When do you think a person become lonely in the world? Can you tell me?

Question

Here is a man who got married at the age 27 to a girl of 22.
Their first child is born after 2 years of their marriage.
Within another 2 years they have another child.
In the next 20 years they struggle hard, sacrifice everything for the sake of children.
Their first son’s goes abroad.
First they marry their daughter second child.
In another 3 years their son gets married.
In the same year they witness their grand child.
In the next 8 years they have 4 grand children.
Suddenly they look back; they are in their 60’s
Wife dies when the man is 67.
All the children come and attend funeral. Everyone cries.
After the funeral everyone come back to normal.
Husband is sitting corner and looks around.
There are so many people at home.
Children are playing
But one person is feeling lonely
He feels everyone as stranger.
He is not able to recognize anyone.
It is the Husband…. Sits there looking at his wife

Says “Honey what did we do, it looks as though we got married recently
We did not enjoy life
I knew al throughout how much you gave me support
Without you I would not have done anything in my life.
We struggled throughout our life
In this struggle I lost myself
But today I realize that all the while I wanted to say something to you
Whenever I came near to tell you, you will something about children
I will also forget and move on life. I am upset with you, because till you died you always spoke about children, but never allowed me to say this.
Today you can’t stop me honey. Here listen this is what I wanted to tell you “I LOVE YOU”
I love you honey, I love you darling. How many times I forgot to tell you. You always reminded of paying bills, but why did’t reminds me this.
I don’t have anyone here; I don’t see any meaning in life, why did you leave me alone.
I married you as a man. But in these years, you changed me to a child. How you can you leave this child and go.

He keeps repeating the same again and again….
Can’t you see he is lonely?

After reading so much, filling your eyes with eyes, what are you waiting for. Go ahead and tell your partner how much you love. Who is stopping you. Don't stop yourself. After you do this, please come back and share with me what happend :) :)
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Answer 1

This is how is was for me. I was an only child, my mother and I were very close....she died and my father who was all alone grieved for her and I had to take him to the cemetery to visit her grave periodically because he was locked in a time warp, and could not believe my mom was dead. They were married 50 years. He was an only child....no other family. He got ill and my husband and I moved to care for him because I would not put him into a nursing home. However my husband became sick, and dad had to go into a personal care home. Two week and dad was dead. I was not there when he died, because my husband was in the hospital diagnosed with terminal kidney cancer. He could not go to my dads funeral. I had one child, a son. He was killed in a car wreck 8 months after my dad died, my husband in and out of the hospital, chemo taking it's toll. I suck it up....because I will not deprive him of his last days. I did not grieve believe it or not. I went to the limits of my everything. My husband died 11 months after my son. My son had a daughter born one month prior to his death. His only child. His wife remarried moved away. I have a cousin, aunt and grand daughter blood relatives alive. I can be anywhere and my mind will wander......It is not just for the husband that is gone.....it is my whole life as I knew it gone. The tears come and go....I long to see them, like you can not imagine. I left my home....lock stock and barrell. I live in a rented place, I work, I have written a book for my grand daughter having it proof read now and will publish it. I live that their lives will not be in vain. I live for the moment, I live to experience things I've never done, and without fear.....When you have lost all but yourself....there is little to fear as your worst fears have already come and gone. I am not a doom and gloom person. I cherish what I had. Would I give anything to see them again.....short of selling my soul.......you bet your bottom dollar. I know I have rambled on too much and many of my contacts know my grief already....I am telling this again and NOT for pity....I am saying the saddness in your heart is great in a big loss, and there will remain a void no matter what. But you must and it is not easy go beyond or you will be dead unto yourself. This is not what they would want.

Answer 2

Wow, I feel for you so much. I went through a lot of the same amd I'm so bitter I lost my health. My family has always been tempermental, cruel, distant etc while I'm always giving what I never received. A certain part of me hoped that someday my family members would become my friend, after all my patience. But the truth is my dad doesn't even remember all the things I did for him, now that he is aging. It's really hard to have a high IQ. That is my problem. My mother actually told everyone I had bi-polar disease which was a lie. You can imagine how that thwarted my self-esteem, with people treating me like I'm mentally ill when actually I'm just a deep thinker and visualizer. You will find happiness when you find a lover with a similarly high IQ. When I found my genius husband he was 48 and I was 33. Now we are doing OK but it was a long time to find each other. I suggest you enroll in the best school possible like Harvard or MIT and get yourself a scholarship. If that doesn't work, get a loan. Don't let anyone thwart your belief in yourself or your dreams. Your time to shine is coming. Trust God. He creates every flower for its moment to bloom and your day is coming. Even if you don't believe in God believe in karma. You spent so many years giving everyone the benefit of the doubt and treating them like you would want others to treat you. But they are emotionally immature people and couldn't reciprocate. Try not to blame them for being emotionally incompetant. Some people are useless emotionally, just like other people are useless at sports. Just face the reality that you will never get what you want from them. Give it to yourself. You can and will succeed.

Answer 3

Whose account is this?
'Here is a man' who he is?
It is presented in a very sorrowful manner.

Any way, do you really want to know, when man/woman is lonely?

My answer in quick and short is, he is 'naturally' lonely.

problems are part and parcel of every body's life.
in between problems, how can you be happy? is the question?

With an equation I will answer.
'you', 'your mind' and 'your body' = three.
you have come in to this world through your,
Father and Mother = two
Three by two = one and half
they were cause for a pregnancy where you did live for ten or nine months. you have come out safely and they have be come parents.
I find that there is some one who is cause for every body's life on earth.
If you can elevate Him to father level.
Father, Mother and the one who is going to become your FATHER = three
Three by Three = one
You or any one can never feel lonely.

Answer 4

as soon as I answer one of ur really funny questions, u ask me a really sad one. What is this ??????

I guess looking back @ ur life years later and regreting is the worse experience in life I guess. I am teenager and I know that I have a lot of time in my hands (if I live long enought, who knows). But I sometimes look back and regret over the times and opportunities that I have missed that I could have enjoyed. WIth the hectic schedule of life a lot of us forget to have fun and spend time with our families.

Like the old people say.

You only have one life to enjoy.

I guess what everyone need to do in life is to enjoy it rather than challenging it.

ENJOY !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

It is sad, because much of the world looks at marriage as an obligatory chore to fulfill family status, personal status, as a legal and convenient sexual outlet, and as a foundation for children, etc....- full of rehearsed feigned emotional platitudes ...BUT - NOT... as true love between equal parties who define their own roles, who embark on life as an adventure willingly and enthusiastically shared together... - full of sincere gestures from deep within the heart freely given and wholeheartedly accepted... To me the husband is lonely for himself, because he never found out who he truly is; much less who his wife truly is... They were too busy playing roles... Yes they stayed together, BUT this was not a successful marriage, just years clocked on a calendar...

Answer 6

you are a special person and unique. make me cry will you? well tears i have as i have love for everyone. I'm so sad i cant come back to answer as I'm single by choice at this moment. lonely - i can see your point. i can see all of your points. if this is so true I'm a wish away- a friend for life. I'm all these to you anyway. thanx

Answer 7

I told my wife the day she agreed to marry me that I loved her and if that ever changed I'd let her know.
I just told her again and she choked!

You have children and grandchildren, much more then many people have.

Answer 8

i guess that's the cycle of life...and yes...it sounds pretty sad when you put it that way....that's why we should embrace everything that comes into our life...we should live life like there's no tomorrow...we should always tell our family and friends how much we love them...before its too late...

but a person who has lived a full life should not be sad...he should be grateful that he is where he is now...not all people are lucky to have families who love them...i think its sadder to live life alone and not having anyone to share your triumphs and your heartaches...

Answer 9

u are a very special and unique person to think like that no one hardly goes on the internet and shares their feelings like that to help others and make this world a better and prettier place to be in and live in

Answer 10

Never depend upon one person,always have few good friends and never leave your hobby.Life is uncertain and involve yourself in some social activities.one has come alone in this world and will leave this world alone!