should i move to another country to be with a man i think i love?

Question

i have known him for 2 years and he is a wonderful man who is wonderful to me. im not sure wether to take the plunge???

Answer 1

Miss,

I would only consider it when you KNOW you love him.

Answer 2

Without knowing more, this is a very hard question to answer.

For instance, do you work and, if so, is this country one where you can find work? Is it a country where you understand and will be able to speak the language? Do you have enough of a nest egg to return to the United States if this relationship should not work out? What about family? And would you have enough money for return visits if you have elderly parents to think about?

Those are just a few of the considerations I can think of if I were considering moving to another country. Canada might be acceptable to me, whereas Mexico would not.

Good luck!

Answer 3

It all depends on how well you know him, what country you'd be moving to (women's legal rights in the country for instance), would you be able to work there, have you lived together already? Do you speak the language there, do you have other friends there etc. Moving to a new country is a major decision, and should never be entered into lightly. What will happen to your pension or other benefits should you leave your current country? What about tax levels in the new country? Here are some good tips about what you should consider before moving abroad: http://ezinearticles.com/?Tips-for-Moving-to-Another-Country&id=41004

Best of luck!

Answer 4

Ask yourself a few questions: Why should you be the one to move? What are you leaving behind to be with him? Do you love him or not? If you don't even know, it might be too soon. What can this country offer youi personally. What are your options if things don't work out. If you have a good answer to all these questions, I say why not go for it?

Answer 5

So, what would your life be like if you go? Is it a move from one similar place to another? (for example, US to Canada) Or is it a move to someplace exotic where the language is different and the customs are strange. How will you be treated once you are there? Will you be able to fly home to see your family as often as you'd like?

If you do this at all, you might want to plan it on a trial basis.

Answer 6

I wouldn't do it, another country!!! Are you crazy. Is he in this other country now? How do you get to know someone, truly know someone, if he isn't in the same country.

It doesn't matter that you've known him for 2 years, moving to another place for someone you "THINK" you love is not a good choice. You need to know for sure, and know him better before you make that move.

Answer 7

No you shouldnt move to another country with some guy you think you love. He can be all Mr wonderful and all, but that is a serious jump. Think about it. Hard

Answer 8

Well depends have you met him in person?
I don't think I would ever move to a whole different country especially if I wasn't even sure if I liked the guy.
But it really depends on lots of stuff.

Answer 9

If you think he's worth it, then go for it, hun! :)

However, just to be cautious, because you never really know, have some backup plan in case things go wrong. Some money or friend nearby never hurts anyone!

Do whatever you do with hope. and faith. goodluck. :)

Answer 10

Have you been to visit him first?If you haven't then I recommend it and also learn more about the country itself including going to live there as it could test your relationship and make things very hard.

Answer 11

ok moving to another country is a big desicion to make. i mean, i would rather be married and then think about moving out of state.