did something tell you that he was going to be the one? Was it like a feeling you never had before? Just elaborate. Thanks.

2007-10-10 09:36:17 · 5 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Singles & Dating

I think that he may be hinting, but me and my issues can't quite figure this one out. My boyfriend and I haven't gone down on each other...lately though, before we are about to have sex, he'll ask me "is there anything you'd like me to do?" to which I usually respond to by taking off my clothes and getting down to business, but I'm wondering now, in retrospect if I should be saying something more like, "yes! please before heading to the condom drawer just go down on me already!" Anyhow, I know he can't read my mind, but part of me is wondering if that's what he means, as he's not asked me to do the same to him yet. HELP! I'd love to be able to communicate better in bed with him, as I know we're compatible, but I'd like us to be able to turn each other on as much as possible. Thanks!

2007-10-10 09:34:54 · 12 answers · asked by UW_econ_chic 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you like a short thin girl with long straight brown hair and quiet small boop (B cup)and green eyes ???????? Honestly ?????? Is it true that if you are not tall blonde and like Pamela Anderson you can't attract a guy ????

2007-10-10 09:34:09 · 5 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

I lived with my boyfriend for 8 years. I moved out 3 months ago but still continued to see him and help him with rent and bills. Yes when we were together I kept us up financially. He is 32 and I am 25. I think I became co dependent on taking care of him and having him around. 8 years is a long time. Any way when we first got together he went through a divorce and also had his parental rights terminated. Now after 7 years the ex wife is starting to bring the child around. She is having problems with her current husband. I am trying to give my boyfriend space. He has no job, no license or transportation. I just wonder why he has not called me. I know that may sound dumb but he told me he loved me. Do you think he thinks about me?? This is really bothering me. I have not spoke to him since Monday and I am not planning on it. I want him to call but I am torn inside. He lies to me about things and he has problems. This is killing me inside. It is consuming me. Can u help

2007-10-10 09:33:59 · 14 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My name is Jessica and I am 31 yrs old. I'm currently married with 3 young boys (8, 5, &18 mo.). My husband has become an alcoholic and is very verbally abusive to all of us and has begun smashing things in the house. I want really want to leave but have no resources to do so. I have been a stay at home mom so I have no money or job. I can't even afford to get an apartment. My children are scared and asked me to leave their dad but I don't know how to go anywhere. I want to move as soon as possible. If anybody could please help me or give any suggestions I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you

2007-10-10 09:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jessy1012 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I have this teacher who is a cocky idiot. He regularly picks on me and today's bully time was when I couldn't explain what I was doing and he said "It's people like you who start world wars, you can't communicate properly!", hello I have a job in customer services and have plenty of friends. Next I was nervous because I had to leave the room early, he let me but then he started imitating my nervous twitch and mentioned it to the whole class, thank god none of them laughed, they've got my back. Next there was an Asian girl in the class who complained that it was hot and the teacher said" How the hell do you manage in Pakistan?" or something similar, that was racist right? What should I do? My friends say I should file a law suite!

2007-10-10 09:30:26 · 14 answers · asked by Tom B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so me and my fiance want to have a June-ish to about September wedding. We haven't set an exact date due to finding out what is good for both families but we are not sure where to have the big day. I want some thing that is different. I don't want it at a regular hall. As for him he is leaving it up to me so I need ideas of some great place in the Southern California area. We live in the Los Angeles area but have many family members that are scattered so the city is not a big deal. What i would like to know is if you have been to or had a wedding some where and would highly suggest it. If you have web sites, phone numbers, names, or whatever that is good. Thank you to everyone who has suggestions!

2007-10-10 09:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by mommysgirl78 2 in Weddings

2007-10-10 09:29:03 · 9 answers · asked by Ann M 1 in Family

I have heard that guys like to be called handsome, but would it be too weird to call a 16 year old guy handsome...like would he think it's outdated?

Also, I have heard that guys think "cute" is an insult...but is it ok to call a 16 year old guy cute, since he is still cute, whereas older guys are hot/sexy/etc.?

2007-10-10 09:26:10 · 35 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 09:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by Ann M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well it appears that my dad was cheating on my mom for a long time with atleast one other woman at work...

he wanted to keep living with my mom and act like nothing was wrong but my mom got furious an they got a divorce.

it all happened when i was away at college, an i was really angry i mean i always picture them growing old together and being happy, now i dont know what to do im really pissed at my dad cuz i had heard him talkin on the phone with another woman one time an said he liked to lick peanut butter or something off woman and then i hung up the phone without him knowin i had heard awhile back

what should i do?

2007-10-10 09:22:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 09:20:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 29 he's 52. We met through friends at work3 years ago and hit it off. He is married to his third wife with 3 young kids and claims his wife never wants to go out. Before we met he spent a lot of time out with the guys from the office. We share an interest in sports and because he is pretty well off he gets tickets to any event he wants. We have gone out to dinner and games several times as just friends and he hasn't tried anything. I am worried what others will think of us just hanging out. I know his wife would not be happy but it seems so innocent. He has asked me to take an overnight trip out of town to a sporting event . I would really like to go but I'm worried what others might think. I am not attracted to him sexually, I just like his company. Should I go or not.

2007-10-10 09:17:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend, soon to be fiancee, is a wonderful man and he has some old fashioned ideas. Not that they are a bad thing and not that he has said anything, but I know it's bugging him subconsciously that I just got a new job making more money than him. The thing is he really wants to think of himself as my provider/protecter and all that jazz, it is great and wonderful and romantic, but I feel like I have slightly invalidated him. I want to do something or write him something that will let him know that he stil is my knight in shining armor. Keep in mind he hasn't said anything negative or anything about it. I told him once I started making money I could start taking him out to dinner and he just got kind of quiet and then said that he still wanted to kind of be my provider.

2007-10-10 09:16:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im having a 4 tier wedding cake but no one likes fruit so we want to just have all sponge can anyone tell me if this at all possible for them to be all stacked together on top of each other with out any major problems. thanx

2007-10-10 09:13:29 · 8 answers · asked by mitch_n_ian 1 in Weddings

2007-10-10 09:10:10 · 2 answers · asked by cheri 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you communicate to your partner that you are in the mood to be intimate? If your partner is more passive, how would you encourage them to participate more?

Suggestions for subtle and or non-vulgar ways would be appreciated

2007-10-10 09:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by banjnkmail 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does an eight year age difference really make a difference in a relationship? Or it doesn't matter if the couple is happy and finding themselves within each other?
If anyone has any type of knowledge on this...please...fill me in.
Tis appreciated, thanks.

2007-10-10 09:06:12 · 24 answers · asked by contraamphibium 1 in Singles & Dating

i never look for anything long term just a little short term fun with no strings attached

2007-10-10 09:03:52 · 36 answers · asked by sexynsweet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been thinking about this for a long time cos i make my close friends angry and ill give one example, i told this one person who wasnt really a close mate to give me something, and i asked that person on about 10 occasions to give me it but they wouldnt and i really didnt care at all, but with this girl that i really really like; i asked her to give me it on 1 occasion and she said she would give it to me another day and i still got angry at her, why is it that i get angry at her even though the first person wouldnt give it, but the girl said she would another day, so why do i get angrier at the girl than the other person?

2007-10-10 09:01:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm just curious...I'm 5'11 and I also wear 3 to 4 inch heels. Some guys like it but other guys say I shouldn't wear heels cause it's "intimidating" I love it cause i have long legs but...what is your opinion. Are you intimidated by tall girls?

2007-10-10 09:00:59 · 38 answers · asked by Brielle 2 in Singles & Dating

is there a time limit of length of marrige to do an annulment?

2007-10-10 09:00:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you married women think when you see a cute guy, or what happens to you when a cute guy passes you by? I am curious to know this because of the reality of it. By no means do I mean to ask anything about cheating and I hope none of you ladies ever do that to your men! Are there studies related to my question? Has that ever happened to you? Or has this ever not for one second gone through your mind? Thank you all for your responses. : )

2007-10-10 08:55:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce