Family & Relationships - 7 October 2007

The age I am talking about is from 21-26. Due to him pursuing higher degree in research medicine, he feels not necessary to move out yet, so he lives with his parents.

Would you find it a major issue or turn off that he still lives with the parents?

2007-10-07 20:57:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime the girl got something sexy looking, the woman, in her 50's would yell out,"Girl you wear this, and you're husband will never leave you. The older guest thought it was funny, but some of the younger, less experienced girls was embarassed by her outbursts. The older woman, who happens to be bisexual, just couldn't seem to restrain herself. By the way, she lost her own husband in death. What are your thoughts?

2007-10-07 20:57:20 · 11 answers · asked by Robert L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she begged us to moved in with her bec. she was hospitalized but now it's been 4 years and she changes alot from nice to very mean in law...i agreed to move with her for i thought we will be moving out once she gets better!!!!don't know what to think...and do???he is being manipulated by "momma!"

2007-10-07 20:53:28 · 17 answers · asked by honeybabe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I have come to realize that know matter how great of a person you are, all guys look outside a girl. Her breast, her waist, why does that have to be all that matters? You have to be little, I mean even the Christian guys are like that, she has to look nice. Why I don't get it? I am a big girl, I am not ugly though I have had many people tell me I am not, but because I am a "hefty" women I am not "worthy" of dating. I have a really good personality. Please when you answer don't say well if you lost some weight... because I want someone to love me for me... Not on how I look outside. Please help I just don't get it.

2007-10-07 20:50:29 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Bean 1 in Singles & Dating

still......... i am not able to manage my self......................

my lover soons to be marry with another girl.

i want to cry for my whole life..........................................

2007-10-07 20:47:54 · 6 answers · asked by raameen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 20:36:58 · 16 answers · asked by dumaguetejoe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently found a picture of my newlywed wife and her ex-boyfriend laying together in an embrace and kissing. What should i do? Should I expect her to get rid of it, or should i bring it up at all?

2007-10-07 20:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by Casey M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 20:18:09 · 1 answers · asked by kenny 6 in Marriage & Divorce

she wants my husband to marry the same race as hers... in short no other ethnicity....

2007-10-07 20:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by honeybabe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont mean for a legal separation but a separation which might be the equivalent of a divorce but without having to appear in front of a court for this.

2007-10-07 20:01:54 · 5 answers · asked by Ada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 19:59:03 · 1 answers · asked by Jo 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to confront a little bratt who meddled in my business, i know what i need to say to her, i need to tell her it was wrong and get her to admit what she did was wrong, and i need her to be sorry for what she has done, but she has to admit it on her own i cant make her say sorry to me or the other party involved in this, she sticks her darn nose into places it dont belong, i know she did what she did out of love and maybe some idle curiousity, but darn it the kid is a little scheamer, how will i ever be able to trust her again? not to butt into my busineess? and just how do i disapline her for this one?

2007-10-07 19:58:44 · 5 answers · asked by ♥musiclover♥ 4 in Family

Hi as i said this girl kissed my bf when he was drunk just 3 days ago, I found out from a friend of mine the day after and i got mad. I didn't wait for him to tell me i just phoned and started to call him stuff,we met but i told him to split up.. He admitted it but he said it ment nothing and he is terribly sorry..right now he's feeling ill and stuff and he's not going out.

Now after reading some other similar questions i told him that im ready to forgive him because i love him too much and i know he does too though he said to give him a bit of time to sort his atitude out. I don't know what to do realy, the image of him kissing another girl is killing me but i don't want to lose him coz of a stupid kiss..

Can someone help me?

2007-10-07 19:54:23 · 18 answers · asked by ozzy_ozbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 21 and my parents treat me like im a baby, I live at home because I have to find a good job to move out so I can pay for school, My dad dosnt let me go out and my mother is always in my buisness help

2007-10-07 19:45:59 · 19 answers · asked by sweetxoxo 2 in Family

I have been married for 9 years and been with my husband for 12 years. 4 years ago, I found out that the lady that my husband made go see and became friends: we went out, wash clothes together, etc. And come to find out this woman was carrying my husband's child. He didn't tell me until the child was at least 6 weeks old. I let this woman move into my house for a week because she got evicted from her apartment AND her husband wasn't around. My husband has taken food out our house to give to this woman, brought a lot stuff to make her life easy and etc. I don't have sex with him anymore and I do not have the same feelings for him anymore either. I have feelings for another man and I hated him at first but he is growing on me now. I am confuse and I don't know what to do or how to handle my feelings for this man. Or if I should give him a chance to see if he would treat me better than my husband. He did tell me the other day that he hasn't seen his girlfriend in months. What? HELP ME!!!

2007-10-07 19:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know how many registrars of marriage (Government marriage registration centre) situated in Ahemdabad, address and telephone nos. of all these marriage registration offices of Ahemdabad.
Whether marriage certificate issued by any of these offices is valid for submission to US Consulate for obtaining spouse US visa?

2007-10-07 19:41:20 · 2 answers · asked by ad d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my 30yr-old wife of 1 year is suspicious, she responds provocatively, doing things that she thinks *I* am doing--short of having an affair. Later, as little clues appear, I snoop a bit and find blatant dishonesties (usually online profile flirtations, which she claims are purely innocent friendships) and feel crushed at being subjected to a double standard. Trying to start couples counseling, sharing enlightening books, etc--still in process.

She says that having access to my PC will give her peace of mind, as she fears not being able to see what's going on in my online life. I resist for 2 reasons:

1) No amount of viewing my computer account will erase the fear that tech-savvy me has created secret alternate email/chat identities.
2) There are journals, archives, & emails of private soul-searching that were never meant for her to read. I fear reading these (going back as far as 15 years before our relationship) out of context would make her even more insecure and reactionary.

2007-10-07 19:40:50 · 17 answers · asked by Lord of Lemurs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this kid who is 16, boy. he is not going to school, refuses to go,even when you manage to get him into the vehicle to transport him to school. he hangs out lord knows where. he doesnt come home. he doesnt want to work. he smokes pot. he is a bully to siblings. and disrepectful to parents. he refuses to continue treatment like counseling. so you let the other parent deal with him because you tryed to do what you can and the other parent and the child say they think it bests for him to live there. OK.......he continues to behave in such manner, expect his anger esculates.........
POINT OR QUESTION......what would you do? how would you reach this kid? what else is out there? I know there is boot camp, but limited money....and most programs are volunteer status and he aint gunna volunteer, i already tried. any advice? i am worried about him and dont know what to do.

2007-10-07 19:40:47 · 6 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7 in Family

when they dont want anything to do with them anymore?
They could just say that they want to end the relationship or take a break or. . . whatever. This would be a kinder way, instead of saying things like, if I saw you on the street, I would ignore you!! How mean is that? Are they too chicken to end it in a decent way, or are they hoping that the woman will just figure they are a jerk and move on with her life? would that not be the easiest for the guy, then he wouldn't have to break her heart?

2007-10-07 19:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Dreamer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, yesterday, I had an argument with my gf over the phone. It was just a small argument. So she said "if you make me mad again, I will go out with this guy named Alex, he has been asking me out many times, I 'll say yes if you make me mad".

I was disappointed. I always thought love shows respect and not being spiteful. If you are mad, then we can work it out, no need to go out with another guy. How would you feel and what would you do?

2007-10-07 19:34:52 · 5 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Singles & Dating

im in love with my best friend and he doesnt feel the same i think that it s goin 2 be impossible to keep my feelings to myself. is it just better if we're not friends ne more??

2007-10-07 19:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by lovely28 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately Ive been hanging out with a new group of friends I met through school(college) and Im pretty sure this one girl and I have a connection. As a group we party go to bars and do all that good stuff, however Ive been giving this girl alot of attention and shes been responding with signs. It started out with us just having fun partying, dancing then it evolved to holding hands on one ocassion etc. When we talk to each other she always smiles at me, I smile back we make eye contact frequently and Im pretty sure we have a connection? I mean even this weekend(friday) her and another couple and I went to a sandwich place after the bar and when we were eating she was like "is this our first date?" laughingly...and Saturday while at the bar she told me she wanted to "talk" when we get back to the house. What does that suppose to mean? Is it time for me to make a move? Whats our connection mean?

2007-10-07 19:33:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know. I never had gf but I need someone who I can talk sometimes. She says she loves me. I don't know what to do. I do like her but I am kind of scary to love her. I have no plan to meet her or anything. is it illegal to love someone 15 online? Tell me what do u think

2007-10-07 19:21:52 · 17 answers · asked by Success 1 in Singles & Dating

My good friend is tall, slim and very good looking. She is a working mother, has kids and people have remarked that she doesn’t look married. She doesn’t even look her age. She gets admiring looks from other men, even women gives her stares.
She is a very good cook, whips us dishes for her family. She coaches her kids on their studies and is always there for them. She makes a lot of effort for her husband, ensures she looks good for him, and satisfies him sexually, being a moral support to him when he has problems. She is very protective of her husband and kids. She is kind, humble and prays everyday. She is very understanding and she doesn’t nag at her husband like many wives do. Is she too good to be true as I know many men wish they had a wife like her.
But yet, her husband was running after a married colleague who is so butt ugly that one would really puke if you had ever seen her face. Believe me, I have seen it.

Why is the wife not good enough for him? What did she lack?

2007-10-07 19:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by Rave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What turns other girls on the most? Are there any general truths/consistencies from one girl to the next?

What about you guys? Whats makes for the hottest sex for men?

2007-10-07 19:12:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 yrs and with him for 15 yrs and 4 yrs ago I found out that he was a drug addict, I have put up with years of mental abuse and even though he is at the bottom of the barrel and starting to get better I just do not feel the same about him anymore. I left him over a month ago and he just keeps asking if there is hope and I do not know how to break his heart easy. There is also more I have been seeing someone new that I really like alot and he is good to me, I can not tell my husband that because he would freak out. I have 3 boys also. If anyone has any suggestions or help for me please feel free to help, be honest to what you think I should do Please.

2007-10-07 19:10:03 · 24 answers · asked by kschall2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 19:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by lorelie s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-07 19:07:52 · 15 answers · asked by rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I married for what god only knows. I feel I did a mistake. I am a nice person atleast I think. My husband says he loves me, he is so cold in everything. when we talk, he does not know what else to talk, looking at that I feel sad and then I also say, 'ok then..' Sometimes he does funny things, that time I could just feel he is a friend . We fight a lot, if I say something out of anger, he will revert back as a threaten. But he says he loves me..I feel he wonders if I love. What shd I do? I need a change, its just 2 months of marriage and I am like this. What shd I do?????

2007-10-07 19:07:47 · 26 answers · asked by jenni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The club we're both in is a sort of program where mainstream students cultivate friendships with special-ed students. We are both general-ed students.

Last week, we had a party where we met the parents of our special-ed buddies. He came over and remarked on a lot of the things I did. Things like: "Nice creativity with the scissors." "You're doing way too much work, chill out." "I heard you speaking your Chinglish to his mom" (Chinese with sprays of English) We chatted a little about languages then, and he told me about his ethnic background. At one point, he set me on a task, and blew me a kiss, then said, "Just kidding." Every so often, he would glance at me and smile.

That was a week ago, and he hasn't done anything else since. What's with the mixed signals?

2007-10-07 19:04:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Singles & Dating