How do you go up to girls and talk to them and introduce yourself without looking like a complete jackass?

Question

cuz im really really nervous in front of them
im so nervous that i barely ever talk to them

Answer 1

being a jackass is a required side effect of growing into being properly sociable

first times ya ride a bicycle you usually fall a few times

Answer 2

Girls have different preferences. Maybe they just see you as kinda soft - like a friend, not a boyfriend. They may also like a bit of a daredevil sort of thing. Its obvious that a relationship with you would last longer than that with a thug. Do you really want to go out with a girl that chooses thugs? I don't know. That's just me. Can you try my question? Really need some answers. Cheers x

Answer 3

Hi,

You have to get in the right state of mind that only comes from being either at the top of your game or working toward the top of your game. If you don't feel so good about how you are doing in life at the moment, that will come across. Are there things you could be doing better? If so, do them better and your confidence will come across. For me, it's cleaning my house and exercising. And also balancing my household budget. It's different for everyone, and it depends on what you need to get done. But it's so true that you need to feel good about your self first.

Answer 4

Over the summer, I watched this show on VH1 called, "The Pick Up Artist" (cheesy, I know.) it was a reality show. This guy named Mystery was trying to teach some guys just like you how to approach a woman, and get her phone number. One guy (who won, actually) was so nervous about talking to women, he actually went into a club, and stood there alone. The whole term, "The Pick Up Artist" is NOT about getting women into bed with you. It is about valuing YOURSELF in all areas of your life, not just about meeting women. Mystery wrote a book called, "How To Meet Women" (you can look it up on Amazon.com) and read all about it and read the customer reviews. I highly recommend it. And I'm a female! I think it's a great technique for learning how to *read* other women, and it does not make you *slimy* or a jerk. It simply makes it easier for you to meet women with confidence. Check it out.

Answer 5

Girls are not another species. They're just people. And usually a lot nicer than the smart alec guys who just wrote. So no worries mate. You're going to do great. :-) Just don't watch that porn trash. It's really bad stuff! No one is really like that, or expects such things. It's absolutely ridiculous!!! Just be nice. Smile. Stuff like that. Girls will come to you.

Answer 6

Ahhh, and now you have come to the reason why so many guys PURPOSELY act like a jackass in front of girls. It gets a laugh, and it all looks so...'I meant to do that'.

Answer 7

Find a question you can ask them, and not the kind that has a yes or no answer, just to get started

Answer 8

well i am a girl and i like it when guys come up to me. you just need to start a conversation. dont talk about dorkey stuff though, compliment them and make them feel good. just be your self! just talk to them about anythingg. as long as you be your self and act liek you are confident everythign will be fine.

Answer 9

well, you just try to ask urself, why ur nervous around them..they r also human beings like you right..jst imagine in ur mind det they r ur frends,like all da male frends of urs.u'll feel better..try to ask them their name etc and stay cooool! hope this helped!

Answer 10

Faint heart never won fair lady!