Do you think that it is bad for a woman to just have a "friend with benefits"? I know it is a great situation for a man, but does the woman usually get too attached and finally end in heartbreak? Do you think this is a possible relationship from womans perspective?
2007-10-09 16:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if thats what u want its a good thing.. if ur lookin for more it wont happen...
2007-10-09 16:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think it can be both...
yes its bad because like other's have mentioned us women get easily attached...
No it could be a good thing too if you two are like really good friends first. Care for each other and see each other and talk often. Also if you both know coming into the relationship that its exactly that. Sometimes you can learn and explore the greatest parts about sex with your best friend that you can come right out and make your next relationship a very sexy one!
Good luck~
Its not that big of a deal.....lots of people do that....male and female.... males admit it and want to ...so they can boost their ego....women are more discreet about it.
2007-10-09 17:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by good_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated this guy for a few months about a year ago and even though it ended... shortly after that we definately became friends with benefits. At first I was fine with it because I was into it as much as he was... but now I am seriously falling for him and he just started seeing another girl. So apparently I did get too attached... I'm in such a tough position now because I truly want to be with him but I don't think I'll ever be able to. So that's just my sad example lol
2007-10-09 16:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits=bad.
First off, you are worth more then that. Every woman is worth more then that. Even if you are just horny or something, its a sleazy act. And I think it's disgusting how it has become so widely accepted. Think of it this way.. its kind of like having a prostitute that you don't pay. The individual you are so called benefiting with, isn't looking for a serious relationship, so what makes you think that they aren't havin other friends with benefits, and if they are, you have no say in the matter because your just "friends" so your technically sleeping with everyone that they are sleeping with.. And yes a girl with develope feelings because the act of sex, is sharing your body, its your body dude! and subconciously a woman wants someone to love her and whatnot.. so.. Im confused.. lol
point being.. in my opinion friends with benefits are bad.
2007-10-09 16:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by calimija_619 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is possible if you don't have any feelings for that person and you are just looking for fun and nothing else. If you are in any way looking for a boyfriend or a best bud ...don't do it, because you will have the "friends with benefits" title and thats all. Women are more sensitive about sex than guys are and it makes us look at the guy differently and sometimes you can't help falling for that person. Just be careful whatever you do!!
2007-10-09 16:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Misty P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very bad. it robs you of what could have been something more special. something that you deserve. women deserve more than that. and women, being very emotional more than men, tend to fall for the guy they have sex with...it will only end in heatbreak. and tell me, do you think the guy will hold the girl with high regard and respect if she allows herself to be treated that lightly? no. i dont think so. so to those out there reading this, if you want casual sex, go to a man-whore. no strings attached. you wont fall for him...plus, you'll get STD for free! the point is, stick to your boyfriend or your husband. that is what a proper and respectable woman must do.
2007-10-09 16:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by aphid_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are compassionate.. thats why we get attached. and the whole "friends w/ benifits" well its all pretty degrading. your basically saying "let's make out, but you dont have to commit to me, go ahead and kiss some other girl b/c im rly not important enough to be your one and only" dont you think you deserve a man better than one who gets a lil action and then moves on to the next chick. i mean a lil fun i understand but still.. every girl who isnt a wh*re deserves a prince charming, not a playmate.
2007-10-09 16:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Seanyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is bad. us girls get nothing out of it. we end up falling hard and fast. Then the guy gets a gf and the freind with benefits jsut ends up coming in second. plus most of the time the guy only wants sex and will never do anything else with his fwb.
2007-10-09 16:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mel Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if she just wants casual sex with no commitment. He will eventually find someone to commit to and either keep the friend on the side or dump her for his true love.
My friend had one for 30 years when he was in town but he had a wife, children, grandchildren somewhere else. She had one through several relationships and marriages hers and his.
2007-10-09 16:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've had a "Friend with Benefits" and I loved it! It worked really well cos we got along great, really were friends (not just f*ck buddies) and we both understood that it would never be a girlfriend/boyfriend thing. It's good cos when you're horny you can f*ck and then go out for pizza and just be friends.
2007-10-09 16:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benifits is never a good idea. Even for the guy, but ususally more so for the girl.
You maybe in it for just sex at first but sexual feelings grow into romantic feelings and your just gunna end up getting hurt.
Believe me, ive had it happen to me!
2007-10-09 16:32:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋