Family & Relationships - 9 October 2007

I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years.i was on the sick when i met her through depression.I wanted to change my life and start living again,so i started working for a voluntree group a few days a week.Soon it gave me the confidence to want to do other things,so i went back to college and started doing my gcse's again at the age of 27.I passed all these with flying colours and wanted more,so i took up a health and fitness course,i passed level 1-2 and now im doing my A levels...Im going also to be doing a coaching course soon,and thats where the problem starts.My girlfriend doesn't want me to become a coach as she says it will take me away from her,and are home.She says she wants someone who will come home to her at the end of the day and not be away doing stuff for days and nights at a time....Im really torn,i love my girlfriend very much,but also want a career as well.Ive had a really bad start in life and i feel like this is my chance to make it. please help.

2007-10-09 23:58:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel a little bored and my life is getting worse and worse

2007-10-09 23:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by suha o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is having an online debate about sex there are a few people involved i called it a mass debate now she s upset with me how can i make it better

2007-10-09 23:54:56 · 2 answers · asked by toon l 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and one of my best friends were out the other night with a group of people and having a good time dancing and stuff when this guy came over and started chattin to her shes has a boyfriend yet she still chatted away to him after there chat he said that all of the girls had to take turns dancing in the middle of the circle which we did but I wasnt intrested in him so daned elsewhere with other friends. After a bi the guy went away and we enjoyed the rest of the time. When we decided to leave we saw him and he started chatting again my friend was laughing away with him and then she went out the door and he tried talking to me, he said your nt a good dancer you just did this and I'm a dancer so I knw I can dance and he was like prove it to me on the pole downstairs which is just a sleazy and I wasnt in the mood when I saw my friend I said the guy was gettin lairy at me and she disagreed with me and we had an argument. Do you think im justified to say friends need to stick by each other?

2007-10-09 23:54:23 · 11 answers · asked by Rebeeca S 2 in Friends

Please someone help me out with this. I feel sorry after i hurt her. But she tries to explain me. But i dont understand. What should i do?

2007-10-09 23:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by Salman 1 in Singles & Dating

she is moaning at me for not cleaning when im clean and hardly ever in the house.
for not spending time with the housemates when all they do is watch soaps and i dont like them.
For alot when i have done very little wrong, even the other housemates laugh and defend me.
She says this lot half laughing but it still annoys me.
oh yeh, we used to be an item!
why is she like this? its almost like its fun for her
how should i deal with it?

2007-10-09 23:41:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Say yes if your partner asked you to have a threesome with them and another?
If so, would you have 2 girls or 2 boys?
Why?

I did, i regret it, i'd never do it again. that feeling of my partner sleeping with someone else...the worry of how much he may enjoy it, and leave me for her....never again!

2007-10-09 23:24:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love him and after that he wrote that on his IM ID for me to see..he is shy and won't talk to me after I told him. He is from Taiwan. Does anyone know anything about Taiwanese guys?

2007-10-09 23:21:31 · 5 answers · asked by iloveanairforcesoldier 1 in Singles & Dating

1: did not turn up 2 meet them

2: done dirty stuff witg a boy

3: or shag a 15 yrs boy?

2007-10-09 23:14:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I done something whats really sick and its very wrong I did gay things oh my gosh how can i get over it I stop it in my late teens about 19 and now i'm 24. I never realise it was so sick at the time it was fun and that gosh i'm so a-shame of myself how dare I look at myself, I don't want to be like that I want kids and a wife and I want to work for the police all I want is my own family not being gay how can I get over this and how can I test my own sex cause I looked at boys and I don't find them sexy and I don't fine them good looking but with girls I do I'll think shes hot gosh how can I get over it .this woman told me lots of teens does it but its just not like me and I don't think i'm Bissexual because I don't feel like that about boys like i do with girls. I stop doing it about 4 years ago I don't know if cause i grown-up or what !

2007-10-09 23:09:44 · 27 answers · asked by diet_television_pop 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello, this is a long one but PLEAAASSSSE help if you can.

More than anything I want a big, white wedding, a dress, bridesmaids, hotel reception, flower centrepieces, wedding gifts etc. But my Mum and Dad are divorced and I CANNOT have them in the same room. I know a lot of people will say "just talk to them, they'll be civil for one day!" But they WON'T. My mum's husband threatened to kill my Dad as did my Mum's bro. My Dad has hated my Nan for as long as I can remember, and my Dad tried to stop them from seeing me as a child. Both families have punched each other, smashed each others windows and slashed each others tyres and my Dad even has a stab wound.

So I HAVE TO ELOPE, there is no other way. I can't invite one without the other, and so I shall have to elope just me and my partner. This is making me depressed for two reasons:

1. My partners parents wont get to see him get wed
2. I really want the wedding i've always dreamed of.

What can I do? It's hopeless

2007-10-09 23:08:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is this an ideal partner or what?

2007-10-09 23:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by criminal convictions 3 in Singles & Dating

my male friend is a bit of a windup and likes winding people up. He told my sis i had a crush on him and she told him in no way was i interested but he didnt listen

2007-10-09 22:59:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi there this is koiel, i m married having a son of 2 years. My husbands loves me a lot and i also care him, we had a love marriage. but now after 3 years i started feeling i have infatuation with another guy, he doesnt love me at all,, y he luves me, i m married, a mother....i dont know where should i go,,,what should i do??

2007-10-09 22:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i unknowingly ignored my friend thrice(i.e. i didn't respond to her) & now she is trying 2 ignore me.but i want 2 tell her that she is really special & all that happened was not intentional.
how do i express my feelings?????????????

2007-10-09 22:52:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I decided to wait for marriage to have sex, but i changed my mind and he didnt. I met another guy who wants to fool around. Should I just do it?

2007-10-09 22:42:49 · 28 answers · asked by Carrie J 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do bout my situation. I made friends with a guy (who has a gf) and works with my sis. He went to hug me and cause i was bit uncomfortable he told my sister that he thought he embarrassed me and that i had a crush on him. My sister dont want me to say anything to him and to be honest she doesnt know if he was joking or not but he is known as a windup merchant as he told my sis i was chatting him up the once. How do i let on im not interested as i am quite embarrased as i dont know what ive done to make him think this. I email him now and again but not every day and ive only asked him to lunch twice. All i can think is if ive acted nervous round him as i am round guys or something ive said

2007-10-09 22:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She is a friendly and nice girl. However, she is constantly borrowing my things, asking for lifts everywhere and generally making demands above and beyond the realm of a neighbour/friend! To add insult to injury I've been signed off work with stress and depression and I just want her to leave me alone! But because I've let it go on and on, how do I tackle this before I totally lose my temper and snap! Help!!!

2007-10-09 22:33:23 · 23 answers · asked by dollydagger 4 in Friends

...would she be considered a bad partner for a long-term relationship because she made her choice from which man was better in bed, rather from love?

2007-10-09 22:25:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 22:09:32 · 18 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Weddings

2007-10-09 22:09:27 · 7 answers · asked by criminal convictions 3 in Singles & Dating

For just under a year been chatting to this guy online, already knew him just not very well, only met briefly at uni.... got in contact via MSN around last xmas and we got talking regularly. He lives about 3 hrs away so not met up yet as he has a job thats quite full on and works all hours but he did say he wanted to and looked forward to it tho didnt say when.....our chat was quite flirtatious, and it got to where we were phoning a few times a week and lots of texts, started to see him as a genuine friend who really cared about, as we seem to get on really well and since about an even split who called or texted first would assume he felts same. Also found him v attractive frm pics etc and meant most of my flirtatious comments as he had said he did... Then on mon night he sent a txt saying he needed space for a bit and was saying this to all his friends, as hes changing jobs, buying a house etc and needed to get his head straight, hes def still single so am confused wht it means

2007-10-09 22:04:59 · 8 answers · asked by claire007 3 in Friends

I am a 35 year old physician. I have been sleeping with a 20 year old student nurse---who came on to me--not vice versa. now she tells me she is 6 to 7 weeks pregnant. I told her to get an abortion, but she wont. What type of child support would I have to pay? I live in Michigan. Someone told me they get 400 a month, but does it go on my salary? how can I convince this little tramp to just get an abortion and leave me alone? I am posting in several categories so I can get more answers--this is a ver real situation people-----Thanks

2007-10-09 22:02:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you felt your marriage was coming to an end would you try to save it somehow? By counseling or trying to work things out? My ex wife cheated on me. And I was more then willing to forgive her. But she decided the marriage was over. Without trying to even work our problems out. If anything I was trying to keep it together for her 2 kids that been through 2 divorces before me.

2007-10-09 21:59:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive got a guy friend who works with my sister and he told her cause when he went to hug me i was a bit awkward he said i fancied/had a crush on him. My sister told him no way was i interested but wouldnt believe her. How can i be his friend if hes thinking this ive only been friendly its not like ive been following him around or acting funny round him. I am nervous round guys so dont know whether its that

2007-10-09 21:46:56 · 7 answers · asked by Edwina 1 in Friends

2007-10-09 21:43:17 · 28 answers · asked by Beast from the East 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-09 21:41:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 21:38:48 · 1 answers · asked by HANDYMAN99_69 1 in Singles & Dating

you are 16-17...you proposed,6 months ago, a girl who stays near your house....you travelled and even now travel with her to school(by school bus)....but when she heard your proposal she got badly angry and yelled at you.
Will you still have feelings for her???

2007-10-09 21:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would like any ideas for something I can do for my wife. I'm in the doghouse so any of the normal marital physical fun and games are out of the question. Any ideas?

2007-10-09 21:32:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce