I am in grad school and it's very demanding and time consuming and my boyfriend couldn't be as supportive as he needed to be so he ended it so he wouldn't have to think about how little he could see me. Can this be worked out?
2007-10-10 12:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by sublimethug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We had been dating for almost 2 years now.
2007-10-11 15:38:14 · update #1
Well it's over. Leave it that way first of all. It might have been just an excuse. but maybe not. Just ride it out. I would avoid seeing or talking to him at all costs unless he makes the initiative.
2007-10-10 12:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.Jim Lahey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,
If you want to move on it is going to take a long time. So, I wouldn't instantly get another guy, because you'll regret it.
Second, it doesn't sound like he was that great of a boyfriend anyway. A good one would support you and help you out and be willing to make sacrificing for you to the education that you need. And its a bit selfish the HE ended it so he wouldn't have to think about not seeing you...
2007-10-10 19:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by chaoticaffair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible he was using this as an excuse to break it off.
It's not easy not being able to see the person you love, but if the relationship meant that much, it could easily be worked out. Especially if the time-consumer was something as important as Grad School.
2007-10-10 19:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by Space 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say that it sounded like a third party intervention, but now I see that it was his decision to end it and not yours. If grad school is that important to you, then I would look for someone else who won’t wine about you going to grad school. Some guys are afraid of strong women. I wish you well.
2007-10-10 19:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by TicToc.... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He's trying to play you. Keep your head on straight and finish grad school. The more successful you are, the more he'll wish he'd hung around.
2007-10-10 19:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he didn't want to be with you as much as you thought. If he did, he would have stayed with you. I play volleyball and I have practice or a game every weekday until at least 6:30, so I don't get to see him as much as I would like, but he's still here with me.
2007-10-10 19:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he valued studying more than you
it should be easy to move on then
2007-10-10 19:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's an excuse, he has another girl
-ouch-
call a private detective I swear he's cheating on you!
2007-10-10 19:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both fo u have to talk thing out first... it will work if you u talk more about it... relationship are up and down. talk to him....
2007-10-10 19:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by crazyflip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋