He said he needs time to figure out our situation. Its been over 2 weeks now. Is he gonna call or has he moved on. He doesnt answer my calls and texts me only once in a while. I'm so confused. HELP!
2007-10-09 07:14:33 · 21 answers · asked by Lizzy11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't run after him Lizzy. I raised 3 sons and that just makes most guys retreat further away. Let HIM wonder what you are doing.~~~ It's been a long time since I had a broken heart,
I will always remember how it feels & I hurt for you.
It will be so nice if he doesn't keep you hanging for his answer, but will be straight forward, one way or the other.
If it's painful to you, then it may as well be now, so you can dust yourself off & not make the same mistakes again. You would be surprised at what may lay ahead for you. Be patient sweetie !! I know the heart hurts & the rejection of it is the worst part. If it doesn't work out, only time and staying busy will heal the hurt.
Good luck & Blessing to you ~~~~~jill
2007-10-09 07:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...the guy is a jerk! If he cared about you he would not be treating you this way. I know it hurts to hear this, but the best thing you could do to yourself is move on. He doesn't deserve you. He is keeping you hanging on because he knows he can. Text him and tell him that you have had enough of this silly game playing and have decided that you don't want to hear from him ever again. I bet you anything that within 3 days time if you don't call or text him, he will be running back to you. What one can't have is always more appealing. But if you are smart, you will tell him to get lost and then go out and find yourself a guy that will treat you right!
Best wishes!!!!
2007-10-09 07:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by ceegt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all Lizzy, relax and take a deep breath. A few more details would have useful. He has to get his mindset. Although you should be at his side helping trying to figure a way out of your relationship problems. Really no one can help him, but you. Be calm and rational with him(cause we men can't be that. We are by nature irrational) I'm sure 98% of the women who read this will agree. I say if he is not man enough to have you at his side through this crisis. Then chances are he won't be in it for much longer. Take care Lizzy and good luck.
2007-10-09 07:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kaelis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm sad to say that I think he has either moved on or is keeping you on the back-burner while he explores someone else.
When a guy says "I need time to figure things out" it is just a stall method because he feels to bad to just say to your face that he does not want to be with you anymore. Figure what out? One knows who they want or don't want to be with; and if he claims he doesn't know than you deserve better.
I say turn the table son him. Be strong and move on yourself! When he finds out he'll be extremely jealous and worried. You can kiss him goodbye then and tell him you don't waste time and people who are unsure about you. Sounds like he is not expecting this from you so it would be a good surprise!
*Always keep the ball in your court.
2007-10-09 07:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hes acting hard to get. Just dont act like you need him and the tables will turn. In any case, if he needs time to gigure it out now, and is taking this long, you may be on rocky water once again even if you get back together.
2007-10-09 07:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by boyinlove2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WE almost have the same situation. I have found what i think is part and only part of the answer. They don;t know what they want. IF he texted you he wants you to wait for him, just in case he wants you back. Here is the think you can;t wait for just in case. Go out and party go out and date; he can not be mad cuz he left you hanging. If you would of done the same he be with a bunch of girls trust me.
2007-10-09 07:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by likethat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is breaking your heart because you are letting him. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Realize your worth and stop settling for the bullshyt. Fall in love with your self. Recognize your beauty inside and out and adore it. Then others even him...will have no choice but to adore you.
2007-10-09 07:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by susieozbornehiphop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to move on, but doesn't have the guts to really break things off with you. This same thing has happened to a friend of mine, and that was the ultimate outcome unfortunately. I'm sorry, and I hope I'm wrong.
2007-10-09 07:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Brown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he maybe need some time Let him call you he not returning your calls maybe have moved on, but 2 weeks is not longer enough, give him more time.
2007-10-09 07:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Lady J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is "on the fence" about a relationship or taking a "break" or communicates very infrequently is NOT THAT INTO YOU. Please stop putting your life on hold for this man and MOVE ON. Odds are he's moved on too, but that's irrelevant. Even in the UNLIKELY event that he didn't dump you in this cowardly way, he's still not that into you to have done this.
2007-10-09 07:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋