I'm 19 years old and this girl I like A LOT recently got a job at Ihop. I already have a job but I don't get very many hours. I have until today at 3pm to either take the Ihop job or stick to my current job and look for another job. I don't really need another job, but I would probably get more hours. BTW I applied at Ihop and they want me to come in for orientation today. The deciding factor for me is I'm debating wether or not I want to risk losing this girl because she might get tired of me seeing me almost everyday. She knows I like her a lot and we have been friends for about a year now. When we hang out we have fun, we laugh and talk a lot. I want this job but I don't if it would hurt my chances with this girl. What should I do? I heard that its a good idea not to take a job with a girl you like because they won't miss you and enjoy hanging out as much because they see you a lot. I really need some advice.
thanks
2007-10-09 02:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude stay away. Work relationships are cool but they are only fun for awhile. You have to keep your home and work life seperate. Because what if you two are fighting then you have to work together later that day. That sucks man trust. I have been there done that. Walk away and find a new place to play.
2007-10-09 02:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a good idea to work with someone you would like to date. Too much togetherness if you know what I mean. But the company may also have a policy against dating another employee. Be careful, it's not a good thing to date someone you work with even if you were friends before. Keep the relationship separate and working together you can't do that.
2007-10-09 02:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Carol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just phone. Go to a prospective work place in person. Also, dress how you would if you were going to start working there right when you walk in. Be confident in the interview, and look the interviewer in the eye.
2016-04-07 23:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
working together with her might not be a good, it is very easy to get tired of seeing some one if they are always there, i would advise not to take the job unless you do actually need the money
2007-10-09 02:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kruger, Freddy Kruger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away its just like when you move in with someone your dating, alot of the time you get sick of them really quick. Maybe if you worked their part time it may be okay but otherwise keep your old job.
2007-10-09 02:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ purrlvr ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah for me, try to have a little space gap with her.
youre right she might be feed up seeing you all the time.
suggest, do things that she will miss you a bit. in that way she will crave for her longingness for yah.
2007-10-09 02:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jv Monton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay where you are, because absence makes the heart grow fonder
2007-10-09 02:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by troop there it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta be careful with workplace relationships, but they can be fun to. I had some fun times at mcdonalds lol.
2007-10-09 02:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋