Family & Relationships - 9 October 2007

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2007-10-09 16:54:34 · 15 answers · asked by zoma_ e 1 in Singles & Dating

today was bad, I thought I had completely driven him away and he said that earliar but tonight he texts me I explain why I have been crazy (family issues) apologize and he says thats ok but right now we need space and to give it time. He says he still really cares about me. Arguing combined with school work for both of us is stressful. I know he has no one else. I want to give him time but I love him...is space ever a good thing?

2007-10-09 16:52:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 16:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by L 3 in Singles & Dating

okay. my friend is closer to my older sister's age, but still in my grade. recently i took this friend to the beach and my older sister wasnt happy because she "hated" her. my sister knows VERY WELL that i HATE it when my friends become friends with her because i am afraid that they will like her more. but anyways, my sister is acting like im a little baby when me, her, and my friend are together and she makes me feel bad about myself. i cant talk to my sister because she will call my a cry baby and my parents think im over reacting. and now that my sister is telling my friend secrets that she wont even tell me, im getting afraid of my friend liking my sister more. what should i do???



my sister like texts her and stuff. i dont text her a lot because i dont really like calling or texting.

2007-10-09 16:43:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think this is beautiful, you know, the adrenaline, the unspected experience (very different to first date sex, cause you have planned it), all this the explosion of confusing feelings, the expectations of an unplanned moment. Taking protection, obviously. I just have had this experience 4 times. Unvelievable...

2007-10-09 16:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband cheated on me before we got married (got married 6 months ago), recently i discovered he still had older pictures of his ex-wife (thats who he cheated with) posing for him in bikinis, he said he didnt know that he still had them, but but they were in his emails. today he told me to use our military card to buy something and claims my name is on the account, so i pick things and when i go to customer service they said she is still on there, not me. i felt like an idiot (besides i couldnt buy anything since i am not on the account) when is it enough? he always says..i didnt know, but i have been married before and managed to make a clean cut without dragging stuff along. and all this after he cheated. shouldnt he make sure there is nothing that brings back the memories for me?

2007-10-09 16:37:19 · 9 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have forgiven him and her but it's the forgetting part that I'm having an issue with but I love him alot and i feel what we have is real and he just messed up. It still clouds my mind sometimes I don't know what to do.

2007-10-09 16:36:54 · 9 answers · asked by Simply D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband said something very mean. He said he didn't mean it but,I'm really angry and hurt. Our 22 month old was crying after him, when he was trying to get some work done. Sometimes children could be annoying especially at that age, but he said "The 2nd one I did not really want, I have no patience." He's trying to apologize, and tell me he did not really mean it but I'm really hurt. We also have a 5 yr old. He's
very loving and affectionate with the boys but, when they act up he loses his patience very easily.He never hits them, but gets really flustered. Right now I hate him for saying that, but he's a good husband and dad in every other way. Should I forgive him?

2007-10-09 16:34:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dad left because mom and he argued but didn't want to take me away but visit me evryday until I went to bed. I had to move out because my mom has had an affair on my dad and moved him in. My dad did not know about this until recently. My dad still loves her very much, I want him to find another woman who will not lie and cheat on him. What makes it worst so my dad cant go back because of a restraining order on him. He is a police officer and she said he beat her and raped her. And then told other people it never happened. It's just me and my daddy now. he scared because he is alone raising me but trying his best. He still loves her and has found God and his smile. Should he try to win her love back or move on. I can't see dad seeing another woman but i don't like him being alone and i don't want to be either

2007-10-09 16:32:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this boy but he dosen't know that i like hem what should i do.

2007-10-09 16:31:36 · 5 answers · asked by eloy matar 1 in Singles & Dating

i have known her for few years we r best freinds but i have only kissed her never knew how to ask her out for real any advise?ps she means the world to me as a freind...but i want to be more

2007-10-09 16:30:35 · 11 answers · asked by luvlife 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend married a man who had purchased a home 10 yrs prior to their marrying with his first wife (1993). In 1998 he took his wife (ex) off the original note and deed. In 2003, when he and my friend were already married, they refinanced the home and she (my friend) was the co-borrower. She is listed on the note and listed on the Deed of Trust. However, no new Deed was issued. Now they are getting a divorce, and her lawyer is telling her she does not own interest in the home. However, the mortgage company is telling her that when they refinanced the original Deed becomes Void and that she is indeed an owner of the home. She informed her lawyer and the attorney still says no. This is in the state of Texas, Community Property. I read on a website that anything you purchase once married is community property. Wouldn't refinancing a home, be considered a purchase? Also, should the title company have filed a new Deed with her listed and not done it. Please Help.

2007-10-09 16:30:19 · 7 answers · asked by Birdlegs 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think that it is bad for a woman to just have a "friend with benefits"? I know it is a great situation for a man, but does the woman usually get too attached and finally end in heartbreak? Do you think this is a possible relationship from womans perspective?

2007-10-09 16:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Singles & Dating

well my husband cheated on me about 3 weeks ago and he promised not to do it again and all. so we started counseling and trying to work it out but in the mean time I meet this really great guy at work and I think I like him but not taking to an affair level but loves his conversations and all. I feel kinda weird about the situation and don't know what is going on. Am I cheating?

2007-10-09 16:28:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does my Father have to wear a tuxedo when he walks me down the isle or could he wear a nice black suit? I have no idea how this is supposed to be done. Thanks in advance guys!
God Bless!

2007-10-09 16:28:12 · 13 answers · asked by heavnzangel850 2 in Weddings

it was a foggy night and she wrecked going home from seeing me and not many people know this besides my parents that i spend every night sleeping my truck beside her grave before it gets dark to sunrise and sometimes all day because im thinking if there is any chance in her looking down on me that she still knows that i care and my parents keep telling me that if she was looking down she would raither me go on with my life but im even more scared if i quit then she will think i quit caring what should i do?

2007-10-09 16:25:09 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-09 16:23:45 · 30 answers · asked by reginachick22 6 in Weddings

my parents divorced when i was 5 and then i had something relly bad happen on my last vacation im only 13 what do i do

2007-10-09 16:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by Justine K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-09 16:21:25 · 9 answers · asked by ☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I inform my boyfriend of over a year that I cant stand his mother?
I dont agree with her opinions or her views and I feel like I'm stuck and unable to move forward in this relationship knowing that I would really like to avoid having her as an in-law. If she was a really distant in-law I'd be ok, but I really dont think my boyfriend's future involves having his mother being distant.

I have tried to mention this to him, and he's expressed the same fusteration with her that I have, but is he just saying this for now and then he'll tuck tail and run back to mommy later?

How do I make this kind of relationship work?

2007-10-09 16:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hello again, My ex wife is going to respond to my request for custody of my son. She is very mad, by the way. Her grandmother and grandfather are going to financially help her. Her sister tells me that they are going to ask the judge that I pay for her court cost and attorney fee's...Can she really request that ? what if they paid $10,000.00 for a lawyer ..they cant pass that on to me right ? I think she is trying to "intimidate" me.

2007-10-09 16:05:30 · 8 answers · asked by Doctor Redcrow MD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay well there is this troublemaker in my class at school who sits right behind me. Today he decided to pick on this other guy, who was kind of my friend. He and his friend started saying all this crap about the other guy,and making fun of him, not knowing that he was listening to just about every word they said. Well the guy behind me is a real comedian so natrully I just started laughing at his jokes throughout the whole class period. When the period was over, the guy they were making fun of was really pissed at all 3 of us, so eventually he told the teacher about what happened. I caught up with my classmate in the hallway, but she seemed a little angry at me too. I felt a little bad because I didn't intentially mean to make fun of the guy at all, but I was just laughing at the jokes because they were just well..funny. So now I have three problems: Will I get in trouble with the teacher? Will that guy ever speak to me again? And will my friend forgive me? Serious answers only guys!

2007-10-09 16:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know that my boyfriend is going to propose to me soon because I picked out the ring and everything & our 3 year anniversary is right around the corner. I want to know how I can get him to be excited about proposing to me? He thinks he can just put the ring in my hand and say "let's get hitched" pretty much. He isn't very romantic. Im afraid my "big" proposal day isn't going to be so big and memorable. Any ideas or suggestions...?

2007-10-09 16:03:56 · 20 answers · asked by jojobeans185 1 in Weddings

Look at all the pictures on my photos if you plan on posting your opinion please and thank you. Some say i am some say im dead sexy (mostly people who see me in person, its a lot better camara hates me) and i still got made fun on in school...

http://www.myspace.com/_twist3d_

2007-10-09 16:01:19 · 9 answers · asked by Katherine S 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks

2007-10-09 16:01:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cuz im really really nervous in front of them
im so nervous that i barely ever talk to them

2007-10-09 15:56:41 · 15 answers · asked by captainwinters1944 2 in Singles & Dating

She's my close friend and she is depressed so deeply that she gave up plans to go to sixflags with me and other friends. Her ex broke up with up with her and she cant get him out of her mine. She wants to deny him in making out but she rather not do it now. She doesn't care any more but I know she's lying.

2007-10-09 15:54:45 · 1 answers · asked by Debo H 1 in Friends

2007-10-09 15:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by A D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my mid 50's, single and took a break from dating a year ago.
I just felt like I had so much going on in my life, I had no room or nothing to give to another person.
Trying to deal with family issues, work issues, financial difficulties, bouts of depression, natural menopause, a bad back, some nerve damage. See what I mean?
Hey, it's helloo getting old :)
I met a man a year ago through a mutual friend, I don't think I was being set up because I had already made up my mind to take a break from dating, which I have done in the past. I've only seen him maybe about 6 times within the last year.
He let me know he liked me and wanted to go out, but I told him nothing personal, I was on a dating break. I have told him this every time we saw each other through mutual friends.
Last week, I saw him with our mutual friend and told him again, I'm on down time for me, nothing personal. This time he said, well maybe that's just what you do need.
Once I got home & thought about it..

2007-10-09 15:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13, in the 7th grade, and in love with a girl for the right reasons (shes nice, cute, ect...). Problem is, that I have absolutly NO chance. This girl has about 5 different guys after her, but only because shes hot. Most of my friends think I only like her because she has big boobs (which isn't the reason why I love her). I'm nervous to ask her out or have my friends. Even if my friend asks her out for me, I wont be able to show my face around her (shy/nervous). Nervous about her saying no, that she may thing I'm wierd, and that I'm insane. Again, NO CHANCE. What should I do? She is in 4 of my classes which makes it harder, but good thing is I'm alittle older than she is (people in my school think if someone is even a day older, your screwed up).

2007-10-09 15:39:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating