Family & Relationships - 9 October 2007

Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time, she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, but now has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like "i havent done that in ages!", and then she said "where do you even go to do that nowadays"..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot!

2007-10-09 07:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by ron h 2 in Singles & Dating

He don't want kids right now?

2007-10-09 07:52:14 · 15 answers · asked by shariscurlock 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 07:47:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How have u made your relationship last so long? I know my parents have been married for going on 23 years this year, and they act like they friggin hate each other lol, but i know deep down they still love each other. almost every day i wonder why they're still even married when they can act so mean toward each other. How have you made your marriage last? Why do u think you're still with the person you're married to?

2007-10-09 07:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i met this really really sweet guy. We talked a little and he was really nice. We've been talking on the phone for about a week now....he asked me to go out with him and be his "girl" this morning...i don't know what to say. He's in 10th grade((He's 16)) and i'm in 8th(i'm 13). We're kinda different...i mean he's goes to a really ghetto school and he's really ghetto and i'm a goodygoody from a prep school. He's really nice and sweet when I talk to him and stuff and i do like him but...i don't know...should we be more than just friends?

2007-10-09 07:35:50 · 56 answers · asked by Roxy Andrews 2 in Singles & Dating

The people next door to us have been there for 4.5 years. They have 3 children ages 4,2.5 and about 9 months. This entire summer we have only seen these children outside 3 times, day or night. They have enough yard/riding toys (Grandpa bought them) to open a day care. These people don't even open their drapes. In all 4.5 years I'll bet we haven't seen them out more than about 6 times. I used to think it was because my husband and I sit on our screened in porch on the weekends drinking beer, (we are middle aged, we are not loud and rowdy) and they are Baptist and of course this is not accepted in their church. (I do not condemn religions either, I am also a believer and pray a lot). Would they keep their children in just because we embibe or is there something else going on here. I am very concerned. Or, am I just nosey?

2007-10-09 07:34:45 · 22 answers · asked by Penny 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 , i lost it yesterday with a prostítute,sure it was ok. but just that. i was dying to have sex and im disappointment. so whats next? is that crap suppose to be the best thing in the world? why is everybody making a big deal of it?

2007-10-09 07:32:36 · 5 answers · asked by sdafsadfawer s 1 in Singles & Dating

Do most girls believe that guys should do all the chasing (ie. setting up dates, calling, texting, etc) when first dating?

2007-10-09 07:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by ZTT477 1 in Singles & Dating

we are living in a foreign country. my partner has told me most of this mans story. but says he cannot tell me everything. i have never even met this person. and he says we need to help him, by letting him stay with us for a while...this is really worrying me....he says that i am being unreasonable. what do you think ???

2007-10-09 07:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by sasha 3 in Friends

Is it like at the beginning you are trying to impress then once you've been with the person for a long you feel it's no longer necessary. It's almost like you get so comfortable with someone you go out to dinner and don't speak and when something special comes up you don't really acknowledge it.

I hope I'm not in a relationship like that but I know many people who this has happened to.

2007-10-09 07:27:52 · 17 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

When she gets married. It's been that way for years in our family.

She has been giving me so much grief - I'm ready to give up and call it quits.

She needs to wear this down the isle - no matter what.

Tell me what you think of the dress - I'm just so ticked off right now!!

http://www.uen.org/utahlink/tours/admin/tour/13227/13227sheavysatinweddingdress.jpg

2007-10-09 07:27:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

awww....I'm feelin a bit down....my babys are hurtin.....wish I can care for him right now.....got both calls....I'm really really worried for my son though....my other baby will be fine

2007-10-09 07:25:06 · 12 answers · asked by gmg2 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

for our wedding we're going to have beer in kegs and wine, what we cant decide is........
if it would be better to buy boxes of wine to place on a table beside the kegs..

or

Two bottles of wine in an ice bucket on each of the tables the guest will be seated at

What do you think???

2007-10-09 07:22:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It has been a long time since high school. I am just wonder how i go about seeing if he did liked me. I was to shy to talk to him and he seemed liked he never knew i was a live. I am just curious... Any serious replies are welcome. Thank you!

2007-10-09 07:21:12 · 4 answers · asked by april79_2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've often noticed that women over 35 or so who are still unmarried have a really hard time to convince people they meet that they are actually sane and good people. On the contrary, married women or ever divorced women command more respect. This hangover from the days when a single woman was a disorder to society and a disgrace to her family is incredible in this day and age. I think that there are many women now who would love to meet the right guy but in the event that they don't, then they are not willing to settle for less. Alternatively, there are others who are quite contented with the very nice single life they have carved out for themselves. Opinions please!

2007-10-09 07:19:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said he needs time to figure out our situation. Its been over 2 weeks now. Is he gonna call or has he moved on. He doesnt answer my calls and texts me only once in a while. I'm so confused. HELP!

2007-10-09 07:14:33 · 21 answers · asked by Lizzy11 1 in Singles & Dating

my father left when I was 5 i thought about him sometimesbut not often. And now my daughter cries for her father and I start balling what's going on ?

2007-10-09 07:13:08 · 12 answers · asked by * SalLyRokz * 2 in Family

2007-10-09 07:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 in Singles & Dating

I have had VERY bad sexual experiences in the past with not respecting myself or my body because of a rape situation a few years ago that I couldn’t face. I have gone through counseling for it and a lot of prayer from my family and friends. I am in a “real” relationship for the first time in my life. I am almost certain this will lead towards marriage (we have already talked about it and he is moving with me to the mid-west in early next year.) I love him so much and him me. I know its on his mind but hasn’t said anything or tried to push for it but with my bad experiences with sex I feel like its still a “dirty” thing…not something you would do with someone you love but something you would do for fulfillment after a drunken night at the bar. I have never “made love” with a man I really care about only drunken one-night stands and casual flings. I don’t know how to get over this feeling and I’m afraid that sleeping with him will do one of two things…me surrendering to him and letting my guard down and him hurting me or me always thinking of sex as just “sex” and never as an act of love. Any thoughts that are genuine would be nice…Thanks!

2007-10-09 07:10:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-09 07:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by Sandy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you find out on your own or did they confess?

2007-10-09 07:08:06 · 27 answers · asked by shellj_foxy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex (she left me and the kids after 12 yrs of matrimony) owes me back child support. I know times are rough for her financially and have tried several times to keep the peace (ex. part of the money she pays, I send back with the kids) but I still find myself arguing with her and having to stay on her to pay what was ordered. Recently, I forgave about 3 weeks worth of support and, in kind she do me a favor or two to repay me (simple stuff like picking the kids up for me so I can go workout or taking them out for an extra day on one of my weekends). She became irate and, long story short, felt she was hoodwinked into signing an unfair decree. She made it clear that what support I get from her should be enough because I make more than her.

I really don't want to report her to the court or the authorities but the kids need both of our support. Any ideas on making the situation better?

2007-10-09 07:07:00 · 13 answers · asked by Randall 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Say you are 16 & you have a savings account. You (the kid), ur parents, and their parents (ur grandparents) all live in the same house. The house is owned by the grandparents. But the parents keep asking for money from their parents (your grandparents) for their internet, car insurance bill, taxes ECT. The father basically has no job. The mother works 5 days a week, & the grandparents are retired.
How would you feel if you were in this situtation as the 16 year old kid & your parents took all but $10 out of her savings account from her bank account??

Yes, I know parents can do this since the kid is under 18 but it kinda hurts that my parents didn't tell me at all that they were going to take my savings money out for their ONCE A MONTH bills. I mean come on now, it's their child's savings account.

How would u react if u were in this situation??

The ONLY way I knew about this was from a letter in the mail from my bank.

and the parents don't even have to pay rent!

2007-10-09 07:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My son's father and i aren't together for different reasons, but mainly because we have completley different lifestyles. He likes to drink and party every day, and I don't want that around my son. I have been dating my current boyfriend now for over a year, but have known him since my son was born. He has good morals and values, and is great with my son. I still live with my parents and am in college, and he(my boyfriend) lives an hour away. I can't afford to move out on my own because I am in school full-time and only work part time which isn't enough . My boyfriend is planning on moving close to me, and recently mentioned us living together ((my parents and i are ready for me to move). I have always been against moving in with your bf or gf before marriage, but now i am starting to consider it. We do plan on getting married within the next couple years. I Just don't want to jump and make a decision without thinking about the consequences. I just need some helpful advice.

2007-10-09 07:04:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was hoping that telling him im needy would either stop him from moving forward with me or let him know that, in order to continue, he would need to give me what i wanted. ive been trying to avoid him because i know that i am going to end up hurt and that is because he doesn't give me what i want and need even after the heads up.any advice?

2007-10-09 07:03:37 · 8 answers · asked by ..((~babarskiz~)).. 2 in Singles & Dating

I like my women like I like my coffee: ________?

2007-10-09 07:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by brokestudent 2 in Singles & Dating

My abusive husband who has kicked, pushed, cursed, told me he only wanted me for my money, cheated on me, and told me that he wanted to trade me in for a younger wife.

I had a malpractice lawsuit and won. The check has my name AND HIS NAME on it. Is he entitled to any of it and if so, how much? Again, this lawsuit was due to an injury that I sustained.

Thanks in advance.

2007-10-09 07:02:15 · 20 answers · asked by IwishIwaspretty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Before you start the flame / hate responses..... Let me state that I absolutely LOVE my kids and wouldn't trade being a father for anything......

However - If you KNEW going in the changes kids would cause in your relationship between you and your spouse, would you still have had kids?

It seems that many women (my wife included) push their husbands to back burner status after the kids are in the picture...

Comments such as: the kids come first, then my hubby - he is grown and can fend for himself (etc....), are extremely common on this and other marriage forums.

The kids cause stress in the marriage, increased demands for time / $ / energy / etc....

Sometimes I just feel like I've been "dupped" into the family life... going in you're told by everyone, friends, family, co-workers, that kids are a "blessing" and the "greatest thing in your life", etc... of which I agree....

However - very few will EVER speak honestly and cadidly about the TOLL kids take on a marriage.

2007-10-09 07:01:36 · 25 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My son's father and i aren't together for different reasons, but mainly because we have completley different lifestyles. He likes to drink and party every day, and I don't want that around my son. I have been dating my current boyfriend now for over a year, but have known him since my son was born. He has good morals and values, and is great with my son. I still live with my parents and am in college, and he(my boyfriend) lives an hour away. I can't afford to move out on my own because I am in school full-time and only work part time which isn't enough . My boyfriend is planning on moving close to me, and recently mentioned us living together ((my parents and i are ready for me to move). I have always been against moving in with your bf or gf before marriage, but now i am starting to consider it. We do plan on getting married within the next couple years. I Just don't want to jump and make a decision without thinking about the consequences. I just need some helpful advice.

2007-10-09 07:00:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-09 06:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by NG 2 in Marriage & Divorce