Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

last friday after my football game i was hanging out with my good friend in my car. We were just talking and all of a sudden he leans over and we started making out. I completely got so lost in the moment i forgot about his girlfriend, who might i add is about 6 inches taller then me and could beat the crap out of me. There was a slight scare that it got out at school but it didn't get very far cuz nobody would believe he would ever cheat on her. I feel horrible but then again i don't. Now everyday in class he keeps asking me when where hanging out again and i've been just avoiding the question basically. help!!!

2007-10-10 12:35:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Small wedding- about 50 people. Small budget.


Who *usually* pays for the dresses?

2007-10-10 12:34:37 · 30 answers · asked by Squeaker 2 in Weddings

I am in grad school and it's very demanding and time consuming and my boyfriend couldn't be as supportive as he needed to be so he ended it so he wouldn't have to think about how little he could see me. Can this be worked out?

2007-10-10 12:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by sublimethug 1 in Singles & Dating

i working in an eassay

2007-10-10 12:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was seeing an old ex from high school and we were in love he was so nice to me and would do anything to get me back i have told him about the new guy in my life and he is still so supportive to me. I feel so bad to him because he really does love me i am an idiot to not be with him but he was just to obsessive with me so thats why i made the choose to stay with the guy i have now far out why do i choose to stay with a guy that might not even love or treat me as good as the other.

2007-10-10 12:31:19 · 6 answers · asked by Roxy 2 in Singles & Dating

I still like my girlfriend and i'd do anything to help it go back to how it was when we first started dating. But its been 8 months now and we've been through a couple of break ups and im tired of being sad and depressed and depending on her for my happiness. I feel like we need to break things off but i'm afraid of seeing her or hearing about her and another guy. I know im being a poon. What should i do? Move on? or continue trying to get things back to normal?

2007-10-10 12:29:24 · 22 answers · asked by Adam P 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wants to talk to me in private. We haven’t been hanging out lately and I don’t think she’s feeling it anymore. I feel as though the chemistry is gone. I’m not 100 % sure, but if she does breaks the bad news to me, is it better that I don’t respond at all? I feel that no matter what I say, it’s not going to change anything. What should I do? Listen to her lecture and take it like a man? That’s going to be hard… Has anyone been through this? What was your experience?

2007-10-10 12:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK heres my situation, I have been patient but now I am at my wits end and want to know if he will ever change...
I have been with a guy for 2 years, we've been living together(with my parents) for a year.
He drinks too much and smokes. I hate him smoking... We broke up for a few months in the first year and he quit smoking then, we got back together and he started again.
I wanna buy a house soon but I'm dont wanna be with him if he's smoking, he says he's trying, most of the time he will only smoke when he drinks but thats not good enough for me.
WHat can I do to make him quit or is it not possible... Thanks for your help

2007-10-10 12:27:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so this guy... we've never talked to eachother but im friends with his friend and i over heard his friends and he talking about me several times...and like right after they were talking about me his friend would come over and try to talk to me (im shy so convos go nowhere w/ me n less i kno u well.) well the guy is always looking at me outta the corner of his eye. but it seems like n e time i walk near him he'll leave son after. i've overheard his friends say all sorts of suspicious stuff that make me think he likes me but then he seems scared of me. is he probably just nervous around me so he doesnt wanna embarass himself or something or could he be kinda mad at me for liking him w/o really knowing him lol? i just dont get it. n e shy guys on here or n e one lese who might be able to make a guess as to whats on his mind about me??

2007-10-10 12:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happens if this guy tells you he loves you? Some of his words don't connect to his actions. But he tells me repeatedly there isn't any reason to lie to me. Should I still give a chance and see that his words might speak louder than actions? Or should it be equal, where words and actions show the same amount.

2007-10-10 12:22:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wonder if he loves me because he acking so strange and i see so many signs but i don't follow them should i follow them are not?

2007-10-10 12:19:14 · 18 answers · asked by fruit_punch_818 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is currently being harassed by his crazy ex wife. They have been divorced for 2 years and share two children ages 17 and 18. She constantly calls his cell phone numerous times if he does not answer (today was 20x by 11am) and then calls his work. Can he get a restraining order against her even though they do need to communicate for some things regarding their one child that still lives with her mother? If so, how do you go about getting a retraining order in Ontario?

2007-10-10 12:17:59 · 20 answers · asked by Emerick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok theres this guy i like and hes in my grade hes new and we have nicknames for each other and well i like him so bad and how do u know when a guy likes you please answer this i need help asap please and thank you

2007-10-10 12:14:55 · 20 answers · asked by tumrockmage 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant make it to a wedding and feel bad. i am sending a card but dont know what to write. i would like to write something long as it looks like you mean it. lol so any help would be great. so ffar i have dear and thats it.

thanks

2007-10-10 12:11:49 · 11 answers · asked by goryrory1986 1 in Weddings

This is just to weird. So this is the situation, my husband works in an office with a lot of females, I don't worry about him cheating or anything we have a really good relashionship. We talk about things all the time and many people have commented on how we hardly ever fight. The only problem is that in the last few months I guess some of his co-workers have told him that he is a really good man (which he is) they tell him to tell me how lucky I am, so he comes home and tells me. I just look at him and say I know I am lucky. It was okay I guess the first few times but know he will call me at work out of the blue to metion that what someone has said. The problem is I know I am lucky, but he is lucky too and he never mentions that. It just feels like he is rubbing it in my face and I don't know what he wants me to say to that. Maybe I am over reacting because these women don't see him at home. Do I feel this way because I think he is treating his co-workers better than me? :(

2007-10-10 12:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Crazy Train 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is that ok?

2007-10-10 12:10:26 · 18 answers · asked by Dazed&Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my bf go to the same school and the people we both no are people i've met on my own, like i dont talk to the guys he be hanging out with and he never seemed to want me to hang out with them when they together, i mean they are really trouble makers when they together and he knows i dont like when he does bad things. could that be a reason why he dont like me to be around him and his friends?? its like he's eigther with me or his friends but not with both. and today i cut class so maybe i could have lunch with him but he didnt want to he was making up the lamest excuse ever so then i decided to cut with my friend (girl) and he saw me and thought i was waiting for him but i wasnt. but yea like if im his girl i dont see why he gotta be acting that way and not wanting me to have lunch with him. wat does this mean??? plzz help any ideas will be good, thanx!

2007-10-10 12:10:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Links would be appreciated.

2007-10-10 12:09:03 · 2 answers · asked by Squeaker 2 in Weddings

We have been dating for 1 1/2 years and are very serious and very committed. He does not want to get married until we have lived together, and I am not sure if I am willing to make that compromise. Is engagement enough?

2007-10-10 12:07:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated a girl who was a perfect 10. amazing in every way. perfect really...and then i lost her. =( so, after a few years, i started dating again. only when i dated a 7...she didn't look like a 7...she looked like a -3 (compared to what i was used to). some of these girls liked me and we went out...but i just kept breaking up with them quick (a few months at the longest)

i'm over the 10 i dated....but anyone that isn't a 10....seems like i'm settling now. what do i do? i'm no 10 myself....i should be happy with a 7.

who would have known dating a 10 could f you up so badly? help!!!

2007-10-10 12:06:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for over 20 years. We have 2 teenage children. His only sibling, a brother is on his second marraige with 5 children, 3 of them teenagers, all of whom I love. The problem is my mother-in-law(mil). She has, since day 1, favored my brother-in-law (bil). We all live in the same town. For the past 10 plus years she has bil and his family over to dinner at least once a week if not more. We are never invited. When confronted with all the favortism years ago, (in a gentle manner) she pretty much denied it. Things were better for a year or two then she slipped back into her old ways. She attends all my nieces and nephews sporting events and never attends my own childrens. My husband doesn't like to talk about it, although he agrees I know it is very hurtful to him. She always buys the other kids things, spends time with them, etc. but not with us. We never had a disagreement, my kids and my family are very nice well-rounded people. Why?

2007-10-10 12:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

recently my boyfriend dumped me for another girl and i was heartbroken. now a guy asked me out that i never liked in the first place and i said 'yes' mainly to show off to my ex. ok lets just say my new boyfriend reminds me of 50 cent, big black guy and im ciara more smaller and petite and HES JUST TOO BIG AND MANLY for me also perverted!!! im scared to break up with him because everyone at my school will start spreading rumors and we have only been dating for a day!! i dont have any feelings for him! i like someone else and that someone else likes me and this isnt working!ugh im so stressed! please help me!
by the way IM NOT GOOD at breaking up! :[[ how do you do it??? HELP! im in chaos!!

2007-10-10 12:03:33 · 35 answers · asked by Angiee 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in my thirties. I have had only one "O" from intercourse in my life. I know, sad. I really want to figure this out as it is depressing. It makes me feel horrible that my boyfriend can't get me to, trust me, it's not him. And I know it makes him feel horrible. It's me, I just don't know why. I am so jealous of my friends that don't seem to have this problem. Serious, mature answers only, please. thanks

2007-10-10 12:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by biscuit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I filed for divorce last October; He moved out in February to live with another woman; it's one year later and he is still not in a hurry to have this settled. He is supposed to pay the mortgage and I pay the utilities and live in the house until our divorce is final. Now an inspector wants to come to see our property due to lack of payment. If I pay the mortgage for the months it's late, I will have to borrow money...I can't believe it's one year since I filed already. Is there ever a deadline as to how long these things can go on? We live in New York State.

2007-10-10 11:59:41 · 11 answers · asked by P K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

17 yonger older???and yy

2007-10-10 11:58:53 · 29 answers · asked by beba c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the girl or the guy?

2007-10-10 11:57:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i don't know what he wants to hear. i'm 21 and i'm just learning and i want to know what to say to drive him wild

2007-10-10 11:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

For about three months now my friend and I have both been having sex at the same girl. We met her at a party and we take turns with her (no, we don't get near each other). I think it is a big turn-on that she is so sexually open. She gives one of us a phone call a few times a week and asks for both of us to come over.

We are all afraid of anyone finding out though. Is this unusual or does it happen more than I think.

2007-10-10 11:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by Mark C 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a hispanic guy and I have been here for some months, I'm learning about american life style. In my yoga classes there is a Beautiful caucasian woman and I like her a lot. I know that she is interested on me too, but I don't know how start a conversation with her or about what things we could speak. I think she is a shy woman and me too, Can you give me any good ideas for break ice please. Thank you I appreciate your help. I'm sorry for my English grammar, I'm learning English yet.

2007-10-10 11:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so theres this girl, and shes suposedy one of my friends. but i dont want to invite her to my party!

whats a good excuse (LIE) to tell her shes not invited, besides
'my mom said i can only invite 10 people!!'
cause she wont believe that.
thx!

2007-10-10 11:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by teenateenateena 2 in Friends