Okay…so a guy friend called me and asked if we could get a cup of coffee together. So, we met up and the entire time was magical. We have so much in common and we were laughing the whole time. Also, he paid for both of us and told me to get whatever I wanted. In addition, he hugged me, which he’d never done before. I felt such a strong connection with him, and left feeling so happy. Later he texted me and told me that he had a really good time and to keep in touch. He also said good night and put a smiley winking face. I replied back that I had a good time too, and we should keep in touch. Okay…so…Now what? So, should I call him or wait for him to call. I get the feeling that he likes me a lot, and I like him too, but I don’t want to chase him away by being too forward. I feel like things definitely have the potential to move to the next level. The trouble is that he has a much busier schedule than me, and I don’t know which days he’s available. Also, he has a car and I don’t. Does that change the rules for who calls who next?
2007-10-07 16:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by lovefool1050 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would call him. Forget about the texts. You stated he has a busier schedule than you, so maybe he hasn't been able to contact you because of that simple reason. I would call and just let him know you had a great time last time you met and when he has the time you would like to go out with him once again. I would not tell him right off the bat that how much you like him, you should definitely let nature take it course or let time decide where things are going. If the first date was that great, imagine how much better the other dates are going to be? Well, hope this helps and good luck.
2007-10-07 16:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by rrojo81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys definitely make a connection on your first day out together, it stands to reason that you like each other and would like to get a repeat performance.You indicated that things definitely have the potential to move on to the next level.Your fear is that you might appear too forward.is not borne out by the enthusiasm you both share.Call him and try to set up another get together, co-ordinate your schedules, and clarify who picks up whom since he has the car. You guys have the first ingredient to making a success of your relationship----you like each other and had a lot of fun as a couple. Now you both need to take the next step.
2007-10-07 16:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would call him and ask him when he is available and if he would wanna go out again. He obviously likes you, no doubt. So your not gonna scare him away by being too forward. Go for it!
2007-10-07 16:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just message him telling him you had a great time and to let him know when your free for dinner...its easy just do it!
2007-10-07 16:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Me, myself and I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him, because that would show him that you care about him, and you like him... =]
good luck !
2007-10-07 16:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by forever... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why won't you try to ask him informally if you can talk on the phone? the guy would be jilted to hear your voice...
2007-10-07 16:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by rainydays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋