how do i deal with a disrespectful ex-boyfriend?

Question

you see, i have this ex of mine. he is my first boyfriend and a friend of mine too. and after we broke up, we still remained friends. but these past few months, his jokes aren't funny anymore and annoys me to death. he even called me a "poser" onetime for god-knows-why... what do i do? =(

Answer 1

if he does all those things, maybe he's not really your friend and it's time to cut your losses and move on.

Answer 2

He went from being a disrespectful ex to a disrespectful friend, and a real friend would not be disrespectful to you. I'm sure you have enough friends without him, so let him go. You don't need him in your life to bring you down and remind you of your past. Block him on AIM and ignore his calls - or change your # if that doesn't work. He doesn't sound deserving of you or your time.

Answer 3

First, stand him down and address the disrespect straight out. Tell him you don't deserve and won't take disrespect from him or anyone. If he has a problem with you, you're open to discussing it in a problem-solving way, as friends should, rather than a mean, hurtful way. Then, if he doesn't respond to that, it is time to move on from that relationship.

Answer 4

She is still playing around, if she was so genuine or needed him, it would have been long back, now that she has no one in life she is trying to cling to yr boyfriend with emotional fundas! specially with kids around, He might get pressured. Why not ask yr boyfriend when he would like to get married to you? have you discussed marriage with him ? at least get engaged and make sure the first card goes to this woman. I dont think she deserves him and you should not loose hope or doubt yr man, but be his strenght and give him the support to overcome this foolishness of his ex.

Answer 5

He obviously has problems dealing with your breakup. I know that some men say that they can "just be friends", but I have never meet one. Ether they regret the breakup and lash out, or they feel rejected and lash out.

I would spend time away from him, make new Friends and move on with you life.

Answer 6

If his jokes are not funny you need to be straitforward and tell him that they arnt. Dont just come out and say it, like if he says something that he THINKS is funny, tell him that its not. If he annoys you tell him he's not going to know hes annoying unlesss you tell him. He might be calling you a poser to get under your skin. Or maybe its out of hurt after the breakup

Answer 7

Why would you want to have a "friend" one you'd call a friend, like that?
A friend is closer then your spouse, one to share a secret, a special person, one whom you lay your life down for.

I think you'd better rethink your position with this "friend"

Answer 8

hi girl! my ex boyfriend use to do that to what i would is hang up the phone on him or i would tell him i fell. I told him that u is really hurting my fellings. then i fake a cry and he said sorry and he did not do it again.

Answer 9

Stop communicating with him obviously the guy is not worth even a friendship. When he wants to know why you do not want to talk with him anymore tell him why. Hopefully he wont even ask and you wont have to bother with him .

Answer 10

1. you speak to him about it quitely,calmly,and hope for the best!! 2. if he continues, then embarrass the crap out of him publicly!!! 3. Then, if he does it again, you throw a screaming/cussing fit!!! Tell your daddy,big brother, bigger guy friend, they will get it stopped!!!!!!!!! OH YA he's not your friend either!!!!

Answer 11

He misses you and wants to get intimate with you. Go for it one last time. It will get what ever he's got out of his system.