i was hoping that telling him im needy would either stop him from moving forward with me or let him know that, in order to continue, he would need to give me what i wanted. ive been trying to avoid him because i know that i am going to end up hurt and that is because he doesn't give me what i want and need even after the heads up.any advice?
2007-10-09 07:03:37 · 8 answers · asked by ..((~babarskiz~)).. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you that telling him you're needy would either scare him off or make him realize what he's getting into if he proceeds. It sounds like it has scared him off. If he's not willing to take the next step, you should start looking elsewhere.
2007-10-09 07:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are already anticipating that the relationship is not going to be satisfying to you or your partner, you should either sit down and talk about what you can do to help one another, or end the relationship.
From what you've expressed, it sounds like you're going to be better off ending the relationship. You seem to need more than he's able to provide, and you don't seem to have much faith or trust in him.
2007-10-09 07:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by raindreamer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't getting what you need in the relationship, it's time to move on. Avoiding someone or hoping they will make the first move to break up is a passive-aggressive way of dealing with it. Just say what you mean and mean what you say.
2007-10-09 07:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by EazyBreezy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If you already know he won't give you what you want and need then why keep trying. He's not the only man in the world!
2007-10-09 07:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by cutie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
c'mon, give us some details. You can't expect an answer with so little info. Is pegging him in the butt with a dildo what you needed? If so, I understand why he wouldn't want to give you what you needed. If all you want is a little more quality time, then he might be a dick. How should I know?
2007-10-09 07:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by JakeZula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not giving you what you asked for or need, right? If that's the case, then why bother sticking around? It's not like he is going to change or anything...he won't. He's already proven that.
2007-10-09 07:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him and look for someone who will treat you better. this guy isn't about to, he pretty much told you that....sorry, looks like you're back to square one....
2007-10-09 07:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to find someone that would treat u better
2007-10-09 07:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋