2007-10-09 02:28:06 · 13 answers · asked by killerbee492001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately there isn't a hand book that comes with our hearts, god only knows it would be so much easier that way, time is the only thing that can help us to forgive and forget and move on, you got to ask yourself can you move on and leave this behind you or is it going to niggle at you allt he time and be brought up whenever you have a fall out, if it can be left in the past then forgiveness is easy, only you can decide whats best here love and I hope you find the answer you're looking for!
2007-10-09 02:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what this person has done!! but it easier to forgive than forget if you cant it will dominate your life and that isn't good. ask your angels to take it away from you. you will be surprised at how quick the feeling will go.
Or if its to bad to forgive and forget maybe a councilor would be better to talk to
i hope you find your answer
with love xxx
2007-10-09 03:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can forgive by looking into your heart and try to understand why that someone did what he/she did to you and really look at it from a non-judgmental point of view and also work on letting go of anger/sadness/disappointment etc. that you feel towards that person. Forgetting is not, in my experience, possible...unless you involve a medical professional somehow (drugs, hypnosis, etc.) alter your memory. Not having it in the forefront of your mind is possible.
2007-10-09 02:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what they have done. If your strong enough you can find it in your heart to forgive but depending on the situation you can never forget. You just learn to push it to the back of your mind.
2007-10-09 02:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after all the pain and anger is gone, you will be able to think better. If your relationship with that someone is important to you, you can forgive. when you are having good times again you will forget.
2007-10-09 03:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mere human there is no way to forgive and to forget, unless you turn it over to God, in faith, He will ease the pain and support you as you move on through life.
2007-10-09 03:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am able to forgive but I never forget so I can't really help you, sorry.
2007-10-09 02:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first need to come to terms with what they did. Maybe talk to them about it and let them know how it's hurt you. Listening to their explanaition may help you to forgive.
You can forgive but you'll never forget.
2007-10-09 02:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st , u pray, so that u have peace , in ur mind , then have strength in ur heart, mind and body , and if is really hurt , talk to god alone , and u will find an answer of how to forgive and ..... so on
this is only i got from my friend , coz im also like u , crying inside and outside
2007-10-09 02:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by MIla M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to mend your heart, that you would be able to forgive and forget. He will help you.
2007-10-09 02:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Dan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋