Family & Relationships - 7 October 2007

He's always making little smart *** comments about me!!! He's all like "I love you dad" but I can tell he really doesn't mean it. I mean seriously what the hell did I do to deserve this. So one night I decided to get back at him and let him drink some wine at dinner...a LOT of wine. So when he passed out to sleep that night I snuck into his room and drew a BIG PINIS on his forehead and wrote "I LOVE BIG PINIS!!!!" HA! Then he went to school like that and he didn't even no! It was so funny he even got 3 detentions for it!!!! But then my wife got all mad at ME when he came home crying! Like I did something wrong??? I mean seriously he started it. Wot should I do to convince her??

2007-10-07 16:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by Bigferribunny 2 in Family

She called me in the middle of the night drunk and was crying over an exboyfriend of hers from 2 years ago. I really took this to be rude and dissrespectful. I called her the next day and said I think we shouldn't talk to each other anymore because she clearly has feelings still for her ex and has zero feelings for me. I said I was not her therapist or her girlfriend. I just wanted to be her boyfriend. I don't want to be on the backburner. In my opinion, if a girl likes you, she won't call you about her ex no matter what. She has been contacting me 9 mos. Its been 9 months and she still refuses to be my gfriend. Still no affectiontelling me she was not ready to be together and would just hurt me.I think its just because she is not over him. Did I do the right thing here? She hasn't called me since, just texted "Well I'm gonna miss you". I guess it doesn't bother her much. What would you do if the girl you liked was crying about her ex from two years ago? Would you stop talking to her?

2007-10-07 16:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just feeling sad for some reason. I feel like no one likes me!

2007-10-07 16:21:18 · 4 answers · asked by buriedalive 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-07 16:18:09 · 18 answers · asked by Nyne 1 in Singles & Dating

this is short simple, me and my girlfreind were making out. I was kissing her on the neck and she was really loving it. I look out of the corner of my eye, and she hed pulled her shirt down with her finger. I moved over to the exposed part of her chest, and then began kissing her there, she then said that was as far down as her shirt would go, kind of pushed me back. She then pulled her shirt up, and I began kissing her all over her chest. The question here is what do you guys make of this, we are both happy with the way this makeout session went, but I am slightly confused. I was just woundering if anyone had experienced something similar, or what point of a relationship this is?

2007-10-07 16:16:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is married in UK I'm in US ..... (talk / txt atleast 3 times a week)/// rendevous (twice) ....... all day "date" ... picked me up from airport 2 hours from his home .... drove me 1hour ..to my destination ... then took 3 hrs to get himself home( just for a bit of a snog ... and a cup of tea) that day .(oh waited 2 hrs for my delayed plane too)

2007-10-07 16:16:19 · 12 answers · asked by ffion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

To keep his ego and to keep his wife's respect.

2007-10-07 16:15:22 · 35 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I walked in on my step-son(16), step-daughter(22),her child(1.9), and some crazy lady that is the sister of our nieghbor whom they let stay in our garage. I imeadeatly smelled the odor of marijuana!!!!!!!!! My wife is under a GREAT DEAL of stress and want's to turn a blind eye on anything that go'es on with them. I know that they are her kids and that I have know real say in how they are raised(At least that is what DR.Phill would say to me.) But they are tearing MY WIFE to pieces.

2007-10-07 16:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated several times and I took him back, he'd leave me at home alone night after night while he went out and partied and each time I'd tell him that I couldn't take one more lonely night. He shouts up and down about how much he loves me and how he wants to stay with me but he's not willing to give up the streets completely for his family. He was good for about 2 and a half weeks mabey even three(a record) and last night he left at 12 and came back at three.That was the straw that broke the camels back , I know he's not going to change. I'm not happy, and the wounds from his repeated infidelity are still fresh and raw. He dosen't believe that I'm really done because I've taken him back so many times but now I'm SERIOUS and can't imagine staying with him- I don't have the money or the resourses to pack up and go but he does that's why I'm trying to get him to go. Loving him use to be so easy but now all I can do is put walls up so I don't get burned again - What now???

2007-10-07 16:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Chava 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What am i suppose to say

2007-10-07 16:04:16 · 8 answers · asked by terence11l 2 in Friends

I met this lady via email, she told me sge is terminally ill and asked me to manage her fortune. I want to know if she's being real or scamming me?

2007-10-07 16:02:09 · 5 answers · asked by blackgal925 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay…so a guy friend called me and asked if we could get a cup of coffee together. So, we met up and the entire time was magical. We have so much in common and we were laughing the whole time. Also, he paid for both of us and told me to get whatever I wanted. In addition, he hugged me, which he’d never done before. I felt such a strong connection with him, and left feeling so happy. Later he texted me and told me that he had a really good time and to keep in touch. He also said good night and put a smiley winking face. I replied back that I had a good time too, and we should keep in touch. Okay…so…Now what? So, should I call him or wait for him to call. I get the feeling that he likes me a lot, and I like him too, but I don’t want to chase him away by being too forward. I feel like things definitely have the potential to move to the next level. The trouble is that he has a much busier schedule than me, and I don’t know which days he’s available. Also, he has a car and I don’t. Does that change the rules for who calls who next?

2007-10-07 16:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by lovefool1050 3 in Singles & Dating

So I met this guy a on Friday on aol chat, and we went to a motel on the first date. I told him that i wasnt going to have sex with him, we were just going to drink and hangout and he said he wasnt looking for sex he just wanted to hang out too. Well, I got really drunk and we ended up having sex. Saturday, we did the same thing. Today, he didnt call me and i saw him online, and he was in chat rooms I IMed him and he wasnt really talking to me. I really like him but I think he just wants me as a sex buddy. Please dont think that I am a slut its just that Ive been lonely for 7 months, and I really like the affection he was showing me. I dont usually have sex with guys I meet online. Do you think I should stop seeing him? Is he using me? Have you ever been in a friendship like this ? And Finally how can I seperate my feelings, I hate the fact that I always end up getting my feelings involved and I really dont want to get hurt or used.

2007-10-07 15:59:22 · 28 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 23 yrs. I was a stay at home mom.When things went bad we decided to divorce.
My husband and I own a business since 1995. Our house was his families for 90 yrs. My husband contacted a lawyer be for he talked to me. When he came home, he told me I had to move. He also said that I have no rights when it comes to the business. I was a " Silent Partner". He claims that the only thing he has to do is pay my rent. It's been 8 mo. We still haven't had a court date. His lawyer keeps changing the dates. He has given me a few bucks here and there.
I suffer from bi-polar. I can't afford the meds. Now I am at the bottom of the biggest hole ever. Some days I can't even get out of bed. Then there are the days I wish I was dead. He keeps telling me to get a job. I've explained to him that I can't funtion enough to hold down a job.
Doesn't he owe me more than that. I worked 23 yrs, 24/7. We had four kids together. I did everything for him. I need help in so many ways.

2007-10-07 15:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by dvanert38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 15:58:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We were dating for over a year when he had to leave the country - he had to go back home to be with his family (his dad died). A few months later, and we're still arguing because he can't call me (he can't get phone cards there, and hasn't found a way to be able to call) and he doesn't email me (he's not an email person, though he has a computer) - he expects me to call all the time. He leaves for weekends without telling me, leaving me wondering where he is. I've always been sure that he loves me, we've talked about marriage, he says he'd never cheat on me. I haven't talked to him for five days, and I haven't gotten an email either. I'm under a lot of stress at school right now - a LOT - and he knows this, and I've begged him to email me more, so that I know I can count on him to be there for me. He swore he would. I don't know what to do, I love him, but it's driving me crazy! I admitted I'm insecure and I need him to reassure me, all he needs to do is email me, and he won't.

2007-10-07 15:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by jessie99 1 in Singles & Dating

I know it may sound stupid, but what is the difference between a guy calling you hot or sexy, and a guy calling you beautiful? If a guy uses this line, is he just trying to see how far he can get you to go off of flattery, or does it mean he likes you? What does it mean?

2007-10-07 15:50:56 · 18 answers · asked by Just my luck..... 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you run out and scream as loud has can be? Or would you be the type to confront them right on the spot.. naked and all?
Hmmmm? What would you do if it was you?

2007-10-07 15:50:46 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy on and off for three years during that time I realized we both matured a lot. he has been really instrumental and motivual force in helping me start my business and for that he will always be in my heart. We only had sex once three years ago. We both share a really good friend between us. She tells me that his problem is that he gets bored sexually HOW DO I BLOW THIS MAN MIND I AM WILLING T DO ANYTHING AND HOW DO I KEEP BLOWING HIS MIND. He is a really good guy and would make an excellent husband one day. Keep in mind the first time we had sex was three years ago and it was great and that was the last time. Recently we have really reconnected. He is someone I can be quiet with that is so important and there's no ackwardness. Were both in our thirtys.He is not bored with me he just gets bored generally with sex.

2007-10-07 15:50:27 · 13 answers · asked by Me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can improve rapport building with my team members (work place)?
can you provide me with tips for improving interpersonal skills socially.

2007-10-07 15:50:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm depressed, alone, and trying to convince my roommate's cat to go get me a beer from the fridge...pretty sad, huh?

alone cuz my boyfriend did something despicable and i can't bring myself ot talk to him...depressed b/c i lost a friend in the war...

life..sucks when it all piles on you at once.

2007-10-07 15:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by Melanie 5 in Friends

Anyone know what the difference would be if any with a couple with an age difference such as this??

2007-10-07 15:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3 in Singles & Dating

What is it called when someone chases you around trying to take off all your closing or holding you and trying to do that, im trying to prove something to my friend about this, what is it called? when someone does that?

2007-10-07 15:47:55 · 17 answers · asked by joey p 1 in Singles & Dating

8 years ago I lost my best friend, my neighbour I grow up with and gf into a car accident... and her family and our friends thought it was my fault for what happen... I also felt highly depress and guilt and kept apologizing to everyone and not even my own sibling was going to forgive me... but I never meant to cause any harm... it really was an accident... I come from a trip.. I hadn’t seen her in two weeks and I missed her soo bad so I went to surprise her at her work.... with gifts... a heart necklace with our pictures inside... I saw one of her co worker at the mall on my way to see my gf and she asked me to come along cause I had a car and she was very seductive with me and start to touching me and I respectfully explained to her how important my gf is to me but she kept pushing herself on me... I was a young boy but I still stood up for what I thought was right... and when I pull the car to the parking lot some how I ended up on top of her on the back seat and it was an intense hot sex that we both just give yourself in and I know I should have stop but I didn’t and when I saw my gf coming toward my car I asked the other girl to hide in the back seat and my gf was all happy see me and very tired from work. So we kept driving with my literally shaking in fear of what will happen next and we were listing to radio and my gf was singing a long nothing compares to you by O'Connor and when the song ended she heard the other girl who was hiding behind her seat and saw her in the side mirror and she screamed and was soo scared and she also saw she was half dress and she asked me if I just had sex with her she seem really disappointed... I said no baby no I didn’t she turn nuts and she said she need to get away from me and she opened her door and stepped out from the car while I was driving in the middle of express way and after that day my world turn black... I have been charge for trying commit suicide because I was depress and I wanted to take my life for her just like she did for me and after all these yrs I try to reborn myself and have a normal life nothing seems to help me forget her... every girl I see... every song I hear.. everything still reminds me of her and the last look she gave me... How do let go of her.. I have tried plenty of counseling it just not helping... these Dr. doesn’t understand me or believe I was in love with her

2007-10-07 15:47:12 · 1 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-07 15:45:31 · 4 answers · asked by Ramendran R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what everyone else says about us? (Which is what made him so upset in the first place. ) Please help me to resolve this situation while in a marching band setting?

2007-10-07 15:44:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's been seeing this medical student. She'll graduate in a few months and move away. Should I confront him still? Or just let it go till she leaves him? I am afraid if i confront him, he'll get mad and act like nothing is going on between them. I asked him about it before, and he said there was nothing, but i know he's still seeing her.

2007-10-07 15:44:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 15:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by EDITA T 1 in Weddings

i find i can only be friends with certin people that i wouldnt really pick to be my friends but when i try to make friends with the people i want to be friends with i dont really become there friends like this one girl i went to her house but she doesnt bother with me after that.

2007-10-07 15:41:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I fell totally in love with this guy, and we started dating. Problem was? He lived two hours away. We were dating for two months, and got to see each other a couple times, and we were both in love, but then he said he couldn't do it anymore. He was going to be moving down close to me in a couple months, but he said he couldn't do it anymore, the whole "not seeing me" thing. So he broke up with me. And now, I really love him still, and I want him back, and he acts like he still loves me, but he doesn't say it outright. What do I do? PLEASE help me.

2007-10-07 15:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Singles & Dating