Family & Relationships - 7 October 2007

2007-10-07 23:59:11 · 2 answers · asked by Reverie 1 in Family

Tried to reach him by MySpace, but no answer from someone else also searching. Please let him know that Grant Kinser, gkinse@yahoo.com is looking or if you have email or other contact. Last seen in Dallas, TX about two(+?) years ago. Thank you. Deeply miss him. Great fun!

2007-10-07 23:57:15 · 1 answers · asked by ,,G'' 2 in Friends

2007-10-07 23:54:53 · 16 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Weddings

Please explain your point.

2007-10-07 23:54:20 · 27 answers · asked by suraj 1 in Family

In my mind, it is obviously the woman’s fault that she goes astray, no one else’s. I know someone who is having an affair.

Should I or should I not tell the husband? So sad that this kind of decadence is creeping into many families. I wish women will see the need for strengthening family ties not just by providing material needs but also by providing role models who are morally upright and God-fearing individuals.

2007-10-07 23:47:12 · 23 answers · asked by hottstuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in the 8th grade, every monday we have to attend club.. i met him there. he's in the 9th grade.. i really like him but i dont know what to do.. if i make a move.. he might not like me and i just might get hurt.. what should i do? i want to be really close with him so that at least we'll be really close.. and who knows we might get together.. so what should i do? i only see him every monday.. should i try to get his attention?? if so how can i get his attention? PLEASE HELP!! i am desperate but i dont want him to think i am desperate.. im not sure if i want him to know i like him.. he might reject me. WHAT SHOULD I DO? HELP

2007-10-07 23:39:35 · 4 answers · asked by Gravity. 2 in Singles & Dating

I get a bit of grief from people about this subject ...... Parents are responsible for their children ..... and should not winge about having to pay for them .... Being responsible for creating a life they are duty bound to provide for them until the day they die .... that is what happens when you create a life ..... Children are for life !!!!!!

Dont you agree .... ?

2007-10-07 23:27:59 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family

I am not in favor of that situation but I could do nothing since she is of age and earning her own keep. The thing is I know she is the loser at the end. How can I convince them to tie the know?

2007-10-07 23:23:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband blurted out to me last night that he wants another child. I have always said that i didnt want another one. We have a daughter who is 7 and his son stays with us on weekends he is 10. Aparently he has been thinking about it for the last year or so but never had the courage to tell me till now, because he knows how i feel about it. I dont know whether i could have another one or whether im getting too old? Im 31 and me hubby is 29. I just dont know what to do hes got me thinking now and now im stuck?????

2007-10-07 23:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 2 daughters are now 21 and 19 years old. I have been divorced from the mother for many years and always supported them with child payments to there mum and some extra when needed and i kept in contact with them (i work over seas). Unfortunatly there mother died earlyer this year and i was there to help though her illness and when she died. My two daughters had got themselfs into money trobbles and i sorted that out for them. I paid for them to go on a holiday to Grease for 1 month so they could chill out after there mother died. I was also helping them out when they got back from holiday but now they have both quit there jobs and are always asking for money. I told them that they have to get back on there own feet and i was giving them a helping hand sorting out there old debts but now they have to suvive without my help. They are just saying bad things about me when i do not give in to there money demands. Am i doing right so they learn to find there own way or am i being to hard?

2007-10-07 23:13:01 · 31 answers · asked by stewart 873 3 in Family

I went through traumatic events that means i get tired easily, only can work part time, people always ask why i dont have a bofyriend but as a business graduate won't climb the ladder and have diminished earning capacity. i used to be an athlete and am attractive. would a guy want me given i am damaged goods. if not for this i would have a lot to offer, always get on well with guys, confident but can't compete fnancially so a guy may want me to earn as much as them. does this effect guys or would they love me anyway, given i didnt damage myself, i was on the recieving end of someone elses actions and recovered as much as a i can but still get tired...would a guy want a girl who is good looking but can't keep up financially? the boy i used to like is now a Senior executive...he probably cant comprehend part time or limited career. i like achieving but have limitations. would like guys opinions. if you didn't know, would you take me on? i only had good boyfriends pre-attack.

2007-10-07 23:12:30 · 1 answers · asked by whatsupnow 1 in Singles & Dating

He love me so much...what ever he do i can't appreciate it...i am so very upset of this situation...what can i do about this...i hope u will give us an answer..

2007-10-07 23:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

have any good ideas on a winter wedding?
i came up with white and gold or silver for theme colors...
i just need a little more guidance on some things....


tell me what you think....
any good ideas??

2007-10-07 22:59:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-07 22:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by justmebackagain 1 in Family

am not accepting my life at all its complicated ...i live in the middle east am 29.... my family r relgious and strict and i have brothers that they will kill me for any mistake ill do.. am not allowed to have fun or have boyfreind ....LIFE SUCKS am so open minded educated girl.... HEL[P ME PLZZ

2007-10-07 22:36:59 · 6 answers · asked by black cat 3 in Family

Ok so Ive been a victim in the past and dont want to be again. I am looking into installing a security system. So I have three children under the age of 5, and a husband that works nights sometimes. I constantly have visions of someone breaking in and killing my family members, I am paranoid to the maximum! So please, how do I defend my family? I already know to call 911 if I have a phone available, gather my family and try to escape or hide. But my idea is to grab my steel pole and swing as hard as I possibly can aiming at the head or stomach, I dont want to take any chances- I want to knock the person out! I dont have pepper spray, but I figure Lysol spray might work too. I have no idea what I would do if they had a gun on us. Please help ease my mind :) I dont feel safe. Thanks.

2007-10-07 22:29:06 · 17 answers · asked by SandLady 2 in Family

One of the bridesmaids that was going to be in our wedding decided to drop out for some ridiculous reason. My fiance doesn't want to ask one of his groomsmen to drop out and I don't think he should, but I don't want to ask anyone else to be in our wedding. The bridesmaid that dropped out was one of his friends, not mine.

I have the choice of asking a friend of mine that initially I wasn't even going to invite to the wedding. I have nothing against her, but we're not close.

OR

Asking my sister in law who I don't like. She's also nearing obesity and the bridesmaids dresses I picked are strapless, so she'll look offensive. (If I do use her, can I pick a different style that's more suited to a big woman (covered up) for her while allowing the other women to wear what they chose?)

OR

Just having an uneven number of groomsmen and bridesmaid.
This is my first choice, but my fiance seems a bit iffy about it and thinks that I should pick someone.

2007-10-07 22:26:25 · 23 answers · asked by some female 5 in Weddings

My girlfriend gets really angry with everyone when she is having her period and last time she had it she lost it with me and said that next month when she is having her period I will have to wear her used pads to feel what it is like!

I was like ewwwwwww about the whole thing but I did not tell her out of fear she would snap my head off. I am really scarred of getting an infection if do this. She said if I don't wear them next month she is going to dump me. What should I do? Is this normal behaviour from girls?

2007-10-07 22:17:21 · 30 answers · asked by Mr Nobody 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-07 22:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by rihannsu 2 in Singles & Dating

Assuming the woman is crazy about him and the man says he loves the woman but is just not into commitments, is there any hope for a happy ending or sorts?

2007-10-07 22:11:05 · 19 answers · asked by ••Tara•• 5 in Singles & Dating

In other words, have you changed (physically) a lot since those times?

2007-10-07 22:06:19 · 11 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3 in Friends

my girlfreind is staring to get on my nerves, she over reacts at every little thing. for example the other day i had 3 missed calls from her (i know thats not alot) and about 2 texts in about 30mins, the reason for this was that she saw my name on MSN and it no-longer said her name with flowers around it, so she apparently burst into tears before continously ringing me, i couldnt answer because i was driving.

as far as i can see this is a bit obsessive or is this normal?

2007-10-07 22:01:18 · 11 answers · asked by Kruger, Freddy Kruger 6 in Singles & Dating

if uve done it could u recommend me some good website or pshychic and if youve heard any idea how much do they charge?

2007-10-07 21:56:54 · 3 answers · asked by me 1 in Friends

I know this question prob sounds stupid but I really dont know all this!Whats bridesmaid, grooms men, maid of honour, grooms best man, flower girl, ring bearer etc? Do I need to involve all these people in my wedding ceremony? Who else do I need? Im very lost! A help would be sooo much appreciated. Thanks

2007-10-07 21:52:56 · 11 answers · asked by Helper 2 in Weddings

I broke up with my ex boyfriend about a month ago. I've just started seeing someone new, and I really like this new guy. He's really sweet, and he does things that my ex never did. He doesn't seem to mind the fact that I am one of those people who need constant attention. I can talk to him all day while he's at work on email, then turn around and talk to him for hours on the phone when he's at home and not get bored. But lately, I've started missing my ex, and I find myself wondering if I made a mistake. Sometimes I still wish we were together. I feel bad because I know this new guy really likes me and wants to be with me. I need some advice, and please don't be rude to me, I already feel like crap over the whole situation.

2007-10-07 21:30:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We (I) still have a mortgage around $95000 to pay off and there is more money going out than coming despite my best efforts to curtail spending. I allow myself $10 per week after doing a 45 hour week. Quite frankly I am ready to sell up and walk away.

2007-10-07 21:24:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as dumb as this is going to sound..last night i went to a party w/friends. Ihad a few drinks but not to where i was too drunk..i dont remember anything, ecept tiny lttle bits, i remember talking to my friends friend outside thats all , I woke up in the alley , i had paseed out, it was late , & my clothes were dirty, n my pants unzipped, my blouse looked thrown on, i went looking for the car we came in & realized my friends had left, i started crying and was super scared i didnt know what to do I didnt have my purse or cell, someone called the cops & next thing i know i had 3 cars pulling in front of me, they asked me questions & tried contacting my family, they kept advicing me i go the hospital b/c if i didnt drink that much then i shouldnt have passed out or not remember anything, so some1 couldve put something im my drink..i couldnt stop crying. i was so frieghtened & upset I told them idk yet i just wanted to go home. Today i felt so so sick i slept all day & threw up like 5 times

2007-10-07 21:16:00 · 8 answers · asked by ☼love♥ 4 in Friends

he says that there is no obsticale but illness of him make him stop to marry me cz he will die in sometime..he says me to marry someonle else n he ll b happy to c me happy n if he remain alive he will cm smday n kiss my kids...do he loves me???

2007-10-07 21:12:08 · 9 answers · asked by gudgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 21:07:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She was telling me about one of her friends and how she watches her grandkids and how much she loves it and how much my mil will love all this. Well, my mil said that the way things are now that she will be lucky to get to see her grandkids. How am I suppose to take this? Was this directed just towards me? We usually see his parents 1 a month or every other even though we live on the same street. It's not all my fault or my husbands. She hasn't ever called or invited us down to her house since we got married 2 years ago. I even ask my husband if he would like to invite them to dinner or whatever and he always says no. This isn't the first thing my mil has said to me. I think she blames me for my husband not ever calling or visiting but I leave that up to him.

Should my husband say anything to her about this? It really hurt my feelings. It's just after 4 years you think she would stop taking stabs at me.

2007-10-07 21:06:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family