How did you know he/she was "The One"?

Question

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Answer 1

All I needed was to hear his voice. As soon as I did, I fell in love.
And with every moment spent in his presence, every spoken word I hear from him, every time he says he loves me, that night is repeated; I fall in love all over again.

Answer 2

My husband and I actually met on the internet, way back before that was the popular thing to do.
There was an ocean and 4,000 miles between us. We talked to each other everyday whether by online chatting, telephone or snail mail. After 1 year had passed, he announced one day that he had bought a plane ticket to come meet me.
So, he came for a visit. It lasted 12 days. In those 12 days, I knew he was "The One".
We had the same sense of humor, laughed at the same jokes, we even finished each other's sentences. The strangest thing of all was that there were many times when both of us would randomly start singing a song...and it was the same song!
We had the same tastes in music, enjoyed a lot of the same hobbies, felt the same about a lot of issues, etc. And we just had this incredible connection. If I am ever sad or unhappy, I can count on him to have me smiling and laughing within minutes.
When it was time for him to go home, it was the worst feeling of my life. I didn't think I could stand to be away from him.
Obviously he felt the same.
That was when he asked me to come back with him and he proposed marriage. I went home, sold all of my belongings except one suitcase with some clothes and a few sentimental items and I flew home with him.
We got married 5 months later and it has been almost 10 years and 2 children since then.
I know that I am going to be with him forever. There really is no question in my mind.

Answer 3

That person (guy/women) which you share many moments and time with. It could be hard to make sure that person is the right one. But you have to keep in mind when the right one comes along you will feel a over barrier emotion. You will feel like you can a complication anything. Like you can go past the stars and go for a bigger and bright future. But you may not know that the person your with is the one right off the bat. You have to be with them for around one year to get to know them really good. Some times it may take longer don't get me wrong it takes time to make sure and really be sure about something like if that person is "The One".
I hope I have help you in any way even if I helped just alittle.
Have a good day.

Answer 4

I always liked my husband from the day I met him. I decided he was the one when he asked me to marry him and I basically had to think about it for a week before I said yes. Typical of my personality. I decided "What if I said no and we broke up and went our separate ways? How would I feel if I ran into him in ten years and saw him married to someone else?" The answer was I would feel horrible like I missed out on an important part of my life. So long story short I said yes, we where engaged a year and a half and have now been married almost seven years. I still think I made the right decision.

Answer 5

It is a feeling deep inside your soul, it is hard to put into words with out having the solid connection. Through thick and thin my soul mate has been my every breath, watching a perfect figure swell as you both become parents, twenty five years, several children later. Then life gives you stomach cancer, day or night sick or not he is there sitting with you telling your how wonderful life is that he is blessed to have you as part of his life. Together you beat it, never missing a wonderful setting sunset, the smell of flowers, and the wonderful peace of your grandchildrens laughter makes one realize that life is short and if you are blessed enough to have someone to share those moments with, no matter how long they may or may not last, take hold...and breath life in - remember that may there be such a one-ness that when one weeps...the other will taste salt. He is "The One" thank you, be blessed!

Answer 6

I had been in a long relationship (3 years). After tat I stayed single trying to figure out just what I wanted. Then a week after I told myself that if someone were to come into my life I would be open to it, Nathan walks up to me. From a completely different life. 6 boys, big catholic family, and so respectful. Nothing like what I was used to, but everything I was asking for. Him and his family showed me faith and love, and support. He loves me and shows by the look in his eyes, the way he says my name and how he holds me with full emotions and feelings. He is my husband now and the moment I realized that all my life, every thing I had been through was for this man, it was one time when we were slow dancing. I rested my forehead on his and we danced, soaked up all that we could feel for each other, no one else was there in our minds. I realized then that I wanted to marry him. And so our song is "The Day Before You" Rascal Flatts. Perfect description of our love.

Answer 7

I knew that my better half was "the one" when everywhere we went, or whenever we were apart, I was always wondering what he was up to. I knew that when I started practicing writing out my name with his last name and it looked normal, and the scariest is when he would finish my sentences and we weren't even married. I think it was definitely better that we started out slow & became friends first(instead of bf/gf & then engaged), then going out, then bf/gf, and then when he asked, it just seemed normal to say the big YES! I was still surprised and couldn't even squeal as he asked me in Church on Easter Sunday....that was 19 years ago....and yes, we are still happily married. Just don't take each other for granted, learn to "eat crow" and know it will never be a 50-50 anything, learn to talk and listen(not just hear) to what is being said in the conversation/fight. Don't forget to throw in a few nice surprises every once in awhile. When hubby turned 40 , he was really bumming out....I threw him a huge party..involved his boss , his old college buddies, relatives he hadn't seen in years and got him this drop-dead gorgeous belly dancer. My daughter & I arranged other entertainment including step dancing & a DJ with the whole event catered. He still talks about his special party! Guard Dog

Answer 8

You just know.... We met in Jr. High and then became closer in high school. He is the first boy - no, the first PERSON - I had ever felt comfortable being myself around. I loved feeling free to be stupid and weird and just my silly self and him loving it. Eventually he asked me out on our orchestra's New York trip in front of the hotel we were staying at. It was so romantic, he is the only boy I've ever been with and I'm the only girl he's ever been with. We've been together almost 4 years now and we couldn't be any happier. We're not married yet but its definately in the future!

Answer 9

Hi Regina! I'm sure you'll get a lot of "I just knew!" kind of answers, because that's the best I can do to explain it :) He was so familiar to me even though we had never met. I felt sick and thrilled all at the same time. I had dreams of him for weeks. I couldn't wait to see him again. He is thirty years older than me, and he was my college professor, so the chances of it happening were slim to nil. I offered him my phone number anyway after the semester ended. We went on a date on January 16th, 2001, and have only spent one night apart since I moved in with him that February. We married in Vegas, and have an amazing five year old son. I just knew!

Answer 10

When he E-mailed me and asked me how many children I wanted, and I joked and answered 10. I then asked how many he wanted, and he said 3-one with a German name and 2 with American names. After that, I pictured us living in Germany until we´re old and grey and sitting on a swing somewhere looking at the mountains.

Answer 11

Well of course I knew he loved me and all of that... But this one time I was cleaning up his living room and had brought a plant over (trying to spruce the place up a bit!) and the planter scratched up the wood furniture because I was moving it all over trying to decide the perfect place. It was really scratched up! Well my natural reaction was to feel really guilty because when I was a kid my parents would have gone ballistic over something like this. So I told him, and he just smiled and laughed and said "Every time I see those scratches Ill think of you!" It might sound stupid, but thats when I knew he was The One.