Family & Relationships - 9 October 2007

Here is a man who got married at the age 27 to a girl of 22.
Their first child is born after 2 years of their marriage.
Within another 2 years they have another child.
In the next 20 years they struggle hard, sacrifice everything for the sake of children.
Their first son’s goes abroad.
First they marry their daughter second child.
In another 3 years their son gets married.
In the same year they witness their grand child.
In the next 8 years they have 4 grand children.
Suddenly they look back; they are in their 60’s
Wife dies when the man is 67.
All the children come and attend funeral. Everyone cries.
After the funeral everyone come back to normal.
Husband is sitting corner and looks around.
There are so many people at home.
Children are playing
But one person is feeling lonely
He feels everyone as stranger.
He is not able to recognize anyone.
It is the Husband…. Sits there looking at his wife

2007-10-09 02:36:05 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 19 years old and this girl I like A LOT recently got a job at Ihop. I already have a job but I don't get very many hours. I have until today at 3pm to either take the Ihop job or stick to my current job and look for another job. I don't really need another job, but I would probably get more hours. BTW I applied at Ihop and they want me to come in for orientation today. The deciding factor for me is I'm debating wether or not I want to risk losing this girl because she might get tired of me seeing me almost everyday. She knows I like her a lot and we have been friends for about a year now. When we hang out we have fun, we laugh and talk a lot. I want this job but I don't if it would hurt my chances with this girl. What should I do? I heard that its a good idea not to take a job with a girl you like because they won't miss you and enjoy hanging out as much because they see you a lot. I really need some advice.

thanks

2007-10-09 02:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

sorry, i knew that if i wrote it out, they wouldnt post this question, but I just need people to describe these people and why they are like they are,

why do so many seem to be women?

Do women need it more than men, maybe?

why so?

also do they just tease and flirt with guys they dont have any attraction to at all, just so they get this much wanted attetion?

again, why is it so important to them?

power?

2007-10-09 02:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 02:28:06 · 13 answers · asked by killerbee492001 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who is a boy he is 16 nearly 17 and he has never kissed a girl before or had a girlfriend. i dont know why he's cute and kind. he says he is nervous and tried to kiss me the other day i would of because i like him but i already have a man. he says that his mates make fun of him because he hasnt got a girl so asked me to pretend to be his girl and kiss him in front of his mates or tell him to get his own girl?

2007-10-09 02:27:26 · 6 answers · asked by Saiyan_Pokemaster 4 in Singles & Dating

I'll try to make this short. When I was 17 I got pregnant. My bf dumped me. My future husband was a friend of mine and was there for me and my daughter. We got married and were together until she was 9...that's when he cheated on me. In our years together her real dad took her every other weekend and his family has been good to her. My husband was not the best person in the world by any means... temper issues and other things.
When I left him he was still seeing my daughter... he in her eyes was dad because he did things with her... was interested in her... her real dad plays video games and doesn't do much else... shows no real interest.
After we got divorced my X took her to a party and was playing shot games with her (she had kool-aid). I was really mad... in my book you don't teach a kid how to play shot games at 9 years old.
When I tried to talk to him he called me every name in the book.. said I was just trying to push her out of his life... which is not the case.

2007-10-09 02:24:57 · 25 answers · asked by girlnextdoor409 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know who it was, but It's really cute, and a clever idea. The card just says "Enjoy" with a smiley face. Lol what do i do? I seriously don't know who did it..

2007-10-09 02:18:01 · 30 answers · asked by xorenée 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 02:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by BABYGIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean I've never had to deal with this b4 I dont know what to say or do... I really dont know... She tries to be "hard" and I havent talked to her yet but she texted me... I dont know what to do or say... I lost my granny and papa when i was 6 and my other grandparents are still alive and well... i mean i live with them... but i just dont know what to do... what am i supposed to say... and i feel like an *** because i was giving her a hard time last night... Someone help me please... I had a hard time talking to my sister about her rabbit dying... i dont know how to confront a family member... but i've always had a problem with death because of how my granny and papa died... (murder and suicide)... Please Help

2007-10-09 02:08:30 · 6 answers · asked by Tori E. 1 in Family

Well i guess this question is up to the person. But would you still want or be attractive to a girl who had sex during the summer with a guy more then once and your thinking about going out with her or at least trying to see if there something there?

2007-10-09 02:07:48 · 12 answers · asked by X-Man 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf is usually really laid back but on monday (after i had stayed at his house over the weekend) i realised i had run out of knickers so grabbed a pair of his boxers to wear home under my jeans. i didnt tell him at the time cos we were in a rush. i texted him to tell him i had pinched a pair of his boxers and that they were really comfy. he wasnt impressed and told me never to do that again cos he didnt like the idea of anyone (no matter who they were) wearing his underwear. am i missing something here? its just a pair of boxers and he has tons of them? why has he gone so wierd? we ended up rowing over it last night on the phone and i rang him today and he was still in a mood!

2007-10-09 02:07:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been teased to death by this one woman, and I keep having people tell me that she is doing it to make her feel "powerful" is all.

PLEASE what does this mean??

Does it mean it makes her feel like she is the most wanted , fairest beauty of them all or what?

why?

why do they feel so much need for this to mess with someone elses head?
thanks for helping me understand this.

2007-10-09 02:06:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 8 months now. i'm in my second year of college at a city about an hour away from home so i'm at a dorm. about 2 weeks ago he started at hometowncollege (so yes, he's a year younger, but very mature though!). we see eachother on weekends, but that's the way it was from the beginning. the last few weeks we rarely heard from eachother: i thought he was having doubts or was angry and he thought the same of me. when we saw eachother everything was fine though, no strange behaviour, ...
this weekend i spent the night at his place from saturday to sunday and we had so much fun: out for dinner, renting movie, we were hugging eachother all the time and so in love. things have never been better.
he also texts a lot more again, and yesterday he said he realised how much he loved me saturday, and that he was scared before cause he didn't hear from me, but that saturday "i appeared to be that sweet girl he fell in love with again."
what does he mean by this last sentence?

2007-10-09 02:04:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok say a 17 year old guy kissed a 13 year old girl... After their first kiss together will the 17 year old want more like sex or more kissing?And after the kiss u know they say thats all they can basically think bout but do u even think him at his age still thinks bout it? So answer this please when a 17 year old guy kisses a 13 year old is all they basically want is sex or more kissing after that? i know it sounds perverted but please just answer my question....

2007-10-09 02:02:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 02:01:43 · 11 answers · asked by brandy r 1 in Friends

If so why so?
If not why not?

2007-10-09 02:00:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

suppose u are far away from your spouse because you have to work at that place.your spouse stays far from your place.it may happen that u trust him/her a lot but he/she is not loyal to it or making extramarital affairs somewhere else.how would you know that????any idea?

2007-10-09 01:59:29 · 9 answers · asked by riya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really felt that the friendship had many negative qualities to it since we were always talking abt her "problems". She had so many issues with men, aging, other friendships.

I found her to be very selfish and caught her lying to me several times.

I broke off this friendship by just stopping all contact with her. Now, I wish I had said something. At the time, I didn't think I could say anything in a nice, mature, respectful way so I just said nothing.

I really don't want that friendship back so I am not going to contact her.

It's just why do I feel so bad about this? I've actually started dreaming her??????

2007-10-09 01:54:45 · 4 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Friends

at 3:00 am because,according to my b/f that time is very disrecpectful.The problem is ,that i told my ex, he could bring her at 3:00 am And my b/f screamed at me so hard,that i did not respect his opinion.He wanted to brake up with me.Do u think he over reacted ?

2007-10-09 01:53:41 · 18 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Family

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2007-10-09 01:52:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My name is Dindy 7. Dindy because it's a derivative of my mum's name Linda and 7 seven because I was born on the 7 september. Now I am sure most of you will agree its a pretty stupid name so I have decided to change my name by deed poll - but to what? I rather fancy something striking and novel - only stipulation is it can't rhyme with my surname for obvious reasons - surame is Witt. Thx in advance

2007-10-09 01:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy he is everything my ex was not .Ambitous,understanding sympathetic.He has his life together and he thinks woman should be respected not neglected.The thing is him and my ex use to be Best friends that is until he went away.Should I wait till he comes back and confess how I feel or just leave it at a friendship even if I am longing for him.

2007-10-09 01:48:33 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Singles & Dating

i have known him for 2 years and he is a wonderful man who is wonderful to me. im not sure wether to take the plunge???

2007-10-09 01:47:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you see, i have this ex of mine. he is my first boyfriend and a friend of mine too. and after we broke up, we still remained friends. but these past few months, his jokes aren't funny anymore and annoys me to death. he even called me a "poser" onetime for god-knows-why... what do i do? =(

2007-10-09 01:46:47 · 18 answers · asked by Chichel_31 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I moved her from FL to CT about 8 months ago. But since I have lost my interest in her physically. She is a sweet lady.

2007-10-09 01:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay im 18 and just started college. this guy in one of my classes likes me and wants to get coffee together or something. hes a nice guy but i dont know if I want a relationship because im young and just started college. i want to explore my options. i also wonder if there is something better when it comes to guys. is there anything wrong with this?? Besides im kind of emotinally immature. im just scared. what should i do?????

2007-10-09 01:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started going back to church and taking my 3 kids also. When we got back home, the minute we walked in the door, my husband would complain about whatever came to mind. After only 10 minutes of being home I told him that he hadn't said one nice thing since we had been home and I asked him if he had anything good to say. He said he had nothing at all good to say. So, I asked him if we needed to leave and come back when he DID have something good to say. It just upset me because after having a peaceful morning at church, I had to come home to that. I felt as he was offended in some way and if that's what I have to come home to every time after church, should I even attempt to go anymore?

2007-10-09 01:45:33 · 20 answers · asked by Jennifer S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a very nice man the other day. He was in his 30s. He has a good stable job, no kids, he wanted to hold my hand after 2 hours, he likes cartoons, he is very polite and cares about health, he's kinda nerdy, he can't kiss (lol..that was at the end of the night, and it wasn't even a kiss..it was like a peck..no tongue action), he sent me a short email a day later that just just said "hi, and how are u doing? and they comnented on my nice car)..he dresses like a geek I guess, I mean no fashion sense at all, he's kinda frugal, but he was a gentelman, opened doors for me, drove me home even when I took bart and could have taken it back home. What do you make of this? He's in his 30s, I think he's cute, but he acts like he hasn't really been out with girls. Is this possible? To me it's adorable, but if this is true, then I may have something here. We both have some similiar interests. What do u think?

2007-10-09 01:44:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 6 years. He does not want sex, nor me. He walked out saying he wanted his freedom and didnt want me anymore. I found out he is living with a women he works with on his 2nd job. After a month he still cannot find himself. Should I give him more space or file for a divorce? He does not want me to be with anyone else but he will not take care of my needs either. He says he has not felt like having sex with me for a very long time. Im stuck?

2007-10-09 01:41:50 · 14 answers · asked by Tammy61 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Maybe U have a new interesting one?

If you do,try and win the 10 point!

2007-10-09 01:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by Provirus 3 in Friends